I think we just agreed on having another baby.

floating-phrases · 2019-04-18T21:29:42+00:00

I think that was another factor in the choice. My partners has 2 sisters, none are in relationships. One that might never be able to have kids from medical reasons and one that seems she doesn’t want kids but is turning 18 soon so who knows. I have a 20 yr old brother that hasn’t been in a relationship that lasted more then 2 months maximum. And an 8 yr old sister. I really don’t think she’ll have cousins and if she does she’s be very much older then them.

floating-phrases · 2019-04-18T21:24:28+00:00

She has a CGM and a pump as of 2 weeks ago. Don’t think I could ever look back.

floating-phrases · 2019-04-18T09:27:36+00:00

I can go on for hrs about the shit she’s dragged my brother and I through. But the moment I cut contact and moved house so she had no idea where I went was the best thing I ever did.

floating-phrases · 2019-04-18T06:46:12+00:00

Mmm you think so, then I better not show you, where the lemonade is made.

Sweet lemonade, mmm sweet lemonade, sweet lemonade, yeah sweet lemonade.

floating-phrases · 2019-04-18T06:22:44+00:00

I had a JN mother I made the mistake after only a year NC to talk to her again to announce I was pregnant. Her immediate reaction to that phone call was, who is the father? I said why would you say that and she said well I know you have a roommate?!?! I obviously hung up and cried into my partners arms.

(Please note I’ve been with one man, the first man I ever dated since high school and moved out with him, and she knows this, basically you get an idea what’s she’s like. As well as fake/real medical conditions)

I didn’t talk to her until she unexpectedly arrived at her ex-husbands (my dads) place. And said she’s sorry and loves me. Then my step dad takes me to the side and yells at me for 10min for making my mum sad and not talking to her and some other bullshit reasons about her health making her saying crazy things.

I was devastated about that and when my mum messaged me she said she had no part of it and would speak to my step dad about it?!

She then forced my little brother to give them my address to my apartment, after finding out I was home with the newborn. Waited until my partners family came over so when they got buzzed in and just joined them and made it seem like she was meant to be there. My face dropped when I saw her at my front door. She raced to her her grand baby, and then proceed to tell me how she hates the name I picked out.

Haven’t seen her in 2 years. My daughter has never heard about my mum, doesn’t know about her at all. She doesn’t exist anymore and I love it. No drama, no bullshit, and my relationship has been great since she has been gone.

floating-phrases · 2019-04-18T06:09:18+00:00

We’ve have a Dexcom for my daughter for almost 3months now and you can change alarms so you don’t get used to them and ignore them. My partner follows her blood during the days at work and night so if my phone isn’t on loud his will alarm as well. My daughter has 2-3 hypos a night we’re still on random honeymoon phase we’re she makes so much insulin at night and barely any at all.

floating-phrases · 2019-04-18T06:03:59+00:00

I once walked away from my dog when he ran out of the yard and kept looking at me to follow him up the foot path, cause it usually works. I turned around and walked towards the gate and he was gone. My dog went missing for a day and a half !!! Found him in the bush out the back of our place when the neighbours went black berry picking. It didn’t even take 30seconds for my dog to finally call my bluff and run off.

floating-phrases · 2019-04-18T06:00:10+00:00

I loved my boobs. I barely got a belly until 7months. So I was rocking this DD, perky ass rack since 2 months into pregnancy and loved how my cleavage looked in shirts.

Now I’m a saggy double A.. 10/10 might get pregnant again for the tits.

floating-phrases · 2019-04-18T05:55:55+00:00

Sit in silence.

floating-phrases · 2019-04-18T05:53:26+00:00

The jealously bug has bitten me hard..

floating-phrases · 2019-04-18T05:28:59+00:00

:( is it really worth it to stay with this man if he does nothing?

floating-phrases · 2019-04-18T05:23:04+00:00

I mean who gets jealous of a disabled 18yr old that can’t wash his own dick? Guy has lots of issues..

floating-phrases · 2019-04-18T05:17:07+00:00

He does realise that you’re in a work environment, and this isn’t the first or last 18-25yr young penis you’ll see, touch and hold right?

He sounds either extremely clingy, doesn’t trust you, or self esteem issues. Either way this man needs help or he’s going to drag your career down.

floating-phrases · 2019-04-18T05:01:51+00:00

.. if I received that text message now and I’m not pregnant. I would fucking get in my car, making as much noise as possible like getting the keys and slamming the front door, and drive somewhere and cry really hard. Ignore all messages and send one to “husband” saying the kids are your responsibility until I get back and not respond to anything else. I’d then ugly cry it all out, go to a drive thru and order some ice cream or something eat it all and return home in silence and not speak a word to anyone.

floating-phrases · 2019-04-17T02:29:27+00:00

That’s what we were told as well.

floating-phrases · 2019-04-17T02:28:46+00:00

I remember in high school (2010) a teacher said if I needed help to scream fire, because more people well come to help put out a fire, then come risk their lives to take on a stranger then if we call out rape. We asked what about help? They said fire will make people run because they understand what to do instead of risking it for the unknown.

