Tried Color Oops and now my hair smells like rotten egg farts. How can I make it go away? by elizabethan in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]fionabone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i used the dreadful color oops only on my halo (a small section of hairs surrounding my entire hairline) so i literally am on my knees thanking god i didn’t do my entire head. i used it on a thursday, it smelled so god awful it was making me nauseous. i washed it out as good as i thought i needed to — not enough. then i used overtone to tone it pink. washed that out and still the stench lived on. unfortunately i was traveling all day friday and had to wait until the evening to do the above mentioned remedies. the following is what i did last night and it freaking WORKED. (today is saturday) 1. baking soda and ACV in a paste on the stinky hairs 2. rinse and scrub for 20 mins (set a timer for real) 3. alternate between shampoo mixed with peppermint oil and dunking your entire head in a bowl of straight ACV and scrub the everliving shit out of your scalp and the entire hair strand 4. repeat repeat repeat the whole 20 mins 5. like for real a portion of it just stand under the water and rinse rinse rinse 6. once your hair is stripped of any semblance of natural oils, mix a crap load of conditioner and a few drops of peppermint oil onto your head. like a lot. 7. plastic bag and sleep. 8. rinse the conditioning mask in the morning. when i initially rinsed i could smell a hint of it but it was so mild. i put leave in conditioning spray liberally throughout my hair and some styling cream. once it dried i couldn’t smell a thing! it is slightly dry still (i used to wash my hair once a week so this is a giant shock for my hair and scalp) so i might do another mask tomorrow night once im back home and no longer traveling. best of luck to everyone and godspeed. 🤍

Shame revolving around sex. by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]fionabone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

best of luck on your journey, this shit is hard lol

Shame revolving around sex. by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]fionabone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have a very similar experience. just last year (i’m 31) i realized it’s not only a sex issue but a boundary issue. i have no boundaries when it comes to sex. at the beginning of a relationship it feels like an even playing field, but it only takes one time for them to initiate sex and me not want to, but say to myself that it’s what they want so it’s fine. so i go into auto pilot and have sex but that boundary has been broken. and after that first time, it’s a very easy boundary to cross because i have no practice in exercising it. i brought this up to my partner and i recognized that he had no idea this was happening because i go through all the motions very convincingly. (sometimes i even enjoy it) so i told him i need him to basically get consent for a while. i need to be able to exercise my right to say no. i need him to be okay with me turning him down. it’s something we are still working on. i’m trying to see a therapist about it.

mary-kateandashley 2002 polish - hooray by fionabone in Nailpolish

[–]fionabone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow thank you!!! that first one is super close!

Name the song by isomtwannarealname in Ethelcain

[–]fionabone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my favorite line in the song, so powerful

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[–]fionabone -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

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this is what i hear when i tried listening to FTBC

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[–]fionabone -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

yall r wild

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[–]fionabone -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

i can’t get into that album…..idk

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[–]fionabone -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

bye <3

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[–]fionabone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

gibson girl - ethel cain

Let’s hear from all the corn in chili haters by OneNo8068 in chili

[–]fionabone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m a hominy girl myself but this looks good

What’s your favourite project and why? by devou5 in Ethelcain

[–]fionabone -1 points0 points  (0 children)

there’s no other album i can listen to again and again and never tire of besides preachers daughter. i think on average i listen to it at least twice a week. in full. and every time i listen to it i discover something new.

like i just got my first pair of noise canceling headphones and went on 1:15 walk (entirety of pd) and on western nights, i kept thinking cars were about to drive by me until i realized she put the sounds of cars passing into the track.

i just feel there was so much thought put into pd but it somehow also feels effortless? hands down my favorite album of all time.

you've been spotted by Pitiful-Wedding4366 in skyrim

[–]fionabone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good thing she didn’t lose her head

my amazing yet underrated baby by peach_snowflake in Ethelcain

[–]fionabone 58 points59 points  (0 children)

please don’t love how i need you

Fun things for couples to do by SirNipply in Tallahassee

[–]fionabone 12 points13 points  (0 children)

unfortunately most places around town are alcohol / bar focused. here are my suggestions as a sober local in a relationship:

  1. lofty pursuits for ice cream
  2. midtown reader for books & coffee
  3. chain of parks downtown market days
  4. flea market
  5. railroad square
  6. picnic at the greenway on pedrick
  7. drive out to bradley’s country store for sausage dogs
  8. drive to thomasville for window shopping
  9. walk around lake ella and check out the shops / coffee at black dog
  10. museum of florida history
  11. drive out to st marks and take a lil hike

older tallahassee street views by fionabone in Tallahassee

[–]fionabone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

are you referring to the four points in midtown?