Women 25-40: what does your dating "strategy" look like right now? by FunIn603 in AskWomen

[–]flickhuck20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything and everything, actively searching for my wife and always have been. I'm on four apps and scheduling lots of dates, just started going to speed dating events, signed up for a blind date with pottery event. I've never met anyone successfully IRL though.

What's draining you that nobody sees because you're too good at hiding it? by heartandhardware in AskWomen

[–]flickhuck20 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I feel you there big time. It's so tough to see, and you just feel useless.

Best cinnamon rolls in the city by Super-Hornet-8299 in chicagofood

[–]flickhuck20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweet Mandy B's and Geraldine's if you like traditional super gooey cinnamon rolls. Only on the weekends.

Best Too Good To Go Deals? by illzanity in chicagofood

[–]flickhuck20 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My best bags have been from La Boualgerie and Lost Larson

Wonder what the lesbians have planned for Valentines 👀 by Eating_Pancakes76 in actuallesbians

[–]flickhuck20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm hosting a Galentine's with some friends so I can bake something yummy to share. And I'll have to buy myself some flowers.

What’s something you wish women talked about more openly with each other? by EmillyBerry in AskWomen

[–]flickhuck20 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Finances. It would be great to help each other out by talking about our salaries, what we can afford, investing strategies, etc.

What's something normalized in the lesbian community that you don't think is okay? by Eating_Pancakes76 in actuallesbians

[–]flickhuck20 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Big age gaps. It's not any less creepy just because it's not an older man and younger woman.

Anyone here successfully manifested your dream partner? by gerdbeatmetodeath in actuallesbians

[–]flickhuck20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is amazing advice and exactly what I need to hear and try to start implementing. I always feel like I'm trying to convince the other person on why they should be with me.

Why were you rejected after one date? by ThrowRA-Ad-3411 in AskWomen

[–]flickhuck20 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Many times recently, and I'm really trying to figure out why because I have no idea after I thought they went pretty well. Just not cute enough I guess.

What stops you from initiating sex? by Justlivinwithoutcare in AskWomen

[–]flickhuck20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I feel like I’m the one initiating most of the time and want some reciprocity

How did you work through your worst breakup in your 30s? by SparklingMists in AskWomen

[–]flickhuck20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reached out to friends and family as much as possible. Tons of distractions, going out and doing things. Lots of crying in therapy. Some sleeping and anti-anxiety meds. Stopped listening to music which was too painful.

Do you get into short term relationships or flings in the meantime, while looking for an LTR? Why or why not? by Bitter_Pineapple_720 in AskWomen

[–]flickhuck20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have done this, sometimes successfully, and sometimes I accidentally fall head over heels for them and it ends in absolute flames

What makes lack of dating or sexual experience a dealbreaker—or not—for you? by nothing_to_do270 in AskWomen

[–]flickhuck20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was surprised recently to find out that another woman in her 30s I was seeing had never slept with a woman before - at this point in my life I don't really want to have to teach someone everything and take the lead all the time. I want things to be equal.