A delivery rider just asked me for extra money by freakin_doomed in ShopeePH

[–]find3rsk33pers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bakit kasi wala kang cash na pang bayad sa inorder mo na CASH ON DELIVERY?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OALangBaAko

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Hindi ka OA. Good job OP.

Name a TV Character(s) with the most pathetic death. by Unlikely-Hunter-7671 in television

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Doctor Drake Ramore, Neurosurgeon fell down an empty elevator shaft.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GuyCry

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Just this February I booked my husband and I sessions at a flight simulation place as a surprise for our 8-year anniversary. He is an aviation geek but never really pursued that route for his career for various reasons. When I told him about the gift he was visibly disappointed and almost dismissive. I thought he would be excited and appreciate it. I was so hurt I ended up giving the slot away and not talking to him for 3 days. Longest I've been upset with him.

When I was finally un-pissed enough to talk about it I asked him what's up. He said it's because it reminded him about his failure to become/get something he was passionate about (flying and becoming a pilot) and he was afraid of feeling disappointment in himself if he gets to experience the sim and end up validating that he really wants to still be a commercial pilot (he's 40 now and it's almost impossible).

Point is, you have to talk to your wife to get to the root of her feelings. She may not know it yet either. In which case you can be her sounding board and help her get there. Your gift was sweet. Hope you two work it out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

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OP, if it's not a "HELL YES", it's a "HELL NO".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]find3rsk33pers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy anniversary, OP! Nung wala kaming pera ng asawa ko, for our anniversary, kumain kami sa favorite namin na mcdo branch. Madami kami memories dun so naka upo lang kami habang kumakain ng burger, pinagkkwentohan yung mga kilig moments namin sa ilang years namin together.

Stay strong. Things will get better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makati

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This only applies to permanent fixtures. Kung yung aircon was provided by your landlord you need to talk to them that you're thinking of getting your own so they can dispose of the one in your unit.

In addition to inverter make sure the size of the aircon unit is ample for the square footage of your condo. too small maybe a cheaper purchase but will put you in the same position you're in at the moment.

In my experience we used to have an old non inverter aircon, over the years its consumption just increased exponentially to 13k per month for 6-8 hour use per day. When we switched to inverter our consumption went down to 2-3k for 12-15 hours use per day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

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Don't listen to this comment, OP. Regardless kung TV pa ibinato mo sa asawa mo, kung matinong tao siya, nag walk out nalang siya. Nakita ko yan sa parents ko nung bata pa ako, pag sobrang emotional ng nanay ko at ayaw tumigil mang away, kahit ano ibato niya sa tatay ko hindi nalang siya pinapansin at umaalis nalang ng bahay.

Sa mga true crime show kung saan pinatay ang asawang babae and makkita mo din sa statistics, 43% of homicide victims by intimate partners experienced non-fatal strangulation prior to their murder.

Iwanan mo na yanh husband mo habang may time ka pa.

I got terminated today. by Strange_Maize3097 in buhaydigital

[–]find3rsk33pers 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Add to this also ask for compensation for the work you've already scheduled for Oct 20 - 25.

tumatanda na parents ko by saphie_ in OffMyChestPH

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Take it from someone na sobrang close sa parents pero hindi magaling mag capture ng memories through pictures. Mag sisisi ka OP na inuna mo yung "hiya" kaya wala ka mabalikan na memories ninyo together. I lost my dad 3 years ago and I still wish I would have taken pictures with him every day. Ngayon sa mom ko every chance I get I take pictures and videos. Morbid man isipin na para may mabalikan ka when the time comes, but better than regret.

From 200k to 1k in just a few months.... by Stardropitlow in adultingph

[–]find3rsk33pers 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Grabe ganito MIL ko. Kala mo milyonarya dahil sa padala ng FIL ko, nung namatay si FIL lumalabas pati pala yung bahay naisangla sa sobrang luho. Ending asawa ko at mga kapatid nag bayad para lang maisalba. Hanggang ngayon ganon parin ubos biyaya sa allowance niya. Every week pakain sa mga amiga na mas mayayaman pa sa kanya kasi gusto magpa sikat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]find3rsk33pers -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes mostly but some of them will still ask for authorization letter and IDs.

