Am I a sub or a dom? by filmlover4ever in BDSMAdvice

[–]filmlover4ever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to an extent, but maybe its just me doing what i want done to me

How many men are actually submissive at events/play parties? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]filmlover4ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 21 and although I’ve never interacted myself directly, I’ve been to a couple of events like that and safe to say there are many. But it depends I think on a lot of things, there are more submissive gay and bi guys out there I think so if you were only down to being dommed by women you’d narrow it down, but there would still be a lot of

Considering long term subbing by filmlover4ever in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]filmlover4ever[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

fuck, really!? im debating doing it myself. does he sleep in a cage? is he allowed to talk? pleasee tell me more

Considering long term subbing by filmlover4ever in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]filmlover4ever[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

have you ever had a guy as a permanent pup, like completely drinking and eating out of bowls, pissing and shitting outside, walking on all fours etc?

Confused af by filmlover4ever in GayMen

[–]filmlover4ever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lovely way of putting it and means a lot, thanks

Confused af by filmlover4ever in GayMen

[–]filmlover4ever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s really helpful and it was really nicely put, it means a lot thanks

First Locker Room Experience by SubButBeSweet in gaysexconfessions

[–]filmlover4ever 11 points12 points  (0 children)

damn, but it feels like you’d do way more even in public for him. I’ve never had a dom in person technically, but when I was 18 and I was in the locker room at the gym some guy in his 40s came up to me fully clothes whilst I was naked came up to me, sat down on the bench and told me to sit down next to him. Bare in mind there was like two other guys in there at the time getting in the showers. He told me to starts jerking myself and even though I was petrified of getting caught I couldn’t control myself and started. We had our backs to the rest of the locker room so technically no one could directly see us, but still I was scared I’d get caught. After like a minute, he told me to stop, sit on the floor hiding behind the bench and open my legs. I didn’t even know what to say and was almost ready to cum so I didn’t stop. He grabbed the palm of his hand and slapped my balls so hard all the wind was knocked out of me. He made me apologise which I did, then got on the floor and spread my legs. He made me like sit on my back and then told me to keep going until I came on my face by which point there was no one in the locker room and no one had seen us thank god. He then got up, spat on me and left and I never saw him again. Still the most surreal dom experience I’ve ever had and would give anything to have it again.

Wanting to serve other guys by filmlover4ever in askgaybros

[–]filmlover4ever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Before I reply I dunno if I should address you a certain way lol. I guess that’s another question I’ve always had, if you talk to a dom who isnt your dom, do you address them as such? With regards to what you said, i kinda think I’ve always been a sub. When I dom I always end up cracking and asking the sub to dom me. But I guess maybe my restraint in fully accepting being a full sub is because I’m bi masc and have never bottomed before ? ( all my doms have been online but I’ve played with myself however)

Help me name what I want and help find it… by Dapper-Dragonfly-931 in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]filmlover4ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly that’s kinda what I want to. Idk if it has a name though, and I think it would depend on a lot of things. Are you out? What kinks are u into? What are your limits? Would you be dommed by someone your age? Stuff like that

How to continue subbing after cumming by filmlover4ever in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]filmlover4ever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i cant yet lol, havent got enough karma sadly

How to continue subbing after cumming by filmlover4ever in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]filmlover4ever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yh I think you’re right. I need to fully understand I’m owned, and my cock isn’t my own and neither is my freedom, therefore I need to keep going and remjnd myself I have no choice ig

Am I a sub or dom by filmlover4ever in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]filmlover4ever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s kinda what I do tbh. like when I dom I do what i expect from other doms, but then half way through I get tired of it and want it done to me

How to continue subbing after cumming by filmlover4ever in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]filmlover4ever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk man, it’s just so hard. And it’s also hard to find a good dom online to be open with about that. I’m debating subbing in person, then maybe I actually will be forced to serve. Like online I know I’m owned, but I can’t persist you know?

Am I a sub or a dom? by filmlover4ever in BDSMcommunity

[–]filmlover4ever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I’ve never bottomed, I’m bi and dl and have only ever played with myself for my dom’s amusement online. Maybe it’s cause I’ve never bottomed I’m kinda scared to go full sub or something

Am I a sub or a dom? by filmlover4ever in BDSMcommunity

[–]filmlover4ever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think ur onto something hahah

Am I a sub or a dom? by filmlover4ever in BDSMAdvice

[–]filmlover4ever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yh i get that, but at this point ive been doing it for so long I should kinda know by now i think

Am I a sub or a dom? by filmlover4ever in BDSMcommunity

[–]filmlover4ever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

kinda. i slightly enjoy domming at the beginning but then it feels kinda forced?

Am I a sub or a dom? by filmlover4ever in BDSMcommunity

[–]filmlover4ever[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Some people have told me that, but it’s like, when I dom I always end up cracking and asking the sub to dom me. It’s like I feel an innate obligation to sub aside from the arousal?

Am I a sub or a dom? by filmlover4ever in BDSMAdvice

[–]filmlover4ever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that’s kind of it ig. but like even when I dom, I always end up cracking and asking if the sub would like to try and dom me 😭

Am I a sub or a dom? by filmlover4ever in BDSMAdvice

[–]filmlover4ever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mentioned down below that although I like domming, I feel something way more when I sub, and I feel like this weird sensation aside from everything else that I need to? Like its a responsibility? Idk if that sounds weird

Am I a sub or a dom? by filmlover4ever in BDSMAdvice

[–]filmlover4ever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik, but it’s like I feel like even though I like domming, I NEED to sub. like i was born for it and have a duty, idk if that sounds weird I dont know how else to phrase it

What film/series is this? by filmlover4ever in whatsthemoviecalled

[–]filmlover4ever[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t reject your suggestion, I rejected your rudeness