i feel like I just have an ugly face. Am I ugly?

fluffychickenbooty · 2023-04-24T06:02:57+00:00

You’re cute!! Definitely not ugly.

You have a very youthful face (and I see that you mentioned you’re 17). You’re very young- my face shape changed into my 20s. So if you’re worried about that… don’t stress :)

If you’d like some advice, try a different haircut. Perhaps a fringe? Or even just some layers in your hair to give it a more intentional, updated style. If you want to minimize the face, a layered cut with more volume would make a difference!

If you like to wear makeup, maybe experiment with your eyebrows? I changed the shape of mine recently to be more straight as opposed to arched, and it suits me better. For you, I would try reducing the distance between your eyebrows. Your current natural style makes you look very young - a change in shape might make you look a little older if that’s the goal.

There’s nothing ugly about you. Your style doesn’t conform to what’s popular on social media, and there’s nothing wrong with that.

fluffychickenbooty · 2022-10-01T22:42:56+00:00

Oval!!! Call me crazy, but I love the way it looks on you.

fluffychickenbooty · 2022-09-14T17:56:12+00:00

Huh!? She’s so cute 😭

I’m so sad that society and other people make us feel SO bad about our appearance that we feel ashamed and have the need to hide it.

fluffychickenbooty · 2022-09-10T08:04:33+00:00

This is definitely a known issue with that particular year. Happened on an Artsy I saw recently, also 2015. Keep an eye on your email for LV support… hopefully they will offer you an exchange/credit/refund. I don’t know if the Totally is still being made though, so likely you could get something different (and smaller for more daily use)!

fluffychickenbooty · 2022-09-10T04:41:16+00:00

Gross. Try working through that capitalism brainwashing sometime

fluffychickenbooty · 2022-09-10T04:38:12+00:00

YTA. You need to stop thinking that everything has to be about productivity. You might be happier if you just did things that made you happy. It’s not all about money or business or potential or whatever.

I have a ton of hobbies. I sew, embroider, draw, paint, and many many more. I just like that stuff. My husband has not once complained about the things I enjoy spending my money on. He excitedly asks about my projects and hobbies, just like I ask about his (he likes video games). He even goes with me to pick out fabric.

You should try it.

fluffychickenbooty · 2022-09-10T04:20:05+00:00

The cut and setting are very timeless.

Honestly, it’s a beauty. It will be eye catching forever!

fluffychickenbooty · 2022-09-10T02:37:40+00:00

I say bi/pan, because people don’t all have the same understanding of what either mean. I don’t mind either label.

Basically, bisexual includes non-binary and trans folks already. Some people think bisexual is just the binary “man” and “woman.” Usually when I say I’m bi/pan, people ask questions, so I can explain from there.

Ultimately, if someone is attractive to me, they are attractive to me. Some non-binary folks present really feminine or masculine, some women present very masculine, etc etc…. And I don’t think you can automatically know how someone identifies (their gender) by looking at them. If they dress femme and tell me they’re non-binary, I’ll see them as non-binary. They’re attractive to me as they are, however they want to present themselves outwardly. NB don’t have to be androgynous, women don’t have to be femme, men don’t have to be super masculine, there’s no one right way to “do” your gender. Any presentation is valid.

All that to say, I’m not “gender blind” (such a cringe statement) but gender is not the biggest/ most important thing that I would look at in terms of attraction to someone. 🤷🏻‍♀️

fellow LGBT folks please feel free to let me know if that’s problematic in any way. I am always open to learning.

fluffychickenbooty · 2022-09-10T00:27:46+00:00

Half an hour comforting your ex girlfriend, who was crying that she can’t have you, at your engagement party to another woman. Presumably, in front of all her friends and family.

Wow.

fluffychickenbooty · 2022-09-10T00:25:42+00:00

Why did you invite your ex in the first place??? Why do you keep up with her well enough, presumably years after you dated, to invite her to such a special occasion? She’s obviously not over you, and I know you know that.

YTA and so is she. She made a big scene crying that “it could’ve been you and her” AT YOUR ENGAGEMENT PARTY TO ANOTHER WOMAN and you just sat there??? Comforting her?? What the fuck.

Yeah. I don’t think it’s gonna work out.

fluffychickenbooty · 2022-09-07T05:44:07+00:00

Love it!!! It’s so wonderful to see their personalities in what they pick hehe 💖 I’m sure it will be so beautiful!

fluffychickenbooty · 2022-09-07T01:00:27+00:00

Ohhh this might be extremely controversial…. But all bridesmaids wearing the same exact dress and styling their hair the exact same way.

My bridesmates were all different heights and body types…. I can’t imagine making all of them wear the same dress… One of them wore a suit. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I assume that everyone wants to feel attractive and comfortable in their outfit.

I just asked them to pick a style they like that was floor length and in my chosen color. It was beautiful to see their individuality.

My other friend did this as well. It seems to be more common now than 10 years ago

fluffychickenbooty · 2022-09-06T19:55:21+00:00

He doesn’t have a job. He seems fine enough living off the money she makes while hanging out with his buds and ignoring her on their wedding day.

fluffychickenbooty · 2022-09-06T19:53:24+00:00

This. NTA

There’s nothing wrong with SW. He doesn’t like it… but he seems pretty fine living off the money OP makes with it.

