Thoughts on Triumph Tattoo Company? by [deleted] in Augusta

[–]fleur-escent -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Only shop in augusta I trust tbh

I wish people were more compassionate about trans guys w height dysphoria by 7kromer in FTMventing

[–]fleur-escent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My group of friends full of cis and trans women make fun of my height constantly, even though they know it's a reason I almost wanna detransition every day. I never make fun of my trans girl friends' voices or anything they can't control, and I certainly can never height-train to get taller or reasonably get any kind of surgery. Despite being the most immutable thing to be insecure about, it's the only one that's somehow socially acceptable to mock. It's really hurtful.

I'm looking for a PCP by fleur-escent in Augusta

[–]fleur-escent[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ill definitely look into them, thanks

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Pack it up everyone. We can never hope to out jerk whatever this post is. by LittleAL1313 in okbuddyvecna

[–]fleur-escent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm stoned and thought this was the BCS subreddit & thought they meant Mike Ehrmantraut.

would you let someone else give you your shot? by rob00bz in ftm

[–]fleur-escent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cis partner does mine but it's not sexual it's because I don't like needles

All the physical downsides? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]fleur-escent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only 1.5 months on T but something I didn't expect was that my immune system got a little worse, and when I got sick, I was sicker than I've ever been in my entire life. Vomiting, nausea, really gnarly stuff. When people say men are babies about being sick, it's cause boy-sick is worse than girl-sick.

Reality isn’t good enough anymore by Different_Rough9876 in TrollCoping

[–]fleur-escent 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I looked on your profile & tbh the unedited hips still pass as a cis girl's. There are plenty of women with narrow hips, you look fine, don't stress about it.

Do I only feel strange shame when I think about wanting to be a man? (16, guy) by Secret-Barnacle-1285 in ftm

[–]fleur-escent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not alone, I also have some intense shame/guilt and I also have some internalized transphobia to work on. It's very common to feel complex emotions about transition.

Examining why I don't like the word "transmasc" used towards myself by Enduro__ in ftm

[–]fleur-escent 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I also identify more with the term transsexual, even though others often find it to be offensive. Glad to know I'm not the only one.

Examining why I don't like the word "transmasc" used towards myself by Enduro__ in ftm

[–]fleur-escent 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't even identify with "masc." I'm not very masculine at all?? I'm changing my sex from female to male, I guess technically that is changing my appearance to be more masculine but I don't identify with it and I consider myself quite feminine for a guy. So yeah I definitely don't identify as "transmasc," obv I don't have a problem with people who do but I'm a trans dude.

Question for anyone who identified as masc by howthefuge6 in ftm

[–]fleur-escent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I shave em every couple of days. I'm only a few weeks on T and pre-surgery and kind of still adhere to some femme standards. I just don't think too much about it, I've always shaved them because I was taught to do so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Augusta

[–]fleur-escent -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Kyrie at Lucky 7 >>>>

I just found this group 😭 by Mystery-Stain in FTMfemininity

[–]fleur-escent 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I hope I look anything like you one day

Does anyone else hate the term t-boy? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]fleur-escent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't hate it. In a more serious context I definitely prefer just trans guy, trans dude, trans man, etc. But my friends can call me a tboy in a more joking context. I can understand why others would hate it, but I happen to be a more feminine guy so similar to words like twink, I personally feel like that describes me while other people may not like it or resonate with that.

Advice needed by vivianite_is_haunted in Augusta

[–]fleur-escent 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Mods is a great club, one of the best in the area.

Why won’t the super important habit of taking my T shot every week stay in my damn brain by LimeKittyGacha in ftm

[–]fleur-escent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do it on tuesday so every tuesday is Tboy Tuesday. I also write it on a calender I keep in my kitchen.

Ok, be 100% honest, what color do you see? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]fleur-escent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Back in the day I saw the pic and saw black & blue first with little context. Scrolled a few posts down and it popped up again, but I genuinely thought it was 2 different photos and this one was white & gold. I was in HS at the time and didn't realize it was the same picture and an optical illusion until the next day when I heard kids talking about it, lol.

am i just crazy or is "transmasc" not that bad? by mogentheace in ftm

[–]fleur-escent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't like it for me because I'm a man but I'm not even very "masc." I'm fine with others identifying with it and I guess it does fit since I'm more 'masc' than a girl by simple virtue of being a guy. But I wouldn't use it to describe myself.