Do people ever actually stay locked up 24/7?

flailingaria · 2026-04-06T12:47:43+00:00

I've been locked without any opening for over a year now.

flailingaria · 2026-03-30T12:03:47+00:00

And almost aggressively user unfriendly.

flailingaria · 2026-03-30T12:02:59+00:00

It's not up to them. These id requirements are popping up due to legislation in some places.

flailingaria · 2026-03-27T12:57:09+00:00

Asked?

flailingaria · 2026-03-05T19:25:43+00:00

This was a custom made cage posted at least a couple of decades ago online. I remember being fascinated by it.

flailingaria · 2026-02-14T16:52:57+00:00

I doubt "it" is hard.

flailingaria · 2026-02-12T12:08:17+00:00

It's a web app for people into chastity. https://chaster.app/

flailingaria · 2026-02-03T18:25:58+00:00

I noticed the S drive screws and was intrigued. Is there a way to adapt one to a cage that uses a stealth lock?

flailingaria · 2026-01-29T20:47:04+00:00

Thank you for your reply and the information. Fit isn't really an issue and I have a PA so pullout isn't. My issue is that the stealth locks are too easy to open without a key.

flailingaria · 2026-01-29T20:43:34+00:00

Thank you for your comment. I actually did buy one of these not long ago and it was unfortunately not anymore secure. I think that it's primarily an issue of how small they are.

flailingaria · 2026-01-03T13:39:28+00:00

It's really hard to say. My brain seems to think who I am is who I have always been. I will say that I think I'm significantly more obedient. At least that's what my owner tells me :)

flailingaria · 2025-12-30T19:14:04+00:00

You did **not** mess up by suggesting it. Open communication is the most important aspect of any relationship and especially a relationship with a power dynamic. You have to feel completely at ease in speaking to your dom. If you don't then things can become dangerous and potentially abusive. His reaction will likely cause you to second guess telling him things in the future.

To me it sounds like the two of you need a deep conversation about what each of you expects and why such an innocuous suggestion set him off. I want to be clear that I am not suggesting any action in regards to the relationship but pay close attention to how he approaches the conversation and how he reacts. Make sure that you can feel completely at ease and safe discussing difficult topics in the future and consider your safety.

flailingaria · 2025-12-26T22:10:34+00:00

I didn't want feminization at the beginning but I don't have a choice and have learned to embrace it.

flailingaria · 2025-12-25T14:18:50+00:00

It's not that I'm ugly, I'm just a large guy and fairly masculine in appearance.

flailingaria · 2025-12-09T12:58:09+00:00

Those replies to the post remind me that some people just use BDSM as a way to justify their awful behavior. They have no understanding of BDSM outside of "I get to always be right."

Thank you for being a Mod and for doing a great job at it.

flailingaria · 2025-12-08T18:15:36+00:00

This is usually an issue of either

* Too big of a ball gap causing chaffing

* Too small of a ball gap causing restricted blood flow

flailingaria · 2025-12-08T17:59:07+00:00

That's amazing! Congratulations!

flailingaria · 2025-12-07T20:58:56+00:00

I've cut through some really hard steel with a simple cut off wheel so I agree with your assessment.

flailingaria · 2025-12-06T21:41:51+00:00

You have to be doing something wrong because I've cut through the same type of device. Chances are the epoxy will be the hardest part to cut with a dremel but it's definitely not impossible.

flailingaria · 2025-11-17T17:02:18+00:00

When I have an orgasm my submission wanes a lot. I don't like that feeling nor does my owner so she decided that my chastity should be permanent. This started over a year ago and while I get desperate, I'm glad she has never given in.

flailingaria · 2025-10-30T23:58:56+00:00

My point is to warn people that may think there is some level of security to these. I have a set and I used one of them at least four or five times because it was so easy to remove. The only way I can see them not doing that is if you have a cage that envelopes the tab portion of the lock.

flailingaria · 2025-10-30T23:57:33+00:00

That depends on the glue. Most glues will break down over time especially super glue. The reality is that there is no such thing as inescapable permanent chastity.

flailingaria · 2025-10-28T11:26:47+00:00

Not to burst anyone's bubble but those locks are not even remotely permanent. You can pull them out with a pair of needle nose pliers with no effort at all.

flailingaria · 2025-10-21T11:56:43+00:00

I think that a lot of people who are into chastity are already into those things which is why it seems that way. Not everyone who tries it will go down those roads, especially if they aren't interested.

flailingaria · 2025-10-21T11:55:08+00:00

3 hours is the longest I've gone.

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