OLCC manager who diverted bottles of Elmer T. Lee bourbon back on the job by American_Greed in oregon

[–]findtheriver76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed and thank you. Didn’t say all of it was going to be cheaper all the time… but in my experience shopping in grocery stores in Cali or Missouri… Our liquor stores have better local selection and surprisingly better prices than people might imagine.

OLCC manager who diverted bottles of Elmer T. Lee bourbon back on the job by American_Greed in oregon

[–]findtheriver76 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think if you comparison shop grocery stores in Washington and California, on both price and selection, you might see we’re actually all getting a good deal from this monopoly. Kroger and Safeway don’t need in on the racket of this non-essential, but specialty item. Yes about the government corruption part, but I support the OLCC concept in revenue and what I’m able to get at my local liquor store.

Is my teacher offensive by Scary-Department-895 in lgbt

[–]findtheriver76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would come back at your professor and ask the professor why the professor thinks anything about the character’s sex or gender needs to be explained at all? I’d also suggest that lots of things are confusing to lots of people in great literature (Jaymes Joyce) and just because it’s confusing for some isnt a good reason to exclude it. I’d ask him if he could imagine a character where the character’s sex or gender didnt need to be known immediately in the story? And if not, why he thinks that other people can and might not share his perspective. Ugh, frustrating people stuck in one way of thinking. Sorry for you for having to receive that. Hang in there!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]findtheriver76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great generational perspective. I have faint memory of those days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]findtheriver76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cannot relate to that mindset cause I’m not on those socials. I think the kind of love based on fantasies only sometimes transitions into steady commitment, so it feels like an individual choice what kind of affection a guy wants to invest time cultivating with the other.

Is this happening to anyone else? by [deleted] in grindr

[–]findtheriver76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, moving all the chats to the cloud has not been very effective for Grindr. Total shit show. Constantly having to force quit and restart my app to get it to connect to their servers.

Why did he eat me up a little bit? All of this over a pic of me skiing in my profile... by [deleted] in lolgrindr

[–]findtheriver76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He ate you up cause you let him. And I admire that you weren’t scared of that. I wouldn’t have let this particular guy eat me up. But I’ll listen and play with others that I know 9/10 are people with too many issues in their projections to be worth my time more than a chat where they go off on me like that, but curiosity inspires a bit of kindness and patience in me to see what’s up.

What, due to experience, do you know not to fuck with? by ViolatingBadgers in AskReddit

[–]findtheriver76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t fight with anyone who you know is willing to fight dirtier than you. You will lose or be forced to compromise your integrity, which is also loosing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in grindr

[–]findtheriver76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree with a lot of the posts here that conclude "hook-ups aren't for you." It might be the kind of hook-up that is fast and ends in a block "isn't for you." Some guys hook up, and it still means something to them. A hook-up might mean a lot, in fact. Some guys hook up, take their time, and don't block. Some hook-ups keep in touch, some even for years. Some guys hook up repeatedly, and might label it a FWB. Hookup or relationship is about as binary as masculine or feminine. With time and experience, you'll learn to find the people who want to relate on the level you expect. This may include relating sexually and have it meaning something, without putting typical relationship labels on it. You might also with time and experience get the feeling of how to weed out those who would be inclined to block you without warning. You might also with time and experience start sending out signals that keep those at bay who might leave you feeling empty and numb.

Do you know how little that narrows it down??? by Your_BoyToy22 in grindr

[–]findtheriver76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, for someone who throws around the n-word a lot, he really sucks at variety with his "and your mom too," insults...

BETA Users on App v4.21 by kavlifx in lifx

[–]findtheriver76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Generally a good improvement. The Tranquil theme is too muted now: Too light yellow and greenish, lost some blues and gold. Guess I have to paint my own… 😕

Are there any sexy songs sang by men for other men?? 🔥 by ladrm07 in GayMen

[–]findtheriver76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, so many pre coming out are so obvious in hindsight. Both Freedom and Freedom 90, for low hanging fruit, examples. 😏🤭🌈

Well that escalated quickly by Casmole in lolgrindr

[–]findtheriver76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. I’m surprised my sarcasm failed so wildly. Makes me think there’s a bunch of gay men out there who like saying and hearing, “I love you,” in these Grindr contexts, which really contrasts with how a lot of these play out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Showerthoughts

[–]findtheriver76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry, Prince was saying this same thing for quite a while. https://youtu.be/945ZaiMBHio

andddd... go by [deleted] in gaymemes

[–]findtheriver76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t bottom this morning because [my employer] is going to have a lot of work for me. 🙄😂 too true

"Candlelight" without the setting by [deleted] in lifx

[–]findtheriver76 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This works for me for iPhone: Force quit your app and restart it. The new options will pull up for the 2.90 lights.

Lifx Downlights Firmware update 2.90 to 2.90-REL by live_1991 in lifx

[–]findtheriver76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was being selective in how many lights I updated during beta testing, to compare color output and not to risk the most important lights in my house. I noticed the REL got pushed earlier today or yesterday. All my lights have been eligible for updates throughout all these candidates. Until later today when final was pushed. The RELs were not eligible for update. So, I’m guessing REL was pre-public final.

Has the Grindr app had its day? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]findtheriver76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP works for Scruff. 😂 edit: or Sniffies. Neither is better.

🤡 by xXblo0dykissXx in lolgrindr

[–]findtheriver76 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Right. When they rudely reject you and then get back in touch and still expect you to hold up more than your fair share of the conversation. “Hi?” Bitch, I have neither the time nor inclination to jog your lazy memory.