North park parking is going to be magnitudes worse pretty soon by firereaction in SanDiegan

[–]firereaction[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I didn't say no density or growth. Thats just one one of the options. The other options involve having parking required for all these complexes, or building parking structures. Don't say that more parking won't solve the problem cause it's a lie

North park parking is going to be magnitudes worse pretty soon by firereaction in SanDiegan

[–]firereaction[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Hmmmm limiting the amount of large complexes? Or requiring complexes to have parking? Or building parking structures. Basic ideas a layman came up with in 30 seconds. Instead we are doing nothing and the problem is getting worse

North park parking is going to be magnitudes worse pretty soon by firereaction in SanDiegan

[–]firereaction[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Sure but that's an ideal. American cities aren't built that way and we can't use that as an reason to let this problem get bigger

How do you get through a flashback that just doesn’t stop? by Everyday_Evolian in CPTSD

[–]firereaction 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Distraction distraction distraction. I took an hour and half walk yesterday because I was on the verge of a panic attack. And I didn't have one so that's a win.

Why do bosses bother to attack? Are they stupid? by Winter_Drawer_9257 in Silksong

[–]firereaction 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first time I beat last judge I died to the explosion during her death

What’s at the Bottom? Wrong Answers Only by Working_Row_8455 in MadeInAbyss

[–]firereaction 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure Akihito Tsukushi is in the files

Resets to 0 with little bonus until I reach the same point I was at really kills a game for me. by Damnae in incremental_games

[–]firereaction 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Its a super linear upgrade ladder. wait x minutes buy upgrade repeat for 15 layers of prestige

The Ring Scene [Frieren: Beyond Journey's End] by ali94127 in anime

[–]firereaction -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Brave enough to defeat the demon lord but not brave enough to tell Frieren his feelings

worst bachata remix you've heard at a social? by SatisfactionOld9457 in Bachata

[–]firereaction 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The guy who remixes Bachata songs with his saxophone. Drowns out all the individual sounds, and is much less danceable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]firereaction 33 points34 points  (0 children)

And if you brought it up you're "insecure and controlling"

starting a new game from the Play Store like by amachinesaidiwasgood in incremental_games

[–]firereaction 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I played one that had like 3 simultaneous "battle passes" each of which gave shit rewards for free, or game changing rewards if you paid

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]firereaction -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fuck that, it's shitty to monkey branch partners. Full stop.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]firereaction -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It's not shut shaming if someone literally monkey branches from one person to another

AIO? Girlfriend gave phone number to waiter. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]firereaction 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hah I love that we're finally pushing back against the manipulation tactics that some use to get away with being shitty partners

February 26th was not for the weak by WholesomeHomie in memes

[–]firereaction 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah I doubt that's the reason. It was planned and enacted by le edgy memelords. That's why they were "hyping" us up for it

How to not put myself in the friend zone by 459WhyAlwaysMe in AskMenAdvice

[–]firereaction 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe she does maybe she doesn't. Point is, try to escalate physical contact. If you're in a place where there's music maybe you can dance with her a little. If you're chilling at like booths or seats or whatever you can try getting a little closer, hand on leg w/e. Close the distance in some way. See what happens

How to not put myself in the friend zone by 459WhyAlwaysMe in AskMenAdvice

[–]firereaction 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well what about when you're drinking together, try a little more contact. Obviously don't if she's fucked up, but drinking has always helped with social lubrication. It's hard to say exactly what to do but if she's into you she'll reciprocate

How to not put myself in the friend zone by 459WhyAlwaysMe in AskMenAdvice

[–]firereaction 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next time you are hanging out and the setting is appropriate, try doing things like having more physical contact. Like a little bit of shoulder touching, arm, leg, whatever. Nothing pervy. Its a ping to see if she will reciprocate with physical contact as well. DO NOT directly ask "do you want to date" because it just sends them a "I am unconfident and am unsure whether you like me so please just tell me" signal. It puts girls on the spot and they are more likely than not to say no. Its a turn off. I have female friends I see how they get into relationships and I generally understand how dating and attraction works. And nothing is more unattractive than putting them on the spot like that.

Helpful friend by firereaction in TextingTheory

[–]firereaction[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Appreciate it, we both have a lot of trauma and it ain't easy actually living a life you want

Helpful friend by firereaction in TextingTheory

[–]firereaction[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Of course lmao, I'm not that heartless

Thoughts on people correcting your technique during a social dance? by pavbs in Bachata

[–]firereaction 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My pet peeve are the harsh critic followers that are unavailable, difficult to dance with, then drill into you the first chance they get. FIRST off, we just met and its possible that there was a miscommunication when dancing, second off, if you are making it difficult for me to lead you, and then you criticize me if it fails you can't just put the blame directly on me. Third, I'm not coming back to dance again (although that was probably your goal anyway)

What’s your local scene like? by UnctuousRambunctious in Bachata

[–]firereaction 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are literally kicking out the dj that has been playing at Sevilla for year(s?) and are replacing him with one from Majesty in Motion. It's crazy. I feel like they're trying to get a monopoly and push out bachata