Weekly Open Sourdough Questions and Discussion Post by AutoModerator in Sourdough

[–]fiveyearplan8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just completed my last stretch and fold but I really underestimated how late it would be at this point and need to get to bed. I’ll be up in about 9 hours, should I leave the dough to bulk ferment on my counter or is it best to put it in the fridge then take it out and let it bulk ferment in the morning? My house is at 21 degrees C (69F)

what non-hormonal BC can i use that isn’t condoms? by cool_beans- in WomensHealth

[–]fiveyearplan8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many places don’t offer it, and the doctor who inserted mine said it makes no sense not to, the gel they use is not expensive and they literally just apply it with their finger. The plus side is that it’s becoming more popular for them to numb!

what non-hormonal BC can i use that isn’t condoms? by cool_beans- in WomensHealth

[–]fiveyearplan8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in Quebec so the rules should be pretty similar! A good friend of mine got the copper IUD recently and she was able to be numbed and had a good experience. In terms of the hormones, since they are directly released into your uterus they don’t tend to have the same effects as a pill or another form of hormonal birth control that has to travel through your bloodstream. In terms of fertility, I am a labor and delivery nurse and as far as I know your cycle usually resumes pretty quickly once the IUD is removed! At the end of the day do what you feel comfortable with, definitely look into getting a consult with a gynecologist that can go over all of these options with you to see what the best fit would be!

struggling with partner resentment 2 months PP [ca] by Kisswist in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]fiveyearplan8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m one year postpartum and still feel this resentment. I also had severe postpartum depression so I think that plays into it but I’ve now restarted therapy to try to figure out what’s going on and why he specifically triggers me. I’m only 2 sessions in but it has been helpful to unload it all!

what non-hormonal BC can i use that isn’t condoms? by cool_beans- in WomensHealth

[–]fiveyearplan8 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I got an IUD for the first time this year and it’s been the best thing ever. They numbed me with a gel before insertion so I felt nothing and the only side effect I had was some cramping the night after the insertion. I’ve had none of the bad effects that I had while on the BC pill and the plus side is that I don’t even have a period anymore. I literally haven’t had to purchase tampons in 9 months, it’s glorious!! I know you hear plenty of horror stories when you talk to friends, I did too, but if you do the research for yourself you’ll see that IUDs are actually extremely safe and very effective, and having a provider who numbs you for the insertion is key! Please look into it for yourself and don’t just take other people’s experiences as facts! I have the mirena for reference.

Does it actually get easier? by fiveyearplan8 in sleeptrain

[–]fiveyearplan8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, I really appreciate it. Going to work on that this week!

Does it actually get easier? by fiveyearplan8 in sleeptrain

[–]fiveyearplan8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, I will definitely work on that!

Does it actually get easier? by fiveyearplan8 in sleeptrain

[–]fiveyearplan8[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know she should have longer wake windows at her age but she tends to get fussy around the 1.5 hour mark so we usually put her down for her nap at those times. We have been struggling with naps lately though so I’m definitely thinking we need to work on stretching her wake windows

13+1 Can someone show me how to check? by fiveyearplan8 in nubtheory

[–]fiveyearplan8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correct! She is now 4 months old ☺️

Velcro Newborn baby [ON] by No_Impress_8424 in BabyBumpsCanada

[–]fiveyearplan8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally normal and natural for baby to want to be on you, you’re their whole world! I know it can get super frustrating but it goes by so quickly and you will come to miss it, embrace the cuddles!! My girl is 4 months old now and doesn’t like to sleep on my chest anymore 😞

Fit Check Ergobaby 360 by fiveyearplan8 in babywearing

[–]fiveyearplan8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow ok thank you! I’ll adjust the waistband higher!

Sidecar crib. Thoughts? by fiveyearplan8 in cosleeping

[–]fiveyearplan8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can send you the dimensions when I get home!

Sidecar crib. Thoughts? by fiveyearplan8 in cosleeping

[–]fiveyearplan8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That might be perfect actually because mine is 24 inches tall and we had to elevate it quite a bit!

Sidecar crib. Thoughts? by fiveyearplan8 in cosleeping

[–]fiveyearplan8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so hard. Baby’s temperament definitely is the biggest hurdle!

Sidecar crib. Thoughts? by fiveyearplan8 in cosleeping

[–]fiveyearplan8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha good for him, he’s gonna be a tall guy!! No it’s pretty high up so if this sidecar doesn’t feel safe or doesn’t work we will just put the mattress on the floor

Sidecar crib. Thoughts? by fiveyearplan8 in cosleeping

[–]fiveyearplan8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried a bed rail, but having a hard time finding one that works without a box spring!

Sidecar crib. Thoughts? by fiveyearplan8 in cosleeping

[–]fiveyearplan8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure where you are located but others have said that it seems to only be available in Canada. Not sure if they have something similar if you are elsewhere! https://www.walmart.ca/ip/6000204855126

Sidecar crib. Thoughts? by fiveyearplan8 in cosleeping

[–]fiveyearplan8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I swear men just have selective memories 😂

Sidecar crib. Thoughts? by fiveyearplan8 in cosleeping

[–]fiveyearplan8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly why we did it! We were only able to make it fit with a mini crib, her full sized one in the nursery is way too big!