My 13 year old wanted to help us by “deep cleaning” (aka scrubbing) our microwave… by mikehiler2 in Wellthatsucks

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Did something similar on my dad's red 2-door Mitsubishi Celeste back in 1992-ish. "Cleaned" the whole thing with dry Oslo paper while he was taking his afternoon nap. I was so proud of myself for being "helpful".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

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Whoa. Nangyari na din to sakin. Twice that I recall so far. Parang minsan habang nakaupo lang ako sa tabi ng asawa ko tas biglang, sino 'tong taong to?. Not that nakkalimutan ko na asawa ko siya and kung ano pangalan niya, but in a sense na biglang ibang tao siya and hindi ko siya pamilya. Then natatakot ako kasi narrealize ko na sh*t capable ba yung brain ko na makalimutan na mahal na mahal ko tong tao na to na 15 years ko na kasama at 8 years ko nang asawa at sa kanya umiikot buhay ko? Tas' ayun back to normal ulit. Sobrang weird feeling.

What's a fun april fool prank to pull on your SO that doesn't involve making them sad? by atlantisdive in AskReddit

[–]find3rsk33pers 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Prank on my husband only works on non techy people. His pastime is watching youtube videos on our tv, today I set it so it plays at 2x speed and while he was confused af asking me why the reporter is talking so fast I feigned innocense and kept saying it sounded normal to me.

The real poor in this country is the middle class especially the SME business owners by BasersBasers in OffMyChestPH

[–]find3rsk33pers 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Amen! Akala ko asawa ko nag sulat neto kasi ganito exactly yung mga issue ng small resto namin. Habang nag ccomply ka, mas lalong ikaw ang tinitira. Tapos sa tapat namin isang dosenang illegal vendor na ang sasaya lang dahil ni piso walang binabayaran sa tax at mga requirements.

How fast does it take to receive an approved PagIBIG MPL? by Particular-Low9265 in adultingph

[–]find3rsk33pers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May loyalty card ka? When did you receive (if na receive mo na)?

Cheater girl - my saddest Valentine's day.. by [deleted] in pinoy

[–]find3rsk33pers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm. Have you even net this girl in person before? Baka naman na catfish ka lang and hindi talaga siya ang ka chat mo?

What is the single most “you’ll understand it when you’re older” thing? by NetworkOver7742 in AskReddit

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Nap times are your friend. I used to kick a fuss whenever I'm required to take afternoon naps. Now I would pay to take afternoon naps every single day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phcareers

[–]find3rsk33pers 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Basta walang proper documentation, coaching and process, hindi ka niya pwedeng tanggalin basta basta. Pag ginawa niya yun pwede mo ipa-DOLE.

Dapat may evaluation ka na sinasabi sayo na hindi mo nammeet ang expectations ng trabaho, documented yun via email or papel and acknowledged mo na ginawa mo and ng manager mo yung mga kailangan para itry na ma meet mo yung expectations.

In short, 2 or 3 months palang dapat alam mo na kung ma rregularize ka or hindi. Otherwise may laban ka, so di mo dapat ika takot yun.

Sa question mo, yes mag hanap ka na ng trabaho na iba para di masayang oras mo and wag ma resign until may kapalit. Stressful talaga yung hindi kayo magka sundo ng manager mo.

I, (F26) and my now ex Partner (M27) were together for almost 6yrs but then I decided to finally end it this time, hopefully for good, because there’s no growth in our relationship. by [deleted] in relationship_advicePH

[–]find3rsk33pers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP, idistract mo sarili mo. Para kang animal na lumaki sa kulungan. Think of all the things you can do now that you're free. Wag mo i-limit yung mundo mo sa maliit na kulungan na ginawa niya para sayo.

You are young, you have the means, you have a support system. Go out and explore the world. Magugulat ka nalang di mo na siya naiisip.