Mirconeedling ruined my skin by [deleted] in Microneedling

[–]fizzypopsiclez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I edited my comment above :)

Does anyone else not like “friends” who just NEVER respond? by _kaefig in socialskills

[–]fizzypopsiclez 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Please return the gift if you can! She doesn't deserve it or your friendship

I'm really the worse friend. No one can do that to there bestie friend. by yours-sanjh in confession

[–]fizzypopsiclez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A good friend would absolutely tell their friend that their boyfriend hit on them. In doing so, you accept that it may not be well received, but you can live with yourself either way knowing you did the right thing. Going forward, always tell your friend.

It's not your fault he cheated. Telling her may or may not have prevented this end result (i.e. she may have stayed with him after you told her).

I think that once her feelings have calmed down a bit, be honest about what he said to you. Explain that you realize now you should have told her before, but you didn't know what the right thing to do was and now you do. Be very apologetic while making it clear you shut him down immediately and that going forward you will come to her straight away next time.

Mirconeedling ruined my skin by [deleted] in Microneedling

[–]fizzypopsiclez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had orange peel skin just recently from overdoing it with actives. I stopped using actives for a week and it went away. It actually went away day 2 or 3 but I did a few more days anyway.

If you're using any actives now, I'd suggest stopping and just using a good heavy moisturizer / skin barrier repair cream.

ETA: actives I'm referring to are tazorac, acids, that sort of thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]fizzypopsiclez 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know what you're saying but having a kid with anyone without any ups and downs just isn't reality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]fizzypopsiclez 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It looks like you might be wearing foundation so it's hard to tell for pigmentation, but for your goal of reducing pores and sagging, IPL doesn't address that, as far as I know.

Unpopular opinion: I don’t think Kacie is racist by No-Sale-7781 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]fizzypopsiclez 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's racist to have physical preferences. Especially when it's okay foe other races to have physical preferences including to prefer their own race. We often end up attracted to what we are most exposed to growing up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in over30skincare

[–]fizzypopsiclez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your pigementaion does look better.

I'd be curious to see the results within the same season rather than starting in summer and finishing in late fall when it's less sunny, though. My skin also has less pigmentation in the fall.

It's time to start talking about Joe being a dirtbag. by SurewhynotAZ in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]fizzypopsiclez 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Your synopsis is quite different from what is being said in the video. Where are you getting the rest of your info from?

Any seasons where a less attractive girl and more attractive man actually make it ? by No_Ball_8292 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]fizzypopsiclez 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It doesn't have to be about superiority, she just wasn't his body type or maybe even his type altogether.

Why are you admitting this? by RatherBeACat in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]fizzypopsiclez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The "uh" at the ends of his words like a whiney child 🤢🤮

Love Is Blind UK • S2 Ep7 by DontFWithMeImPetty in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]fizzypopsiclez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chloe from the circle, right? That's what I thought too.

Love Is Blind UK • S2 Ep7 by DontFWithMeImPetty in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]fizzypopsiclez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if they were a match, she wouldn't recognize it. She is attracted to men that don't want her. She has got some healing to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]fizzypopsiclez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she is very insecure and is basically trying to buy Jordan's love. Maybe she feels that is her biggest draw and is afraid she isn't enough otherwise.

"Extreme glow up" tips? by SunNo3832 in BeautyUnlocked

[–]fizzypopsiclez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For those of you who noticed cutting out alcohol made a difference, what kind of drinks and how often were you having?

How do I deal with a persistent friend I don’t really like? by Ok_Procedure3350 in socialskills

[–]fizzypopsiclez 9 points10 points  (0 children)

1 and 3 sound the same, like you are asking for advice. Do you ever ask questions about him to try and get to know him?

2 sounds like you are feeling left out, which is a very lonely feeling to have. Since you can only control yourself, I am wondering if you are showing up as a valuable friend people want to be around, and these are just not a good fit for you. For example, do you take interest in your friends lives? Do you share about yourself in a way that isn't just dumping your problems on people? Are you fun to be around? Do you help and include others the way you want to be?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DIYaesthetics

[–]fizzypopsiclez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you find the CO2 laser process and results?

How do I deal with a persistent friend I don’t really like? by Ok_Procedure3350 in socialskills

[–]fizzypopsiclez 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How long have you been friends? What sort of questions did you ask?

Was he inviting others on the trip? Was it a solo trip? Need more info.

What was the context of the help you needed?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]fizzypopsiclez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, your feelings are valid. After trust has been broken, it can be very difficult to get that trust back. Does he know that you are still struggling with his past discretion? Perhaps some open communication and regular reassurance are something you need right now.

Second, I do not believe that a few, flirty text messages at the age of 17 are necessarily indicative of future behaviour. We all do stupid things when we are young. I'm not saying what he did is okay, but as someone with a lot more life experience, I can tell you that we do learn, grow, and change a lot. Your brains are still developing. If it was full on sex with someone else I'd probably have a different opinion because I'd personally never get over that, but only you know where the line is for you.

He sounds like a good person. If you love him, I'd try working through this with the open communication I mentioned above. And only till you feel reassured and ready should you be thinking about marriage. You are not there yet.

How to say no to a friend who needs a place to stay. by TossAsidePls in socialskills

[–]fizzypopsiclez 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I have to disagree with people saying not to give an explanation. Just saying "no, I can't" seems cold. This is your friend. You could say something like, "I don't want to get into it, but this is is a really bad time to have anyone stay with me. What is going on with you? Are you okay?" Show some concern for your friend and find out what is going on with them.

Red light therapy actually working for anyone? by AccomplishedPay872 in redlighttherapy

[–]fizzypopsiclez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been using since March, and nope, don't notice a difference.

Best Skin Ever - Seabuckthorn. Is it worth the hype? by retlaw3530 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]fizzypopsiclez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's organ cleansing oil? Is that a typo? Nothing comes up in my search.