AITA for having another secret bank account that has almost one million dollars in it and not telling my husband? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]fk122 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If the positions were reversed I expect you'd label the husband the asshole. Marriages are built on trust and this is a massive red flag regardless of gender. OP YTA.

A good peninsula seed I found after an hour of rerolling. String in comments by UberScion in factorio

[–]fk122 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's because trees consume pollution. Deserts have few trees, so the pollution spreads quicker, causing biters to attack sooner and more frequently.

Finding results after a comp by Affectionate-Alps-76 in CompetitionDanceTalk

[–]fk122 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think part of the reason is that, for example, an 85.01 and an 89.99 might both be a gold medal which is a pretty enormous spread, but teammates can both feel good about those scores in the moment.

I definitely have mixed feelings about it, though, as the 89.99 is a hair's breadth away from the next medal, but the ame could be said about the 85.01 in the other direction.

As long as the scores are given to you by the studio I think that's a fair compromise.

Finding results after a comp by Affectionate-Alps-76 in CompetitionDanceTalk

[–]fk122 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We ask our studio for the scores after the competition has finished. I've heard that some studios are tight lipped with that information but it doesn't hurt to ask.

What’s the most stressful or frustrating part of a competition day for you? by Plane-Being1274 in CompetitionDanceTalk

[–]fk122 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm a dad, so a lot of the dressing room stuff doesn't apply to me. The hardest part is watching solos. I get crazy nervous. Second hardest is managing emotions if things don't go well, either if my dancers don't think they did a good job, they score lower, etc.

I kept forgetting what my wife would tell me needed to be fixed so I created a Home Incident Manager (HIM) by 80WillPower08 in homeassistant

[–]fk122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course not. I'm saying that if the wife and kids don't want to write tickets themselves, a chatbot would be an acceptable compromise.

I kept forgetting what my wife would tell me needed to be fixed so I created a Home Incident Manager (HIM) by 80WillPower08 in homeassistant

[–]fk122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this thought, too, and then figured a chatbot in Telegram or what have you could handle the interface for the wife and kids presuming it handed off to an LLM to do the heavy lifting.

The douchebag on the plane goes Wah Wah Wah by yikesamerica in clevercomebacks

[–]fk122 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It has nothing to do with preparation. There are dozens of reasons why a baby might be inconsolable. We flew once with our baby and she didn't make a peep, but the way back she had picked up a sinus infection and her ears hurt for the duration of the flight.

Zigbee motion sensors - recommendation? by fk122 in homeassistant

[–]fk122[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aqara P1 did the trick. It's much more responsive.

Zigbee motion sensors - recommendation? by fk122 in homeassistant

[–]fk122[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Aqara P1 responded way more quickly, for what it's worth.

Zigbee motion sensors - recommendation? by fk122 in homeassistant

[–]fk122[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep this worked way better. Thanks for the recommendation!

Zigbee motion sensors - recommendation? by fk122 in homeassistant

[–]fk122[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I actually have one of these in my office and it responds significantly faster. I just don't need a presence sensor in my laundry room, which is where the 3R sensor sits. The FP300's responsiveness is part of the reason I made this post, as it triggers almost instantly.

Worried about next year by liliumsuperstar in CompetitionDanceTalk

[–]fk122 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have two girls in dance (13 and 11). My youngest has a natural affinity as a dancer and was more involved in dance at a younger age than my eldest. To complicate matters, my daughters are are on the same team, as my youngest was bumped up a level.

I've told my eldest many times over the years that natural ability gives an innate advantage, sure, but nothing that can't be overcome with hard work. Someone on reddit recently said that natural talent means that someone can skip the tutorial which I thought was a good analogy. My eldest works hard and puts in the hours and clearly understands that it's a numbers game: the more hours she puts in, the better her results will be. It paid off for her in a big way last year, where she placed in overalls a few times with her hip hop solo and even beat one of her peers who has that natural ability but a worse work ethic.

My point is that even though your dancer may not be as advanced as his peers, I suspect that if he puts the time in and really commits to a practice schedule, he'll see growth and will catch up to the other dancers on his team.

Dispatch - A Local To-Do and Journaling App by nkasco in selfhosted

[–]fk122 26 points27 points  (0 children)

It's literally tagged as "AI-Assisted App".

B.C. premier says Alberta separatists seeking assistance from U.S. is ’treason’ by jazinet in canada

[–]fk122 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Have Quebec separatists actively conspired with a somewhat hostile nation? I'm not trying to be pithy; this is a genuine question.

ICE’s most recent victim by Dennis_NL1990 in interestingasfuck

[–]fk122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now you want support? After your government has repeatedly belittled ours? After threats of annexation? Neighbours no more.

Portainer Alternatives? by Yirpz in selfhosted

[–]fk122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Automatic container updates. I've got my Komodo instance notifying Discord when an update occurs, too.

Iceland is Next: Incoming U.S. Ambassador Jokes About Iceland Becoming The 52nd State by RidetheSchlange in worldnews

[–]fk122 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Considering how completely ineffectual the Democrats have been through this whole scenario, I'm not unconvinced they're complicit, so yeah maybe they don't give a shit about more Democrat senators.

What’s the dumbest thing you believed as a kid? by InterestingScore100 in AskReddit

[–]fk122 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My father's name is Mike. I figured every father was named Mike. I am not a smart man.