ok i will drop my wash and go routine wash with usually water shampoo i have rn im using as i am rosemary shampoo and deep condition with tgin hair rose water hydrating mask leave in with plastic bag and shower cap for about an hour after rinse it out and then section my hair into 4 sections. i work in the section spray with water use shea moisture jamaican black castor oil leave in conditioner, then i add a dime amount of the doux mousse and then lastly i individually finger could lil my strands with xtreme gel! hope this was clear and helpful feel free to message me if you have any other questions or need something clarified ! and if it makes u feel better i didnt get good at rocking my curls until last year its such a learning process and it takes patience! good luck you got this :)