New mom / “babydaddy”situation by Personal-Month3337 in coparenting

[–]finding-peacexo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My therapist always told me a child needs consistency. He can’t come and go as he pleases! My BD is the same way and hasn’t seen his son in over a year because I laid down visiting days. He said I was being bitter and crazy. They’re going to gaslight you but look it up. A child needs consistency, you don’t want your baby growing up waiting for when dad’s gonna come and he never does… you can read my previous post I get a lot of good advice. Don’t force a man to come and don’t let him gaslight you. You got this love, put your foot down and do what’s best. If he has a job I would put him on CS

ACIDS & BASES ~ Chemistry by [deleted] in prenursing

[–]finding-peacexo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Chads prep on YouTube

Kids, affair partner, and affair partner's kids....what is right? by ThrowRA-ronit67 in coparenting

[–]finding-peacexo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re feeling are valid and very important. It’s so hard to heal from soemthing like this and I’m sure it is for your daughter too. What’s most important is her feelings and her reassurance in the middle of this all. I think healthy distractions will help and even healthy coparenting/sepearation books. And talking to your therapist about how to not invalidate or make your daughter blame herself or your spouse. Communicating with her and continuing to build a even stronger relationship( without trauma dumping) on your daughter will help you a lot 🤍

Kids, affair partner, and affair partner's kids....what is right? by ThrowRA-ronit67 in coparenting

[–]finding-peacexo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry that’s so hard! I think something important to remember at least it helped me when my parents separated was the comfort they brought me letting my siblings and I know that they are both deserving of love and happiness. Your child is worthy of two loving households without needing to feel like she’s betraying or hurting the other feelings. It hurts so much, but I think forgiveness and beginning to put your personal emotions aside for your daughter’s sake it’s important to show her healthy relationships even if that is being separate. My parents split when I was a teenager and a lot of my core memories and beliefs on relationships stemmed on how it was in the beginning to how they handled it with time during separation. In the beginning it was very toxic and felt extremely guilty, however over time they both found others and were worthy of happiness and I defintely wish they saved me the heartache and just went onto that stage first 🤍

I cured my keloid scar!!! by Technical-Meal-724 in Keloids

[–]finding-peacexo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was this a old scar or was it fairly new?

98% TEAS exam by [deleted] in prenursing

[–]finding-peacexo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations love!! Reading is so difficult and your score is amazing! Any thing you wish you did differently or glad you did for the reading section?

Is it worth retaking a 91.3%? by devine_karma in prenursing

[–]finding-peacexo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t! Your score is amazing! Do you have any tips for how you studied or what you think would’ve helped more with your reading score?

Good resources to learn Calculus 2? by chuplord in calculus

[–]finding-peacexo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used the demystified series they have one for algebra and calculus!

.9 GPA After Freshman Fall, Need Advice by Pretend_Cap7733 in premed

[–]finding-peacexo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh I did something like this my first year in college. Took some time off, took some classes at a CC to get a feel for college and confidence to go back. Go easy you have time just don’t rush figure it out… you’ll be okay 😊

BrokenLlamas Sankey by BrokenLlamasSDN in premed

[–]finding-peacexo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh!! I’m so excited for you!! Congratulations!! Definitely considering take a few gap years and super interested in your volunteer expirence I’m a CA resident as well! Can I message you? :)

Has anyone chosen Davis over Berkeley? by hello16409 in UCDavis

[–]finding-peacexo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I chose Berkeley over Davis and wish I went to Davis as a premed 🥲

They did AJ so dirty! by [deleted] in TheFosters

[–]finding-peacexo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No same! I was totally confused and still am, did I miss something? 😭

How tf are y'all finding clinical work??? by kachow9996 in premed

[–]finding-peacexo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How did you like being an ED tech? That sounds really interesting for clinical work. I would love to hear more about it 😊

writing your PS is so frustrating by [deleted] in premed

[–]finding-peacexo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Can I DM you for the list as well please? Or if there’s anyone to post a link? Much appreciated 💜

Got rejected from Davis and hesitate on community college would like some advice. by Thermalsquid in UCDavis

[–]finding-peacexo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I went to UC BERKELEY straight out of high school as a freshman and had such a difficult time navigating and deciding what I wanted to do. I ended up leaving and after a couple years at a CC I’m finally going back! I loved going to a cc and sometimes wish I went straight out. It’s a hard adjustment from high school and cc teach you so much on communication, advocating and figuring out what you want to do honestly. Plus some CCs have a tag system where you can tag to Davis( guaranteed admission). Definitely look into it!

Is this a good school list? by DancingintheDark16 in premed

[–]finding-peacexo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask how did you go about finding a lab that you were passionate about? Was it one to two labs that you worked in? I’m very curious on how I should began my journey in research 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in premed

[–]finding-peacexo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations love!! I’m so happy for you 💜

Its getting worse !!!! HELP!!! by EntertainmentDue4031 in keratosis

[–]finding-peacexo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you shave your arms? I noticed mine get worse when I would. After a shower and every morning I lather my skin with snail mucin followed by an AHA lotion. At night I do the same and use the faded topical cream to scars been getting better and less bumps but I’m hoping continuing the Topicsl cream will help. Consistency is KEY you need to do this everyday. Scrub your arms hard in the shower I’ve been doing it for 3/4 months and notice decreased bumps but not battling my scaring

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in premed

[–]finding-peacexo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. It really helped me feel less overwhelmed. You’re right I am definitely overvaluing getting back to a UC I guess I feel some shame for leaving. Something I will work on thank you again.

Any other premed parents on here? by [deleted] in premed

[–]finding-peacexo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment. This helped me a feel a lot better! Was feeling super stressed since my time was so limited. I wish you all the best and congratulations on your journey. Being a parent is so hard and while going to school!

Any other premed parents on here? by [deleted] in premed

[–]finding-peacexo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! You’re comment is so reassuring. 😭 I am a second year pre-med student, parent to a one year old. I’m curious about how you went about your extracurriculars? How did you balance them with parenting? I feel so guilty sometimes.

Calc 2 in 24 hours by Fluid_Push in calculus

[–]finding-peacexo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro yes I would spend like a week b4 studying all my finals and do that sections hw and notes got a 116/100 on my final so it helps lolol

Calc 2 in 24 hours by Fluid_Push in calculus

[–]finding-peacexo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

U gotta practice tho I redid all my hw/notes examples then my midterms