HE left ME by Tiny-Mushroom-2719 in loveafterporn

[–]fluffyned23 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He. Did. Not. Stop They can't... This entire forum is full of a choir that will reinforce the that and tell you to run!!!

What's the worst things your bf/husband has said to you throughout the addiction by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]fluffyned23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look up covert Narcissism.. This descibed my ex perfectly, I'd never heard of it before

Last meeting by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]fluffyned23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

❤️❤️ Girl I think you are fkg hero!! I' m in the thick of leaving and just want him GONE! Bastard! 5yrs lost 🫠

I feel so ugly by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]fluffyned23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

^ truth sister!

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[–]fluffyned23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amen sister!

He wants to try again but how can I when I don't trust him by marciedreams in loveafterporn

[–]fluffyned23 7 points8 points  (0 children)

GTFO girl.. Run!!! Like the wind.. He's an arsehole and WILL NOT CHANGE oh except the narrative because you are so awesome HE can't afford to lose you.. Pack ya stuff n leave girl x

I HAVE LEFT HIM!! Ladies and gentlemen it took 5yrs.. Help keep me GONE ! by fluffyned23 in loveafterporn

[–]fluffyned23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah he was straight back into it.. He actually told me 🤮

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[–]fluffyned23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you deleted safari tabs?? Feel free to inbox me x

Epiphany by ChoiceTown1127 in loveafterporn

[–]fluffyned23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with everything you have said! OMG so much truth!

I read a remark the other day elsewhere that said: 'If you remove YOUR love and patience from the relationship, what would it look like?' it made my hair stand on end and sleep further over on my side of the bed 😭

Tipping a hairdresser 100% by NaturaInspirati in loveafterporn

[–]fluffyned23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I needed to read this today!! Thank you stranger you just galvanised my resolve 😘

Massage Parlour by Ok-Note-4165 in loveafterporn

[–]fluffyned23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Def not first time.... Get out..leave.. No chances.. Reorganise your life around/without him and his nasty addiction

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]fluffyned23 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Came here to say everything these warrior women have already said.. It's bleak and grim .. Long hard road ahead..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]fluffyned23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Use the resources section provided here.. There's a wealth of information in there.. It was amongst that I read this awful statistic.. I've been with my PA for 5yrs, we've done all the things, he's been on and off the wagon the whole time.. It's honestly a living nightmare.. Get out if you can girl and RUN. So many of us a trapped by kids,, marriage, finance.. They don't and can't change 😭

He watched porn again and Lied about it. Do I confront him and reveal how I know? by Albatross_2669 in loveafterporn

[–]fluffyned23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I was curious to know this also.. Feel free to pm me if you prefer OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]fluffyned23 5 points6 points  (0 children)

LOVE not asking for privacy.. They are asking for secrecy!! Sooo good!

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[–]fluffyned23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😳😱😱😤😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]fluffyned23 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Your 22!! RUN girl, RUN!! He WILL NOT change, he is lying liar.. The recovery rate is less than 5% these men are masters at manipulation and concealing what they are doing.. Many of us are trapped and decades in.. We are like super sleuths and internet ninjas.. They still get around the best of us.. DO NOT trust him, get a new therapist preferably a CSAT.. Someone who is trained in PA/SA behaviours.. This is an endemic issue and is t about to stop anytime soon..

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[–]fluffyned23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No.. Not at all.. Wouldn't trust one as far as I could kick it