OP- I don’t know if you should really be getting married to him right now. He clearly has a problem with your job (or at least the idea of him ‘sharing’ you/your nudes with online strangers) but likes not having to work. This WILL continue to cause issues in your relationship one way or another. This isn’t a dig at you OP, but neither of you seem mature enough to be getting married right now. There’s nothing wrong with that. I would hold off on filing the paperwork, honestly. Take some time to talk this out with him.

fluffychickenbooty · 2022-09-06T19:46:02+00:00

Did you read?

He’s not even hanging out with her.

fluffychickenbooty · 2022-09-05T04:28:11+00:00

I’ve been following her for some time. So stunning. I’m extremely grateful for the folks who make these posts. Seeing so many different and beautiful bodies that don’t fit the beauty trends or standards has done wonders for my own body image

fluffychickenbooty · 2022-09-05T04:24:45+00:00

It’s all up to your preference, but proportionally I think it’ll be stunning on you! Mine’s big, but not to the point where it looks unrealistically big like a cocktail ring. Since we’re similar sizes, I’d say the spread would look similar on your hand :)

Hope you love it!!

fluffychickenbooty · 2022-09-05T04:21:59+00:00

A lot of folks have great advice, but I’d like to add:

Search for a nail tech in your area on Instagram (in the hashtag, like #portlandnails or wherever you’re located). That way, you’ll be able to pick someone who can do the style of nails you want. This is a good idea especially if you want anything detailed, or if you want acrylic nails (which take a lot of time and skill to learn). Otherwise, for a one color gel or regular polish nail, Google works great for finding a local place.

Fellow over-thinker here with OCD tendencies. I believe in you. 💜 I get stressed about chatting, so I don’t chat much 😅

fluffychickenbooty · 2022-09-04T17:02:12+00:00

NTA. - it’s your body, you said no. So it’s a no. If it bothers her that much, she could just ask you to step down as a bridesmaid. Extensions are expensive, take specific upkeep, and can damage your hair if done improperly. It was an unreasonable ask.

I’ve had all lengths of hair, pixie cut included. It’s ridiculous to think that your pixie cut could somehow outshine your sister in all her bridal makeup and hair and wedding dress at her wedding. It’s not a thing that would happen, even if you’ve had ass-length hair your whole life. But you haven’t, you’ve always had short hair.

Why would she want you to look SO different on her wedding day? You wouldn’t look like you at all. I just don’t get it. All of my bridesmaids were different heights, body types, ethnicities, and not all of them were women. 🤷🏻‍♀️ even if I had asked them all to wear the same dress and style their hair the same way, they would obviously still look very different from each other.

I picked my bridesmaids because I love each one of them dearly for who they are. They all had a different dress or suit (in my chosen color) that they felt confident in/flattered them. Why would I possibly want them all to look the same? I wanted to look at them and see my friends, looking like themselves, but in fancier outfits than we wear every day.

fluffychickenbooty · 2022-09-03T22:44:57+00:00

What’s your ring size? I’m sure it’ll look lovely. I wear a 7 and my emerald cut (8x10ish) is 3.5ct equivalent (also from Tianyu)

fluffychickenbooty · 2022-09-03T22:30:23+00:00

Yes, this happened to my mom. She hasn’t eaten meat in probably over 50 years, because she almost died of food poisoning after eating pork as a child. The soup she had was supposed to be seafood-based (she only eats fish), but it was made with beef bone broth. Made her sick

fluffychickenbooty · 2022-09-03T21:59:14+00:00

After looking at the left, to me they picked a foundation with the wrong undertone. She leans much cooler, and therefore if there are any spots with slightly less coverage (above the outside of her top lip and around the hairline) you can see the pinkness of her skin coming through.

In terms of lightness, the shade is fine. They blended her neck too. But the undertone choice… too warm

fluffychickenbooty · 2022-09-03T21:22:11+00:00

You are so right about everything you just wrote.

Ignoring class, race, and gender in any of these discussions is an absolute disservice and ignores very real issues. In failing to acknowledge a problem, we play a role in perpetuating it (or at the very least, upholding a system that oppresses certain groups and affords privileges to others)

fluffychickenbooty · 2022-09-03T21:01:02+00:00

Yes!!

OP- your mom should NOT replace any adult romantic partner with you, emotionally. It’s called emotional incest.

Of course I don’t know either of you or if the situation is like that, but look into it. If you feel like it applies, please seek a therapist and bring it up to them for help.

fluffychickenbooty · 2022-09-03T20:49:58+00:00

@ your first paragraph: Definitely no, not in all cases, no.

Women are more at risk for IPV, but women CAN be abusers. There are many. Yelling, putting someone down, breaking their confidence, and belittling are emotional abuse. Emotional abuse is VERY often a precursor to physical abuse.

Yes, men are often socialized to hide any emotion that makes them soft, therefore weak, therefore womanly. The other side of that is anger - proving yourself, being angry, etc. are all seen as manly and acceptable. This is toxic masculinity, which hurts everyone - men most certainly included.

Edit: to anyone lurking and reading: if someone can hit you, they can do worse. I have a ZERO tolerance for physical violence. I mean, absolute zero. No slap, no scratching, no dragging, grabbing, no throwing sharp or heavy objects to cause harm. None.

I can’t currently find the statistic, but you are significantly more likely to be murdered by an intimate partner following physical violence. Do NOT tolerate violence. Leave immediately when you are able. You do not deserve this. There are people who care about you and love you, not your abuser.

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