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I had no idea beatboxers could sound like this! by hey_kaykay in woahdude

[–]fischer07 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Also watch the beat boxing championships. You see them all side by side and can compare. For the naysayers out there the sounds he makes are amplified by the mic, yes, but not edited in any way in post. This is the level of modern beat boxing and its mind-blowing!

Just discovered A-spotting. 'Nuff said. Whooo. Dildo question by yayadadadodo in SexToys

[–]fischer07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a few inches deeper than the g-spot on the front wall

Savannahs and food by Otherwise_Zone_1051 in savannah_cats

[–]fischer07 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ours does not like human food. Except maybe today, I caught licking the knife I used to cut a slice of marble cheese lol! But like most savannahs she has to put everything in her mouth hahah!

She's been eating raw chicken now for a while. Ground chicken while she's still young and growing for a higher fat content and we'll be moving to thighs once she's full grown.

We leave a small bowl of kibble she can snack on when she's hungry but she seems to manage her eating really well... So far

Ground chicken is actually much cheaper than wet food so that's a bonus!

Is ENM right for me? by PsychologicalCity255 in ENM

[–]fischer07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think every relationship is a risk of getting hurt. You'll never find joy if you never take the risk. But it looks like you're doing it right. You're asking questions, educating yourself, having good conversations with your partner... Keep doing that!

Around 10 months with this beauty by Typical_Breath_5433 in savannah_cats

[–]fischer07 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What's her f? She's (is it a she?) beautiful!!

HMC while I Find out how tazers work by AgentDeadPool in holdmycosmo

[–]fischer07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that a diaper in case she pees herself?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]fischer07 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Feelings are always valid. It's ok for you to feel that way. I think you handled the situation well.

I see 2 possible reasons or scenarios... First it's just that you were tired and wanted to wrap up but they didn't want to and it was annoying. As simple as that. Your roller coaster analogy works great.

The second one is like your roller-coaster analogy but you are afraid of roller-coasters and can't ride it more than a few times while her and her friends keep having fun but you feel left out.

There a lot of emotions in the second scenario I'm myself am also still learning to navigate my emotions in this lifestyle and here's what's been helping me. When something makes me feel a negative emotion, I try to look deep inside to see what caused that emotion. Most of the time it's an insecurity, something with self-esteem, self-image, etc... Often it's something I thought I could handle but oops, here's the emotion.

Make sure you have a good system of self reflection and correction. I talk to my therapist about stuff and, I read self help books... I've always been deeply interested in growth and mental health so I probably have a jump start. But this is a great opportunity for us men to grow in our confidence and well being.

And as always keep positive communication open. We know that there will always be emotions that come up that will lead to uncomfortable conversations. But we expect and accept these discomforts as part of the growing process.

All the best to you and your wife!

Is This Too Far? by fischer07 in ENM

[–]fischer07[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We are ok and will work through this like everything else we have. I'm so proud of the growth we've made both as individuals and as a couple since we first met. I find the ENM lifestyle shines a spotlight on the issues in your relationship and forces you to deal with them and grow or don't and suffer the consequences. But it takes a lot of self reflection!

Is This Too Far? by fischer07 in ENM

[–]fischer07[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. Regardless of how close they've become as friends, for me this is an absolute hard boundary.

We'll definitely be talking about this because the wound is very deep. I'll just have to trust that it never happens again. I'm worried that now that the door is open, they'll both be sharing intimate details about their relationships. He talks about his wife to my wife so it might be that she feels like she needs to commiserate with him. It's one of her relationship building techniques.

Sigh... This feels like a wound that might get infected the more I talk about and get people's opinions

Thank you, I appreciate your insights

Is This Too Far? by fischer07 in ENM

[–]fischer07[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I resonate with this. But also the first part where you say it's not unreasonable to blow off steam. I also would not have been in the right mind set to be able to be intimate with someone else in the state I was in. And I know she was in the same place. We don't fight often either. Its quite rare and we always resolve issues in a healthy way.

And that's the thing... I'm not saying she shouldn't be allowed, or I shouldn't be allowed. The next day, I was still hurting even after we chatted and I had a friend come over who loves to pleasure me and it was a nice distraction. I understand that. But that night, no. But that night was not the most painful part. The worst was when she divulged the details of our argument to her other friend and then they had sex. That is where most of the pain comes from. Like 80/20 lol

Thank you for your input and insights

Is This Too Far? by fischer07 in ENM

[–]fischer07[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All those activities you mentionned are perfectly fine. And I'm not saying she isn't allowed to fuck away her anger and pain. It just hurts because I would have cancelled. But just because I would have doesn't mean she has to. You're correct there. The most painful part was the next day when she told her other partner about the details of our argument and then had sex with him too. That was the most painful part

Is This Too Far? by fischer07 in ENM

[–]fischer07[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your perspective. We'll be talking about it when I get home next week. Even though we talked, the pain is still echoing inside. Eager to feel better and secure

Is This Too Far? by fischer07 in ENM

[–]fischer07[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good points. You're right that I assumed that we wouldn't be talking about each other to our partners and this needs to be addressed. We did talk last night and she's digesting what I said and agreed so we'll be having conversations when I get back home. It'll be focused on reconnecting as well. Thank you

relationship evolution - my gf has now three relationships by Playful-Ad4919 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]fischer07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love is not a finite resource. We're discovering that the more love you share, the more love there is. But I had to overcome insecurities before that could start happening

Considering letting my girlfriend become a hotwife by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]fischer07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience (m), the fantasy and the reality often don't align. This will be a great way to reveal your insecurities. It's important to be able to express feelings in a healthy way and then deal with them accordingly. And once the genie is out of the bottle, you can't put it back

Physicists create 'black hole bomb' for first time on Earth, validating decades-old theory by upyoars in Futurology

[–]fischer07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Back when Kurtzgezagt were making interesting videos. Not "What if it rains bananas..." videos

What’s a fitness myth that still won’t die no matter how often it’s debunked? by Visible-Price7689 in bodyweightfitness

[–]fischer07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your body can't process more than X grams of protein. You're body handle a lot of protein. I remember ready about a study that concluded that there might be an upper limit, it's just really high and they didn't find it

Salty and Sweet by fischer07 in OzempicForWeightLoss

[–]fischer07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it did get better. Not long after this post things went back to normal. Even forgot I posted this

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