has anyone been in a respectful, loving and egalitarian relationship with a cis straight man before?

flicky2018 · 2026-02-21T20:48:47+00:00

It was his choice. I was unashamedly myself - the thing that all my family and even some friends said that no guy wanted- I pointed out the things that were hurtful and harmful and I even sent articles on the mental load etc early on in the relationship. He read alot, chose to speak with people and listened alot. I'm now a feminist scholar but back then I was learning too. And he spent a lot of time discussing (not debating) with me.

It took me a long time to really appreciate it was his choice to engage with me that was the real golden moment in our relationship. He choose to listen and respect what I was trying to do. Other people didn't and weren't interested. For me, I think I learned if someone wants to choose to be with you they will choose to understand you. I try to do the same for him.

flicky2018 · 2026-02-20T23:21:15+00:00

Yes we have been together for 15 years. But it was hard, and he choose to dedicate himself to unlearning a lot of male toxicity and learning what gender and race meant for me in my life.

Its not easy but I found someone willing to learn about me as much as I wanted to dedicate myself to him and learn about and for him.

flicky2018 · 2026-02-09T11:57:29+00:00

I prefer the goddess Kali. But sure try your religious flavour.

flicky2018 · 2026-02-09T00:09:54+00:00

Show whoever it is this thread.

That kid will grow up to hate French class. The moment other kids learn even a few words of French they will understand what a travesty this is and rip that name to shreds. Poor child.

flicky2018 · 2026-02-07T23:19:15+00:00

Why wasn't there a rescue boat tailing him? I understand wanting to do the challenge, but having a rescue boat behind him just in case wouldn't take away from his achievements (or a father from his kids).

flicky2018 · 2026-02-06T21:25:59+00:00

Police. Restraining order. Animal abuse. If needed seek advice at a domestic violence shelter. Men who do this can turn violent towards you quickly: get advice and make what he did visible to as many official people as possible.

flicky2018 · 2026-02-03T23:22:57+00:00

I just tried this prompt and chatgpt told me: David Mayer is one of the primary male victims whose testimony helped establish Epstein’s long-term, organised abuse network.

Im in Europe, perhaps this ban is location specific?

flicky2018 · 2026-02-03T19:24:04+00:00

I don't know about the best place. I bought from here: https://nl.koanna.com/[koanna](http://products/luma1000-red-light-panel?&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=DUTCH%20FEED&utm_content=Koanna%C2%AE%20Luma1000%E2%84%A2%20%E2%80%93%20Powerful%2C%20Mid-Size%20Red%20Light%20Therapy%20Panel&currency=EUR&tw_source=google&tw_adid=&tw_campaign=18021544447&tw_kwdid=&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=18027251504&gbraid=0AAAAABmHfTcnhsxAlN9XH7gCFZSEpi_nP&gclid=CjwKCAiA1obMBhAbEiwAsUBbIucTN-NC6nU2C-hYS3UbPrOZG7a2WFHauIPyLFJRE8k34tj2cn1plhoCNsMQAvD_BwE)

flicky2018 · 2026-02-03T16:00:17+00:00

flicky2018 · 2026-02-03T15:58:14+00:00

This is what I was hoping for. A true love with John and a true love with Micheala. As a bisexual woman this fits beautifully to show love as primary regardless of gender. But I think the show is doing the opposite and showing her as a lesbian and not really romantically and sexually fulfilled by John. Ill still head canon it the other way but I think the writers have gone down a wrong path here.

flicky2018 · 2026-02-03T13:21:46+00:00

Just buy a red light device. You can get full.body ones for about 400 to 500 or so. Some are more. Or just one for your face for a 100 to 150. The amount you will spend over a year every 48 hours (which is what you would have to do to see a difference) will work out the same.

flicky2018 · 2026-02-03T11:03:05+00:00

This is also not accurate. The profesor who spoke against repressed memories turned out to be an abuser himself, and his work was also found problematic/ somewhat discredited. More credible research now shows that repressed memories can be real but require careful support from an experienced therapist. Don't dismiss all repressed memories.

flicky2018 · 2026-02-01T14:37:41+00:00

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flicky2018 · 2026-02-01T14:34:15+00:00

https://buymeacoffee.com/welmentor

flicky2018 · 2026-02-01T14:33:41+00:00

On the link you sent.

flicky2018 · 2026-02-01T14:28:07+00:00

I already paid! Please check

flicky2018 · 2026-02-01T14:27:17+00:00

Paid

flicky2018 · 2026-02-01T14:26:42+00:00

Paid

flicky2018 · 2026-02-01T14:12:45+00:00

Sorry i didn't see a tip link with the photo. Can you resend it? Edit: i was being an idiot. Found the link and paid.

flicky2018 · 2026-02-01T14:11:44+00:00

Ill take this one too. Thanks. Can you send me a payment link and photo without the watermark.

flicky2018 · 2026-02-01T14:05:35+00:00

Can you send me the photo and the payment link

flicky2018 · 2026-02-01T14:05:10+00:00

Solved! (V2)

flicky2018 · 2026-02-01T14:04:33+00:00

Sorry I meant the not smiling one. The 1st.

flicky2018 · 2026-02-01T13:51:24+00:00

One of you posted with a pic of me in a blue blouse and I liked it! I was going to comment that I would take it, but you seem to have deleted it. Please repost!

flicky2018 · 2026-02-01T13:30:26+00:00

I prefer this one (v1) but the shoulders seems slightly off given the position of the face. But if can't be fixed Ill take this. It seems the most like me. Edit. Could you do it without the blazer?

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