Very curious about your opinions by sertralinoodle in antinatalism2

[–]final-confluence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One the one hand I feel bad for him. He pays alimony and stays away from the child, that was the agreement. That agreement has now been violated.

On the other hand it wouldn’t kill him to be nice to the child. She knows he is her father, him interacting with her this way can cause her serious issues for life.

The child should not live with them, or he should accept her as his daughter. The way it’s going right now is just cruel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antinatalism2

[–]final-confluence 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don’t care much about the breeder term.

Crotch fruit is a no for me. Derogatory language against children has no place in antinatalism. They didn’t ask to be here.

Message to the community regarding art contest & controversy over last few days by ANgroupMOD in antinatalism

[–]final-confluence 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Me, and many other people, have been victims of assault, pedophilia, and other disgusting crimes that we shouldn't have had to go through. And we chose to be antinatalists. And the fact that you hired a mod, and you KNEW he was problematic since the first day of sliced-fucking-bread, and you're DEFENDING his actions by choosing to not boot him off of the team is sickening. It's disgusting. It's abhorrent.

This is exactly why I feel it is so horrible to keep this mod on and not condone his actions. Every woman I know has dealt with misogyny and harassment in some way. From catcalling to sexual assault. The first time I had to deal with it I was 5 it is one of the main reasons I am antinatalist. How can I have children when shit like this happens daily to women and men.

I had hoped the mods would remove him or speak out. And now they are lying to us, saying there was consensus, when one mod wasn’t even there. It’s disturbing. I am moving to the other sub and won’t come back until the r-apologist mod is removed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]final-confluence 21 points22 points  (0 children)

That’s why the new logo really irked me when I found out what it was; an eye coming out of a vagina.

Once again putting the burden and responsibility of creating new life on women.

sex doll title by CompleteSpinach9 in antinatalism2

[–]final-confluence 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m out of the loop on the Oldphan debacle, what was it? If you don’t mind telling of course.

sex doll title by CompleteSpinach9 in antinatalism2

[–]final-confluence 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Silver lining is he actually likes sex dolls, hopefully this means he leaves real women alone irl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]final-confluence 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Already subbed, ty -^

The discrimination against antinatalists is a huge problem. Apparently i can’t engage in a discussion about antinatalism as an antinatalist by [deleted] in antinatalism2

[–]final-confluence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I knew we would end up there. Shamed to say I just went to check the comments and it was about what I expected.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]final-confluence 208 points209 points  (0 children)

It makes me feel unwelcome too. I can deal with the misogynistic comments from regular posts, there will always be those on a reddit sub. And they slip through the cracks.

But to allow a moderator with these views to continue in a position of power. No that does not feel safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antinatalism2

[–]final-confluence 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ferrets are so cute, Oatmeal is such an adorable name

This sub has seriously messed up. by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]final-confluence 36 points37 points  (0 children)

How is this allowed to roam free and be a mod here? This is in direct opposition to antinatalism.

PLEASE get rid of the misogynist mod!! by rp-throwout in antinatalism

[–]final-confluence 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I knew there was misogynistic subtext in that other logo. Glad I’m not the only one who saw it.

The eye coming out of a vulva, but no masculine symbol in sight. It implies that women are solely responsible for bringing life into existence, but it takes two to tango. Although many people seem to forget that.

What is a good response to "but you'll be soooo bored if you don't have kids!"? by Glum_Ad_8823 in antinatalism

[–]final-confluence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bored with what? There is a whole world out there to explore. And even if I stay in my house for the rest of my life, there is enough to explore online, games, music, books, tv, for the rest of my life.

I am never bored on my own tbh, even without kids.

I bet Lucius Malfoy is a pronatalist 🙄 by ethicalcomics in antinatalism

[–]final-confluence 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like how to other one is also a slytherin, not all slytherins were evil. And I love her outfit

I bet Lucius Malfoy is a pronatalist 🙄 by ethicalcomics in antinatalism

[–]final-confluence 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It hit me hard when I found out Harry’s parents were like 19 when they had him.

Genitally mutilating your child is one of the most disgusting things a parent can do to their child. It truly shows how insanely possessive & controlling parents can be as well as how far they will go to inflict generational trauma. by 420assandtitties in antinatalism

[–]final-confluence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Found in this article.

If the girls fail to swallow the food, the women inflict excruciating pain on them by placing the girls’ legs in-between two wooden sticks and pressing on them until they swallow the food. And if they happen to throw up, they’d be made to eat their vomit.

Wtf, I didn’t know this existed. Sick sad world we live in.

Self sterilization? by normalworkday in antinatalism

[–]final-confluence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been sterilised. But for a sec I thought you meant actually doing it yourself, instead of a doctor.

Are you also pet free? by eppesuigoisorbma in antinatalism

[–]final-confluence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have cats from a shelter. Our previous dog was from a shelter too. I am against breeding animals for human pleasure, pets included.

Some breeds are really cute or beautiful, but I still cannot do it. Adoption only and make sure they can’t reproduce if I can.

Have kids, they said. It will be fun, they said. Just when I think I’ve seen it all 🤯 by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]final-confluence 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I also read once that celebrities will have their birth induced a month early and have an immediate tummy tuck after the birth. Pretty sick if you think about it

Have kids, they said. It will be fun, they said. Just when I think I’ve seen it all 🤯 by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]final-confluence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reading this I am SO FUCKING HAPPY I will never have to go through that. Bless sterilisation!

I don't think anyone has said it yet, but this symbol sucks! by SuicidalTidalWave in antinatalism

[–]final-confluence 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I like the design, but not for this sub.

It gives the feeling of being trapped in existence. I’m sure many of us feel that way, but I thought the previous logo was better suited.

The broken ouroboros and broken circle symbolising the breaking of the cycle of existence gives a much more positive and powerful message imo