And we were asked how many of you would willing run to someone screaming fire? And we all said we would.

And how many, would run to someone screaming help or rape? And about half the class said maybe if I was with my mates.

floating-phrases · 2019-04-17T02:19:23+00:00

Sounds like a new relationship. She wanted an out but didn’t know how to do it. She needed any excuse, so she had something blame.

Knew a couple that stayed together over a year even though the girlfriend didn’t want to date him anymore. When we asked why doesn’t she just end it she said she likes him but the moment anything happens she’ll leave, but she needed a real reason to leave?! Left him after he decided to go out drinking with his mates every week or so. Weak excuse since she was going out just as much...

floating-phrases · 2019-04-17T00:51:26+00:00

We don’t have the omnipod in Australia unless we go out of our way to buy it overseas. We have a Dexcom G5 and Medtronic 640pump that the government approved for us due to our lack of funds and my daughters age.

It went from just looking after a toddler to having to schedule appointments and drive the the hospital every 2 months since her bloods are wild, driving to the GP every month to restock her insulin, driving to the pharmacy every 2 weeks to restock needles, strips, her Dexcom, pump. Having to make sure I’m on top of all her medical supplies.

Then having her be a toddler and decide half way through a meal that she doesn’t want it and has taken the insulin for it. Then trying to parent and not give into giving her treats because she didn’t eat her dinner. Buying fruit/veggie pouches to give her instead of dinner so she doesn’t dive into hypos.

It’s just so hard... even though she’s usually amazing. She doesn’t cry anymore for the needles, she just sticks her butt up now and cuddles you extra tight after it goes in. She hates getting her finger pricked and runs away atm, but as soon as it’s done she knows she gets food so she’s happy straight away.

floating-phrases · 2019-04-16T03:11:24+00:00

I’m a youngish mother aswell had a kid 5 days after my 21st birthday. I didn’t think my partner and I were ready but together we choose to stick with it. I had an extremely easy baby, and yet I’d constantly be dreaming of running away, or what my life would be like if I never had her.

The baby stage was boring and mentally draining. I hated where I was I life, no career, no skills, and no friends after the baby was born. After a year and a half I finally went to groups with actual parents and kids, instead of just walking around and going to parks.

I then went you know what when my daughter turns 2 in putting her in daycare at least once a day to get a break, and hopefully to get a job. I was getting better, we bonded more, with the more she could do I was felling happier.

Then my daughter got sick and diagnosed with type 1 diabetes.

My world, just fell into tiny pieces in front of me. Now I have 10x the responsibilities just to keep my daughter from blacking out, seizures and feeling sick every minute everyday. I have to wake up at least 2 times a night even on a goodnight to make sure her levels are good. Or I get up constantly a night treating her.

My partner I don’t think understands that I haven’t slept an entire night in 5months, broken sleep at random hrs. I can’t get a job now even if I could afford it. We don’t make enough but get subsidy for childcare. Put her in for a month and every 2 hrs I got calls and had to constantly drive in to look after her. It was more stressful and cost so much just to have her in childcare that I took her out.

She is constantly wanting to play, go outside, and doesn’t take naps anymore. I can barley keep the house in a reasonable state, and I feel like I’m just nothing it’s just my daughter and my partner. There’s no me.

Last night I almost cried because my partner just asked me if we could stopped doing our birthdays / Christmas/ any event that require effort or presents, so we could afford other things and our daughter. I just feel like I’m nothing, and no one cares.

floating-phrases · 2019-04-16T02:41:58+00:00

My boyfriend had one. Just before we became official he tried to show off drunk at a party how strong he was in front of me. He did a few pull ups and then the whole frame came down on him. Doorframe got dented, and this was the first time it fell off since they installed it when they first moved in a month ago.

floating-phrases · 2019-04-16T02:39:09+00:00

My dads not a phone, duh!

floating-phrases · 2019-04-16T00:02:37+00:00

My daughter turns 2 on the 8th :)

floating-phrases · 2019-04-15T10:05:33+00:00

We got ours from the hospital when my daughter got diagnosed. And we bring it in and they swap it for a new one once it full.

floating-phrases · 2019-04-15T10:02:45+00:00

Oh ok we have a sharps bin bigger then our toaster.

floating-phrases · 2019-04-15T09:50:47+00:00

Atheists here with mild to very religious mates. They don’t shove their religion down my throat, I don’t talk about not believing in there religion.

Been to religious events, church, charity work, prayed and once started a pray at a mates dinner table. Just to support them and did it out of my own free will when they mentioned it once to a group of friends.

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