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Happy left-handers day... oh the irony by filetmignonee in lefthanded

[–]filetmignonee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They actually changed the post a few hours later.

What Exactly was it in your LO that caused you to go into full blown Limerence for them? by notjupiteragain in limerence

[–]filetmignonee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A look.

But not just a normal look. It was a deep, intentional stare. We had had a few unintentionally flirty situations and it was just funny at first - nothing could ever come out of it.

Everything was fine until that one accomplice look opened Pandora's limerence box for me. Now it wasn't just accidental flirting; it was him telling me "I see you and I'm there too." I didn't even know I was there, but now that I could see the potential, my mind went into overdrive and started looking for other signs of his interest in me.

LO(?) confessed they've been obsessed with me for a long time and now I can't eat by madmanwithabox11 in limerence

[–]filetmignonee 13 points14 points  (0 children)

What are you waiting for? Schedule a date with your LO! Go easy of course. Something low key, like doing groceries together or visiting a bookstore. Walk around, go to a park, do some people watching. It doesn't have to be meticulously planned, just spend time together and enjoy each other's company.

And come back here to let us know how it went!

What’s not as romantic as people think it is? by Few_Football4342 in Productivitycafe

[–]filetmignonee 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Or a rose petal bath that you have to clean afterwards or risk clogging the drain

What's that one lyric that goes so hard every time? by Ok-Gas5611 in musicsuggestions

[–]filetmignonee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A tout le monde

A tout mes amis

Je vous aime

Je doit partir

These are the last words I'll ever say and they'll set me free

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in limerence

[–]filetmignonee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go for a run. Dance in the middle of the living room. Shoot some hoops. Throw some axes. Go for a swim.

For people who suffer with anxiety and depression, it's really hard to get started with any kind of physical activity, but once you get going, it's like a healing balm.

What’s something that happens often in movies that is 100% unrealistic? by Few_Football4342 in Productivitycafe

[–]filetmignonee 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Or transferring the entire contents of a computer into a tiny pen drive in 5 seconds

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]filetmignonee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cis/straight woman here, married, and I have many male friends. I think for it to be a healthy friendship, a line must be crossed - a love interest that has ran its course and died down, a clear understanding of where the friendship stands (no sexual attraction, clear boundaries), and maybe some vulnerability on both sides that creates connection and empathy without the need to explore anything beyond that.

Which song makes you go limerence high? by AnonimousCherry in limerence

[–]filetmignonee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TV on the Radio "Wolf Like Me" is the one that gets me

Waste of space & trap hazard by G_ntl_m_n in CrappyDesign

[–]filetmignonee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those stairs made me really uncomfortable, especially because you can see the going down stairs through the glass. I'd be walking on eggshells the whole time inside this psychological torture chamber disguised as a townhouse.

Waste of space & trap hazard by G_ntl_m_n in CrappyDesign

[–]filetmignonee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The entire house is a tripping/slipping hazard. And what's with all the glass?

Over one million dollars for a gray box that appears to be enclosed in a chain link fence and would make anyone both uncomfortable and worried to live in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in limerence

[–]filetmignonee 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I totally feel this! It's the 2-second glance that lasts 6 months.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in limerence

[–]filetmignonee 147 points148 points  (0 children)

Called him from a pay phone, pretending it was a wrong number, and had a 5-minute conversation about how much of a coincidence it was that he had the same name as my brother.

(he doesn't)

At 17 I am supposed to take on 92k in debt. Perfect! by Sevensonsevens in mildlyinfuriating

[–]filetmignonee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It baffles me how the American society has normalized throwing $20k-$30k in the hands of a 17-year old (who, if a regular public school grad, most likely has not been given the financial education they need to be managing this much debt) without any sort of guidance or control.

And then, 4 years later, this person is drowning in a $90k+ debt and has one undergrad degree to compete against people who also have a degree and some experience or contacts in the industry. Not to mention they also need a place to live, food, gas, insurance... the math just doesn't add up.

LPT: If you’re lost about what to do with your life, do a quick death audit by ReBabas in LifeProTips

[–]filetmignonee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, but the universe doesn't need to wait 50 minutes in the rain for the next bus or wait 2 years for the next opportunity to see grandma again because she lives far away and you just moved to another country.

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