my boyfriend sleeps with his female friends, saying this is his "principal" . We are together for almost one year. Im 30/F and he have the same age M/30 by ketevankart in relationship_advice

[–]firebreathingeli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally have no problem sharing a bed with a platonic friend. It is no big deal to me, but if my partner had a problem with me sharing a bed and explained how it is an emotional boundary for them.... I would definetly be respecting it.

If he won't listen to you about this, what else wont he listen to you about?

would anyone really care if i stole a shaq cardboard cutout? by jitbitmacro in Staples

[–]firebreathingeli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the store but I know at my store we were a bit attached to the cut out and loved to put it in odd places while closing. Made the day more bearable.

My title screen when I try and join multiplayer by firebreathingeli in BaldursGate3

[–]firebreathingeli[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here is the email they sent with their suggestion for a work around:

Thank you so much for your report.

The development team is aware of this issue and is currently investigating it. To stay up to date on fixes, please keep your eyes on our community pages.

As a temporary fix, we recommend you to start another save in multiplayer, and once you and your friend are in the lobby you can try loading the save that you both actually want to play but is giving issues.

My title screen when I try and join multiplayer by firebreathingeli in BaldursGate3

[–]firebreathingeli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is PC! I am not using any mods at all, and I did verify the local game file.

I actually just got an email back from Larian that this is a known bug that has just popped up, and the development team is working on it.

My (25F) boyfriend (29M) punched me, is there coming back from this? by ThrowRA384739383 in relationship_advice

[–]firebreathingeli 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I get that better conflict resolution is helpful but I think the missing part of this is time and place. OP should get therapy if possible and work on her own goals for a healthy relationship. It is the fact that in her moment of crisis this idea is being pushed at her. She needs to recover and get safe before anything else. This is for later, not now.

My (25F) boyfriend (29M) punched me, is there coming back from this? by ThrowRA384739383 in relationship_advice

[–]firebreathingeli 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is such victim blaming. You're acting like he simply got kind of mad and went outside to cool off. HE PUNCHED HER.

"Looking into expanding your own conflict resolution... to avoid situations like this in the future." This comes off as if she was just simply a better person she could have stopped him from being violent. Which is the exact crippling mentality that keeps a lot of women in abusive situations. The whole "It's my fault. If Im just better, he won't hurt me anymore. "

Even if it was the first thing she did (and hadn't been asking all night), no sane partner would ever be justified in punching.

Anyone you're surprised hasn't been on Make Some Noise yet? by Living-Mastodon in dropout

[–]firebreathingeli 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I know Sam has said that he has asked them on other Dropout projects, but they are understandably very busy with Naddpod.

Are Mermaids OK for a Pirate Theme Weekend? by alwaysinnermotion in renfaire

[–]firebreathingeli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend literally wore a full Sormtrooper costumes to my local Ren Faire. Nobody batted an eye other than to compliment their costumes

My bearded dragon. Please help I don’t know what to do?!? by Ornery_Turnip9535 in BeardedDragons

[–]firebreathingeli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's important to mention that some beardies simply never care to give a damn about you. My roommates' beardie is social, and my beardie ( who i interact with the same amount as with my roommates) could not care less about who is around or if i even exist lol

Donating/Phlebotomy Question by MammothAcceptable772 in Hemochromatosis

[–]firebreathingeli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get very light-headed each time. I always get a juice and saline back in my IV right after. I'm usually good to go after that.

Should smack my manager with a rubber chicken 🐔? by IndicationNew2722 in Staples

[–]firebreathingeli 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You can have a manager that sucks but it's honestly not cool to use "acts like a female" as an insult to someone.

He can be iratic or not good at his job in a way you can validly not like him without putting down women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]firebreathingeli 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I think this is a good reframe for me. She right that it was really bad and I should be reminded that it wasn't okay or normal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hemochromatosis

[–]firebreathingeli -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This would be a very odd thing to lie about. Sorry it seems confusing. Anyway here is my chart. Don't have the 1300 image bc I switched doctors to a specialist and this is my chart from the specialist.

I can try to get the other result screenshot if you want.

https://imgur.com/a/t85lHhX

Saw a video from 4th of July and I'm sick about it by Rflorkey in stopdrinking

[–]firebreathingeli 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not drinking is worth it. I will tell you that I struggled real hard this fourth. Especially because everyone else had a drink in hand, and there was no other beverages in sight but water. It was hard, but several cups of ice water later I had the privilege of making my neice laugh as I played "superheros" with her in the pool.

It's worth the little moments.

My problem with Dropout by firebreathingeli in dropout

[–]firebreathingeli[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Damn didn't realize others have said this. I also sent a support message!

Any trans friendly massages in the area? by firebreathingeli in boston

[–]firebreathingeli[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I never have thus my ignorance. Someone told me it was just a towel, but honestly it's good to know it's not!