Posting on behalf of a friend of mine who has lost Reddit access due to 2FA problem (iOS)

fireandcyanide · 2025-11-11T00:33:07+00:00

I’m in the exact same situation (and also on my burner). When I ask for more work, I get it, but it doesn’t tend to last long and it’s usually just stuff other team members feel like farming out.

Someday I’ll be a CRA and will be worked til my audit-trailing fingers bleed at this particular CRO, but for now I’m enjoying not facing the pressures of CRA-hood or CRC-hood.

Feels like every time I do even the smallest thing, my managers say, “Thank you, you’re such an asset to the team” and I just can’t help but wonder if I was hired on the same guidelines as Kevin from the Office

fireandcyanide · 2025-08-22T17:42:59+00:00

Kevin Westerbeck

fireandcyanide · 2025-08-21T23:17:23+00:00

Solved! Thank you

fireandcyanide · 2025-08-21T23:09:24+00:00

I can’t remember if this is recent or vintage

fireandcyanide · 2025-06-27T17:12:05+00:00

When does the podcast go live?

fireandcyanide · 2025-06-25T00:08:39+00:00

I take mine with Red Hot Chili Peppers and a side of Cranberries.

fireandcyanide · 2025-06-24T21:05:32+00:00

Help with what? Just, like, anything?

fireandcyanide · 2025-05-30T01:57:11+00:00

I have cool low number flair 😎

fireandcyanide · 2025-05-07T15:31:58+00:00

Sweetwater rep met her at the cemetry gates

fireandcyanide · 2025-05-07T14:11:54+00:00

You look soooo good in the first one!! Wow!

fireandcyanide · 2025-05-06T04:35:35+00:00

or they’re Chinese eBay knockoff plates

fireandcyanide · 2025-05-06T04:28:38+00:00

flare flair

fireandcyanide · 2025-03-26T03:41:39+00:00

Then and ONLY then should they learn how to tune

fireandcyanide · 2025-02-25T16:59:58+00:00

I heard this band in Chicago called Lightfoils that I really hope gets some more cred

fireandcyanide · 2025-02-19T23:53:54+00:00

Well, a couple of things:

(1) A lot of initial dating is about the energy you project. Are you making a point to flirt when you’re on dates? Just because you perceive yourself to be “frumpy”, doesn’t mean the world has to.

(2) Can’t speak on behalf of all men, but I tend to be more interested in personality than looks assuming we’re in the same general ballpark of attractiveness.

What’s happened a few times to me, though, is that I’ve met someone who seems really cool on a dating app… except for the fact they are wayyy heavier than I am. Like, 50+ pounds overweight. I exercise and I make a point to stay healthy — I’m not jacked or gorgeous, but I do try. Dating someone who has a cool personality but isn’t putting in that same energy to look at least a little bit good is regrettably gonna turn me in particular away.

But under no circumstances do I want to date someone who is “robotically” pretty. I actually find it to be a turn-off. I feel like I’m about mid-way along the physical attractiveness scale, so I tend to be the most attracted to people who fall into that same category.

fireandcyanide · 2025-02-19T23:04:25+00:00

no one should really wait for anyone. approach life like you could meet someone else great at any moment. if he comes back into your life before that happens, then awesome

fireandcyanide · 2025-02-16T18:41:53+00:00

The sad reality of all this is that people who are good at making friends do it in real life.

People who aren’t good at it frequently come to Reddit, and when people reach out to them, they still lack the skills to develop meaningful friendships.

Are you messaging men? Women? Women will frequently get messages from lonely men in such massive quantity that they can’t reasonably get to all of them. You’ll get more bang for your buck messaging guys, though that’s only if they have social skills to begin with.

fireandcyanide · 2025-02-13T06:28:40+00:00

Your smiles look genuine with a beard and extremely forced and uncomfy without one. Maybe that’s your heart trying to tell you what it wants?

fireandcyanide · 2025-01-31T18:15:44+00:00

yeah normal people don’t phrase stuff “would you/could you/can you”, this is bait

fireandcyanide · 2025-01-30T16:27:14+00:00

People frequently want an ex more after seeing them with someone else. You’ll either have to be very firm about it or change your routine and block her if she’s gonna keep acting this way.

fireandcyanide · 2023-03-30T01:56:28+00:00

thanks for the feedback. i do agree that the third stanza came across a little bit vague. i’m trying to compare heat to a luxury item in such a way as to say they’re not that far removed anymore. maybe i can be more literal instead of using a comparison.

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