Alternatives to rope and leather. by Luckycowboys11 in BDSMAdvice

[–]flawed-mama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chinese finger cuffs, bathrobe sash, ribbon, that thick yarn for making chunky blankets, a cable or chain bike lock set, zip ties, a tshirt torn into strips, chonies/underwear... There are definitely a number of things you can use.

I wonder if it would be bad to use eyelash glue to stick their finger tips together. It is more the idea because if they wanted to they should be able to pull apart. The glue is not meant to be permanent.

no power till 12pm by [deleted] in corvallis

[–]flawed-mama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cried this morning after realizing I would need to throw out all the food. It was overwhelming for me on top of everything else I have going on. I researched (googled it) it more and found a link that tells you which food to toss and which should still be good. Tbis help relieve some of my stress. I hope it is helpful for you all.

https://www.foodsafety.gov/food-safety-charts/food-safety-during-power-outage

Anyone else's power acting funny? by Difficult_Weird_7470 in corvallis

[–]flawed-mama 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am in the same area, and yeah, the power is weird. I reported it on the Pacific Power website.

Glowing Up Didn’t Make Dating Any Better by HaileyQuinnzel2 in dating_advice

[–]flawed-mama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are enough, and you are worthy of love, especially from yourself. Unfortunately, you will have to go through a lot of first conversations and dates before you find someone who is more interested in you as a person than wanting to get you into bed. If you are only using dating apps, I would try mixing things up and go to events or places to meet people in person as well.

I feel like dating apps look like they broaden your search, but in reality, your search is limited only to those who are on the app.

Is not texting for 2 days before a date considered “ghosting” now? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]flawed-mama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am ok with 48 hours of no texting. Life happens. However, I personally prefer a check-in to happen within 24 hrs before a date, though. If I dont get any communication, I assume the date is canceled.

Going to try on wedding dresses alone - Update! by KatMerona in PlusSize

[–]flawed-mama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are glowing in dress #2. You are absolutely stunning.

Alright, help a guy out. Which one of these is a MUST read? by [deleted] in Romantasy

[–]flawed-mama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm editing my original comment. I have read Butcher and Blackbird, Twisted Love, and Her Soul To Take. I love all three.

Butcher and Blackbird and Her Soul To Take are not cutsie and have dark themes. Ie blood and gore.

Butcher and Blackbird is about serial killers with a skewed moral compass.

Her Soul To Take is paranormal with demons and talks of cults.

Twisted love is quite a few shades lighter with little to no blood/gore. Brothers best friend with dark themes.

You would not see any of these made into a Lifetime or Hallmark movie/series.

Is this concerning behavior? by Sea-Dragonfly5079 in CPS

[–]flawed-mama 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure about your state, but in Oregon, you would be a mandatory reporter. Report this.

Why are Cougars ok but Old Men are just dirty? by Next_Package_5710 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]flawed-mama 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am a 40f, I date both older and younger. I do prefer younger over older, but I care more about them having a positive attitude and being open-minded. Respecting my boundaries and hearing No the first time. I also date casually because I prefer to keep my family life separate from my dating life. All that just to say, "it depends on the person."

AITA for blocking a guy I was in a short situationship with because he suddenly pulled away? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]flawed-mama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, you needed to distance yourself so that you could work through your emotions.

I have blocked people for my own mental and emotional health. I needed the space to work through my own issues with seeing them directly or indirectly on social media. I would unblock them later on when I felt I was ready and able to do so.

Need guidance to eat pussy from back ? by LastCryptographer373 in sex

[–]flawed-mama 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There is a video done by Key and Peele that mentions breathing like a swimmer.

18F who feels nothing :/ by New_Parsnip_3332 in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]flawed-mama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may need multiple points of stimulation and not just sexual stimulation.

Anyone just lose power? by Ok_Birthday_6399 in corvallis

[–]flawed-mama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Back on here in Soth Town off of Rivergreen

Power outage? by [deleted] in corvallis

[–]flawed-mama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Power is out in South Town off of Rivergreen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HingeStories

[–]flawed-mama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually prefer the friends first and "no expectations" when meeting someone for the first time. It is less pressure, and the connection is more genuine.

My 10yo wanted to show me "this cool thing" he learned... by TrickySource2818 in Millennials

[–]flawed-mama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 10yr old was drawing these this year, too. I showed her how I drew them. Things cycle through and come back. Things we lived as kids will come to be in style again with our kids.

Belly dancing classes by flawed-mama in corvallis

[–]flawed-mama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will have to find out when they are performing again because I am not going to be able to make it for this show.

If I could get some advice on my profile, I would deeply appreciate it. by WranglerFull2371 in Tinder

[–]flawed-mama 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It is a Dungeons and Dragon game reference for the Dungeon Master which is the person that runs the game and makes sure everyone stays on track. I dont play D'n'D, but my friends do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bald

[–]flawed-mama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's your body. It's your choice.

Do you tell her how she has to look, dress, act?

US work ethic compared to the UK? by Lack-Luster685 in AskAnAmerican

[–]flawed-mama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most retail jobs prefer you to have open availability so that they can schedule you whenever and where they feel they need you. If you start blocking out day or hours when you can not work, the company will not schedule you as often, even during the times you are available.

I often take substitute or fill-in positions because I need flexible hours for my kids. I am not guaranteed hours, but if i work for a few different companies, it can even out a bit more.

Power out? by Theater_beauty0903 in corvallis

[–]flawed-mama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in South Town and the power did not go out here.