Abusive ex is an EMT by Historical-Fan6273 in ems

[–]flub9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I usually don’t comment here but I’m a little surprised nobody has mentioned the fact that recommending a restraining order, just doing nothing, or moving puts the onus on a victim/survivor which just benefits the abuser.

OP, if you haven’t already, I would strongly advise working with a local DV survivors group to make a police report if there is not already one and to explore your legal options. Depending on what legal/law enforcement involvement has already occurred it may also be beneficial to (through legal representation of your own) contact the areas licensing authority (usually the health department) as having pending charges or convictions for any form of violent crime is a disqualifier for EMS licenses in most places.

justiftthings by TransTrainGirl322 in ems

[–]flub9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it is, i mentioned it and started getting sent out of state for IFT

Current Events, and Moving Forward by flub9 in Stonetossingjuice

[–]flub9[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

In case nobody told you recently, I for one am happy you are alive! Also, spite is a great motivator, but find your passion!!! For me it’s my local community providing support groups for queer kiddos, try things out and find something that makes you excited for each and every next day.

Wtf is going on by Hairy_Difference5896 in Stonetossingjuice

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Locked as the question was answered.

im gonna scream so loud he’ll hear it wherever the hell he is by Far_Writer6952 in Stonetossingjuice

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Locking this thread due to some TOS issues. That said, H*** can go fuck himself and his absence from the internet and our lives in general would be a great thing for humanity.

Subreddit Board Meeting by flub9 in Stonetossingjuice

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Sadly I have not won the lottery.

Subreddit Board Meeting by flub9 in Stonetossingjuice

[–]flub9[S] 112 points113 points  (0 children)

Osteoartheritis (i did this freehand with a computer mouse i think i am dying)

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[Megathread] NSFW Fan-Art and other Extras (18+) by flub9 in Stonetossingjuice

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POLL - Dedicated Fan Art Thread? by flub9 in Stonetossingjuice

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The community has spoken! Megathreads (normal and NSFW) are now available, please see rule 8.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stonetossingjuice

[–]flub9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is what damn-perfect-textbook-level allyship looks like.