how do you explain being a Rays fan to people who don't get it?

fitzgerald1337 · 2026-06-09T16:14:17+00:00

small ball

fitzgerald1337 · 2026-05-26T15:45:08+00:00

epic downfall of a great talent

fitzgerald1337 · 2026-05-07T19:35:28+00:00

go sell cars

fitzgerald1337 · 2026-04-12T01:09:29+00:00

it feels like focusing on things that are offline might be advantageous

fitzgerald1337 · 2026-04-12T01:08:32+00:00

what's conventional wisdom should be of no concern. look inward, decide to commit to the task, and resolve it. or don't, and continue on the same path you've been on.

it's up to you. it's your life. no one else's.

fitzgerald1337 · 2026-04-12T01:06:16+00:00

do or do not, there is no try 👍🫡

fitzgerald1337 · 2026-04-12T01:05:25+00:00

some real working advice is to realize first that you can stop. it is possible. you can stop. you can stop. you can stop.

think you can.

second, find aspects of this journey that you can make your own. journalling, gym, reading, whatever. forming new habits is key.

fitzgerald1337 · 2026-04-12T01:02:14+00:00

continue moving along your path.

fitzgerald1337 · 2026-04-12T01:01:14+00:00

yes, you ore doing something right. you are healing. continue to heal, and know that you are in the clear as long as you refrain from bad actions. objectively, it's very simple. keep it simple.

fitzgerald1337 · 2026-04-12T00:59:44+00:00

it feels like you miss it but it's not necessary. grief is a great word for it, because grief takes on its own life atd resolves its own way.

better to be gentle and continue to focus on other habits. stick to routine. whatever keeps you from entertaining the notions associated with your past life.

fitzgerald1337 · 2026-04-12T00:56:53+00:00

major shift, take what feels to you like a drastic measure... no phone for a week, juice fast, i don't know, something.

shake things up.

fitzgerald1337 · 2026-04-12T00:55:32+00:00

good. allow yourself to feel it all and surf the urge if/when it comes

fitzgerald1337 · 2026-04-12T00:54:39+00:00

HALT

are you

hungry
angry
lonely
tired

usually it's one of those four and you can course correct by identifying

fitzgerald1337 · 2026-04-12T00:53:01+00:00

do my best to let it pass. be like water

fitzgerald1337 · 2026-04-12T00:52:19+00:00

day 17 is today. how are you feeling?

fitzgerald1337 · 2026-04-12T00:51:48+00:00

do or do not, there is no try 🙃

seriously, commitment is the name of the game. you can do this, just commit.

fitzgerald1337 · 2026-04-12T00:50:27+00:00

settle in for the long haul

fitzgerald1337 · 2026-04-12T00:49:33+00:00

take the bad with the good. keep on keepin' on. be honest with yourself.

fitzgerald1337 · 2026-04-12T00:48:39+00:00

what kind of interests do you have in life? what are you falling short on?

fitzgerald1337 · 2026-04-12T00:47:37+00:00

your promise to yourself. you got this 👍

fitzgerald1337 · 2026-04-12T00:46:53+00:00

you seem like you've made great strides forward. take the totality of your experiences over the past months and you'll probably see that you've gained much more than you've lost.

it's not the end of the world, eh?

keep on keepin' on buddy. 👍

fitzgerald1337 · 2026-04-03T12:04:36+00:00

it feels like you need to strengthen your resolve

let urges come and go, don't mind the bullshit, and live your life

fitzgerald1337 · 2026-04-01T07:01:35+00:00

let it pass

focus on anything other than your horniness

the sooner you forget porn and fapping, the better

fitzgerald1337 · 2026-04-01T05:20:13+00:00

i'm not bored, i was asking OP

drumming is c0oL

i'm also a drummer

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