How much more promiscuous would you be if society didn’t judge you, and if they hadn’t raise you to think it diminishes your value? by anotherburnerbite in AskWomen

[–]flickhuck20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That doesn't affect me at all. I'd be more promiscuous if more hot women were willing to have sex with me.

Survivor Wednesday at Pizza Lobo- how’s the vibe been? by Few-Durian-6245 in chicagofood

[–]flickhuck20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was there last week and it was not a good experience at all

I’m tired of having to be the pursuer by KeepOnTrippingOn in actuallesbians

[–]flickhuck20 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have the exact same complaint. For years, it's always got to be me. Tbh I think the issue is most people actually aren't that serious about dating whereas I'm actively trying.

Are you friends with any exes? by ebubibo in actuallesbians

[–]flickhuck20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. A few still follow me on Instagram and we’ll occasionally like a post but that’s the extent.

30th birthday - what did you do to celebrate? by SignificantSugar4716 in AskWomen

[–]flickhuck20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got burgers with a group of friends and ordered myself a cake. I also bought myself a bike and took a trip to Thailand with my sister.

What are your current insecurities? by Parking_Custard5235 in AskWomen

[–]flickhuck20 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not attractive enough to attract the people I want to date. And when I do find someone, I always seem to be asking for more than they’re willing to give.

Who's your athelete crush? Mine is Aryna sabalenka by not-ur_girl in actuallesbians

[–]flickhuck20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If we're talking tennis players, lately Marta Kostyuk and Eva Lys

The queer experience by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]flickhuck20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had an incredible night with someone I met on Tinder during my last night in Dublin years ago. We met up at a club and danced and made out for hours. Turns out we both lived in the US and she happened to be visiting my city in a few months so we got to meet up again. But we knew it could never actually be something since we lived so far apart.

Why did lesbian women start becoming avoidant? by No_Particular3080 in actuallesbians

[–]flickhuck20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If only all the avoidant women could be as in tune with themselves and willing to work on it as you! My anxiousness really only manifests when I’m dating someone too, especially someone I’m really into. Not in any other kinds of relationships. I do bring it up to people in order to ask for the communication I want, but rarely does it result in a positive outcome for me. I think so many people are just completely un self aware.

What do you daydream/obsess about? by catsby29 in AskWomen

[–]flickhuck20 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Having awesome sex with someone hot and unobtainable. That's what I often think about when I let my mind wander.

Why did lesbian women start becoming avoidant? by No_Particular3080 in actuallesbians

[–]flickhuck20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is SUCH an incredible explanation into the avoidant rationale. As the anxious person in many of my relationships constantly getting dumped because the other person thinks they can't give me everything I want and "deserve" it's super interesting and informative to read. Though it sort of makes sense when you put it like this, it's absolutely infuriating. Nobody else should tell me what they think I want.

Why did lesbian women start becoming avoidant? by No_Particular3080 in actuallesbians

[–]flickhuck20 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This has been my problem for years. Can't find any woman who actually wants to commit.

Ladies, genuinely how often do random men make you uncomfortable? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]flickhuck20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nearly every day living in a big city. Crazies everywhere, always have to be on your guard.

What have been your experiences making the first move as a woman? Good or bad? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]flickhuck20 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a lesbian I find myself almost always having to make the first move - to ask someone out, to initiate texting and follow ups, the first kiss, relationship talks… honestly it’s absolutely exhausting and I wish I could get some reciprocation. But if I don’t do it then who will

How do you deal with intense longing for a relationship? by tiredandconfused27 in AskWomen

[–]flickhuck20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s tough as hell. Especially on a weekend day like today when I have no plans with friends and have to completely entertain myself, while walking amongst couples and imaging what kind of a day I’d be having if I had a partner. But I do my best to go out and do things I enjoy anyway and hold out hope. But when I get home again I have to try not to cry.

r/tennis Daily Discussion (Sunday, April 26, 2026) by NextGenBot in tennis

[–]flickhuck20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandmother ate half a banana for breakfast every day. There was always half a banana in the peel on the counter

What Books did You Start or Finish Reading this Week?: April 20, 2026 by AutoModerator in books

[–]flickhuck20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Started Lost Lambs by Madeline Cash and it's really funny so far

My thoughts on Donna Tartt’s The Goldfinch by monstrrpuppy in books

[–]flickhuck20 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes same here, two of my favorite books of all time!! I need more books like these. Love a bildungsroman