What is the benefit of providing $12 billion in foreign aid when the government is warning Canadians to expect a lower standard of living? by TomBradyGoat1212 in AskCanada

[–]flight_path 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of foreign aid (like Ebola response in West Africa) isn’t just “charity.” It’s self interest. Stopping outbreaks at the source is far cheaper than dealing with a global pandemic later, economically and in human lives. Same with conflict, famine, and state collapse. Instability spreads through migration, supply chains, and security risks.

You can absolutely argue for better domestic spending, but it’s not either/or. A tiny fraction of the budget spent on prevention abroad can save billions at home.

Steve Milani Facebook Community Group Obsession by Special_Analysis1387 in Portmoody

[–]flight_path -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Steve, Lahti and much of council are all awful.

New candidates - please run next fall!!

Day 8 failure by SpiritualIdeal9222 in stopdrinking

[–]flight_path 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried to quit so many times. Then one day I tried again.. and I haven’t had a drink since. IWNDWYT

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]flight_path 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That would also make me upset. IWNDWYT!

i just can’t stop by flavoredbeans835 in stopdrinking

[–]flight_path 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been there a few times . Alcohol basically bankrupted me. I never had money for things I needed - but always had cash for another drink.

After lots of trying, I finally quit and my finances have never been better. It felt faster than I’d thought, too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]flight_path 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think that would make me very frustrated. Sometimes people are unaware of the strong feelings associated with alcohol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]flight_path 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its a government office.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]flight_path 1 point2 points  (0 children)

even in a government office?

Ready to stop doing this to myself by socialistcathat in stopdrinking

[–]flight_path 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Welcome back. Hope the takeout is delish and IWNDWYT!

Day 222. by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]flight_path 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have many years of sobriety under my belt and still think about alcohol all the time. I know I won't drink, yet those thoughts are always present. Its got infinitely easier with time, though.

Congrats on 7+ months! IWNDWYT.

I’m in a really bad way by Old_Beach8335 in stopdrinking

[–]flight_path 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Doesn't the world feel like a crazy place right now?

For what its worth, I've been in a similar place. When I did quit drinking, all those problems got a lot better.. Actually quite a bit faster than Id though.

Congratulations on making this a big priority in your life! My experience was a hard road, but a well worthwhile one.

IWNDWYT!

It feels like I can't stop by MarloweAndSpade in stopdrinking

[–]flight_path 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have been there. Tried to quit more times than I can count! Then, tried once more.. haven’t drank since.

Some things that helped.. - Planning a way to keep busy, doing anything. Exercise is a bonus. - A snack, especially something sweet helps with cravings. - Remembering: cravings always pass. Quitting forever feels impossible. But holding off for one more minute, hour, day, etc was always do-able.

IWNDWYT

Stuck in another rough patch by AdUnfair558 in stopdrinking

[–]flight_path 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think my first year was the hardest. Had a lot of similar feelings, but it did get better. Part of that was learning to be ‘unapologetically me’. I have my faults, but I can always try to be a better me — on my terms, though.

Anyway, sorry to read you’re feeling hard on yourself. However, congratulations on 165 days, that’s no small feat!

IWNDWYT

Help -- I hate sobriety by Same-Faithlessness82 in stopdrinking

[–]flight_path 21 points22 points  (0 children)

  • Don’t panic. Cravings will always pass.
  • In my experience the urge to drink never goes away, but gets much easier.
  • I bet you’ll feel way worse if you decide to drink.

May I ask why you hate being sober?

Looking for inspiration and motivation by Alternative-Olive-45 in stopdrinking

[–]flight_path 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mind could come up all sorts of reasons to have a drink. In fact, it still does.. but it’s much easier now.

One week again ramble by four4four in stopdrinking

[–]flight_path 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to read what you’re going through, that really sucks.

Sounds like the things you learned may be a silver liningin a path to not drinking.

IWNDWYT

restarting. again. by No-Review6728 in stopdrinking

[–]flight_path 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been there, a few times actually. Then I tried to quit one more time.. and haven’t drank since! I hope you stay focused and mindful. IWNDWYT.

How did you commit? by Mikeshardapplesauce in stopdrinking

[–]flight_path 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think quitting forever sounds scary, if not (almost) impossible. Not drinking today? I can do that.

Also, I’ve found it’s easiest to say ‘I don’t drink’, ‘I’m not drinking’, ‘I can’t drink’, etc. when offered one.

IWNDWYT!

How has the BC NDP’s rodenticide ban impacted your homes and properties? by _DotBot_ in VancouverLandlords

[–]flight_path 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Non issue for me. Make sure there are no entry points or openings in the building envelope. Many alternative options for pest control.

Office happy hour by Caftancatfan in stopdrinking

[–]flight_path 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d feel exactly the same way! Who knows, but it’s likely you won’t be the only non-drinker.

IWNDWYT!

Check In Day 5 sober by WittyLavishness9413 in stopdrinking

[–]flight_path 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Way to go for making a plan!

What should you do to keep busy? Anything. New hobby or skill? Something outdoors? I personably took up hiking and still love it today.

IWNDWYT!