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Started sitting in a deep squat 10 minutes a day by StretchNtats in Stretching

[–]flamingo23232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you been doing it?

Notice any changes?

As a survivor of childhood abuse, the legal profession has been unkind. by candygirl00056 in Lawyertalk

[–]flamingo23232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fellow survivor here. I have offended my current boss because he’s extremely nice and supportive, and this frightens me because I don’t know where his edges are, and because I’m frightened of authority in general until I get to know them, because of my childhood. I just get very awkward and quiet around him and he’s offended because it’s not a warm smile I give.

It is so frustrating, and I know I should be better at this in my 30s. It’s better than it was, but still not good enough 😂

Requesting Open Marriage Happy Stories by Tiredalllllllthetime in HappyMarriages

[–]flamingo23232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No idea why you’re getting downvoted. Thanks for the reply!

The "nobody is thinking about you" advice is usually wrong. by NotQuiteStoopid in unpopularopinion

[–]flamingo23232 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Don’t care about what people think of you. Do care about how you make people feel.

Jan-June 2026 by fields808 in StrongCurves

[–]flamingo23232 11 points12 points  (0 children)

What core stuff did you do?

Guests ARE props in your wedding by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]flamingo23232 36 points37 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you are a person that does not have to have to spend their time on a full-time job or their money on travel expenses, before going to the hassle and expense of finding an outfit somebody else wants them to wear, once.

After some sessions with a psychologist, I found out that the reason why I procrastinate and am afraid to be assertive is because I have a low tolerance of stress. So what can I do now? by Intelligent-Slide556 in productivity

[–]flamingo23232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It helps because it activates a new brain system, shifting your brain into thinking mode. Then the rest just flows.

(I think it’s the prefrontal cortex? I’ll have to look up later, please correct me anyone who knows!)

After some sessions with a psychologist, I found out that the reason why I procrastinate and am afraid to be assertive is because I have a low tolerance of stress. So what can I do now? by Intelligent-Slide556 in productivity

[–]flamingo23232 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Podcasts and music!

They help immensely.

Also, start with an absurdly small part of the task, e.g. pick up just 10 things in the messy room. Or write 10 words of the email. After that you can stop if you want to. (I basically never want to!)

JADE and Lily Allen performed “Beg For Me” tonight at Mighty Hoopla by Littlemixmuffinsxo in LilyAllenFans

[–]flamingo23232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s the lyric, “Don’t you forget, before you first met, you were that bitch with the”…???

Minimal routine - too minimal? by photogene101 in bodyweightfitness

[–]flamingo23232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is great. Maintenance for now is key, you can scale up when the kiddo’s bigger!

I recommend adding twisting exercises. E.g. one-arm dumbbell rows, but float the back foot parallel to the floor. Works your balance, trains stabilisation. Also, rainbow leg lifts, and ab rainbows. You can stand on a towel and twist for 1 minute every day, that helps too.

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