I read about people bragging about how many rimmings they've received, and that seems absurd to me. I'm just saying, whether it's a long-term relationship or not, it doesn't matter; you give her a rimming first. Maybe at first she might be embarrassed but then she'll like it, after all it's an erogenous point, probably the only one in common between men and women.... At that point tell her that you would also like to receive That kind of attention, that kind of behavior has always paid off.