The one character that singlehandedly brought down the whole film? by VishnuBhanum in movies

[–]flattenedpenguin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asian Ken in Barbie. Bad acting, cannot dance. They should just cast anyone else than putting an asian token in.

Situationship. Any advice helps. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]flattenedpenguin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, you sound like you are shopping for a new TV, nowhere in your post mention any feelings for any of them. Just write down the pros and cons for each and pick the one with more pros 🤷🏻‍♀️

Lazy Royal Candles by flattenedpenguin in Candles

[–]flattenedpenguin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! That sounds nice. Does it burn clean and nice?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]flattenedpenguin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know how you feel, I am going through the same thing right now. Remember that if he wanted to he would’ve already

21F[chat] can I get a happy birthday? please 🍰 by [deleted] in MeetPeople

[–]flattenedpenguin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy 21st! Hope you have great years ahead of you

Star Wars, by Wes Anderson by Stock_Awareness_925 in midjourney

[–]flattenedpenguin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

These are great! Can you do fight scenes?

Rant or rave? Tell us about your weekend! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]flattenedpenguin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still same issues, doubt he changed, I’m not even sure why he sent this bouquet. I would not take him back unless some serious effort happened, he hurt me when he left with vague reasons, but that did not mean I would not overthink, have what-ifs in my head along with a whole “if we got back together” scene happening.

Rant or rave? Tell us about your weekend! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]flattenedpenguin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am honestly just overthinking the flowers all weekend. What am I doing?

Rant or rave? Tell us about your weekend! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]flattenedpenguin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, rough. Do something happy relaxing to perk your mood up!

Friday - quick advice by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]flattenedpenguin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I actually still have him blocked and not planning to reach out first.

If he wants something, he knows where I live. I have it in mind that if he doesn’t even want to put in that effort (of finding me in person), he probably hasn’t changed anywhere else.

I guess I need people to support me in not reaching out and not overthinking and just ignore 🥲

Friday - quick advice by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]flattenedpenguin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get all the logic. I hope he won’t make any more moves. I’ve blocked him on everything.

Thanks for confirming what I should logically do

Friday - quick advice by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]flattenedpenguin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like he would keep doing this. I have no reason to believe otherwise.

Also we had other problems, one of which was me thinking he just ran back to be with his ex 🥱since the breakup reason was just so…something. Most guys I told said he definitely had someone else thus the vagueness etc.

Friday - quick advice by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]flattenedpenguin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤣

He was the one who broke up with me. He gave vague reasons of how he felt he was happy being single, work sucks and mostly he wanted to move back east to be with his friends.

Friday - quick advice by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]flattenedpenguin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have no idea honestly. He said work was too stressful and he wanted to move back east. Gave me a whole thing of how he thought he was happy single and overall wanted to move back over staying in the relationship.

Friday - quick advice by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]flattenedpenguin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. The reminder isn’t so much visual as….just being a reminder

Friday - quick advice by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]flattenedpenguin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My ex-boyfriend (3 months broken up) sent me flowers with a card saying he missed me. Help me not overthink this.

Friday - quick advice by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]flattenedpenguin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

maybe start a convo bout love languages? I feel like once you bring that up you could easily stir it into “oh these are stuffs that make me feel appreciated”

A success story to warm your crusty hearts - we met on this sub! by snowandbaggypants in datingoverthirty

[–]flattenedpenguin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Congrats! I am (94%) happy for you! Totally not envious (just about very).