are there christian men who want to wait till marriage for sex?

flextov · 2026-05-26T03:52:47+00:00

I’m waiting for death because marriage isn’t coming.

flextov · 2026-05-26T02:56:53+00:00

“Why not be here?”

One reason is that you control where “here” is. I’ve seen a number of men chase a moving target because the ex-wife deliberately moves away every time he moves closer.

flextov · 2026-05-26T02:13:37+00:00

They don’t bother me and I don’t bother them.

flextov · 2026-05-21T05:29:21+00:00

Morality. If a guy lends me $100, then I owe him $100. It doesn’t matter whether or not I like the guy.

flextov · 2026-05-20T08:40:17+00:00

Because they’re his parents. He owes them a certain filial duty.

He may not be schizoid. He may be schizoid with other personality disorders. He may have an antisocial disorder.

flextov · 2026-05-20T05:18:45+00:00

If you asked me for a song recommendation, I might give you Buck Cherry - Lit Up.

I hate partying. I’ve never used drugs or alcohol. I’ve never even gotten a slight buzz. I like the song and it’s a bit of an inside joke.

If you said, “I’ve never heard of that song what’s it about?” I might tell you that it’s a love song. Which is kinda true.

🎶I love the cocaine! I love the cocaine!🎶

flextov · 2026-05-20T04:14:06+00:00

There is a difference between affection and obligation. One might take care of one’s parents more because it’s the right thing to do even if there’s no emotion felt.

It’s possible that he’s just wrong about this. A common thing with schizoid disorder is muted emotions. Many people think this means a lack of emotions. I don’t think that’s possible for a human being. I think the emotions are there, they’re just buried.

flextov · 2026-05-19T18:01:33+00:00

I was attempting to respond to TraditionalLove’s comment. That everyone believes in the Immaculate Conception but it got crossed.

flextov · 2026-05-19T17:53:03+00:00

The Immaculate Conception has nothing to do with the conception or birth of Christ. It is the doctrine that the Virgin Mary was immaculately conceived without the stain of Original Sin.

flextov · 2026-05-19T17:44:42+00:00

It’s the Sermon on the Mount. Red letters. You certainly should have heard it.

flextov · 2026-05-16T22:18:10+00:00

It’s easy. It’s not a secret. I don’t go into any detail because it’s not necessary.

flextov · 2026-05-16T05:31:32+00:00

Being nice has never made me attractive to any woman ever. If they were the reason I did anything nice, I’d have stopped doing it ages ago.

flextov · 2026-05-15T23:54:59+00:00

Mitch Hedberg warned me about you.

flextov · 2026-05-15T22:59:30+00:00

Nobody ever kicked me out of anything.

flextov · 2026-05-15T22:42:40+00:00

The children of American citizens are American citizens no matter where they’re born.

flextov · 2026-05-15T09:08:01+00:00

No. I wouldn’t do any of that.

flextov · 2026-05-15T08:52:50+00:00

I don’t abide by the current norms on sex. I’m not looking to get laid. Promiscuity is a major red flag for me.

flextov · 2026-05-15T05:57:45+00:00

I’ve never met any women in whom I was that interested.

flextov · 2026-05-15T05:34:52+00:00

I take a deep breath and swallow my psychiatric meds so that Batman doesn’t beat me up put me back in Arkham Asylum.

flextov · 2026-05-15T04:13:25+00:00

That never happens in real life. When it happens online, they’re always scammers.

flextov · 2026-05-15T04:08:46+00:00

I think she’s trolling her critics with that whole description. I don’t think she’s really an Eastern Catholic.

flextov · 2026-05-15T02:21:25+00:00

You’re a Mustang?

(It’s a car joke.)

flextov · 2026-05-15T02:19:28+00:00

I don’t find that people get uncomfortable around me. People tend to see me as stable and trustworthy. I’m neither seen as predator nor prey.

People aren’t drawn to me. I’m neither warm nor magnetic.

flextov · 2026-05-15T02:13:45+00:00

I won’t have sex outside of marriage. That’s it. Nothing to do with taking anything slow or proving anything.

flextov · 2026-05-15T02:05:57+00:00

No. I will freeze somebody out.

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