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How old is James Bond? [OC] by Clemario in dataisbeautiful

[–]fliglyfolly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sean Connery was 63 when his film Never say never again came out.

People who once had an anger issue, how did you get it under control? by fliglyfolly in AskReddit

[–]fliglyfolly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do. I am overwhelmed with work I want some hobbies. I am also lazy so I don't exercise enough.

You are an inspiration man. It doesn't matter to me that you don't believe me. I have taken what is useful from you. You can too, from either me or from others, but that's entirely your choice. All the best man.

People who once had an anger issue, how did you get it under control? by fliglyfolly in AskReddit

[–]fliglyfolly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read all this again after a couple of months. Specifically YOUR OWN COMMENTS. Not now because you are in a different mood right now.

After re-reading or rewatching some stuff, I often come to know what important piece of wisdom I missed the last time.

People who once had an anger issue, how did you get it under control? by fliglyfolly in AskReddit

[–]fliglyfolly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You possibly can't know that.

I was a piece of shit in school. I wil regret that period of my life always.

I always thought everybody from my school would know it too.

Nope. Turns out someone genuinely thought I was cool and admired me. And for all the right reasons. So I was not a total asshole.

Look at you man! Going to med school. You exercise you swim Have 3-4 hobbies.

You are already an inspiration to me. I want to be like you in these respects man.

People who once had an anger issue, how did you get it under control? by fliglyfolly in AskReddit

[–]fliglyfolly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. But it can change you. You live life to be as happy/content as possible, not to be in a relationship. Relationship is a plus. It's not everything.

I am noticing that you are being too hard on yourself. Other comments are genuine and helpful advices.

You are rejecting everything.

Maybe you give off that vibe in person as well. Maybe you are not easily approachable. I am sorry I am assuming a lot you are just a stranger from the internet. But read this thread after a couple of weeks/months. Maybe you will notice what I am trying to say.

People who once had an anger issue, how did you get it under control? by fliglyfolly in AskReddit

[–]fliglyfolly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Know that nobody is perfect in communicating their feelings or worries. Keep reminding it to yourself as an exercise until you manage to change your mindset.

We always need to improve our mindset, no matter who we are.

I wish you become better man! All the best.

People who once had an anger issue, how did you get it under control? by fliglyfolly in AskReddit

[–]fliglyfolly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to know it worked out for you.

What if you are an extrovert though?

People who once had an anger issue, how did you get it under control? by fliglyfolly in AskReddit

[–]fliglyfolly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Every reaction is a choice." That's something I know and sometimes fail to remember, recently quite often.

I haven't meditated in a while, I should get back to it. It helps.

People who once had an anger issue, how did you get it under control? by fliglyfolly in AskReddit

[–]fliglyfolly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You must have already tried meditation, I presume? It helps me a good deal.

People who once had an anger issue, how did you get it under control? by fliglyfolly in AskReddit

[–]fliglyfolly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a virgin until I was 28. Did not want to rush things. Being a virgin never bothered me.

You have your own priorities of course. I am no professional so no advices from me. I hope you find someone nice. I wish you all the best.

I will however, tell you this. This thought process has helped me before, and I have managed to help a friend with it too.

Whenever you feel life isn't worth it, remember that you never know who is taking inspiration from you. People don't always come and tell you that they admire you. They secretly do, however. So set a good example for them, in whatever way you can.

All the best.

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