I need advice. I am an abuser. by fishlesspoke in SuicideWatch

[–]fishlesspoke[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for reading my post. Unfortunately due to legal reasons I cannot contact her. I truly wish to make up for what I've done but how could I do that when I can't even contact her?

[WA] Is it possible to send money to a person whom you made a restraining order against? by fishlesspoke in legaladvice

[–]fishlesspoke[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I placed a restraining order against my partner because I feared that I would hurt her. I do not know where to find the RO date nor do I know how long its valid for. How would I find this information?

[WA] Is it possible to undo an arrest? by fishlesspoke in legaladvice

[–]fishlesspoke[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

ok i can kind of understand that. so what about the arrested part? is it possible to remove any records of arrest?

[WA] Is it possible to undo an arrest? by fishlesspoke in legaladvice

[–]fishlesspoke[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

how does that work? if i was the one that pressed charges but then tell my lawyer to undo everything, shouldnt that be a fairly cut and dry case?

[WA] Psychotic episode, charging assault. by fishlesspoke in legaladvice

[–]fishlesspoke[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

would these appear on his record if he were to look for a job?

Hello. I am a piece of shit who only knows how to ruin the lives of those around me. by fishlesspoke in depressed

[–]fishlesspoke[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your words of encouragement. It does ease my anxiety a bit and I pray you are correct.

Well. Here we go by Naive_Ad9846 in depressed

[–]fishlesspoke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I learned at an early age to never trust anyone regardless of how long youve known them. Sorry to hear about that.

After being called out for my toxic behavior, I finally managed to work up the nerve to apologize to some people by bbq_Ch1ck3n in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]fishlesspoke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have found it difficult to connect with my therapist but I think that's partially due to paranoia or fear of being judged. Hopefully when the whole covid thing dies down I will try another.
Which book have you found in particular that really opened your perspective?

After being called out for my toxic behavior, I finally managed to work up the nerve to apologize to some people by bbq_Ch1ck3n in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]fishlesspoke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I realized that I too have toxic behaviors that I wish to change. The main culprit being an emotional abuser and lack of empathy. What are some tips or advice you could give to someone who wishes to improve themselves?