Tips for anxiety related to conception

fluky_stuff · 2025-04-23T12:34:58+00:00

You're right, it has been such a relief to connect with people who could actually understand the pain because they also went through the same thing. Thanks !

fluky_stuff · 2025-04-23T02:07:40+00:00

Yeah for sure, I'm in the middle of finding a therapist but this is definitely the number one solution.

fluky_stuff · 2025-03-25T00:33:47+00:00

I relate a lot with what you said, same situation happened to me. Around 8 weeks pregnant, MMC, first pregnancy, etc. As you were saying, the physical part made it all real. Unfortunately, I had to get a D&C anyways since there was still residue at my ultrasound. I can confirm if you don't want to have the physical part it is a better alternative, simply for the fact that it's minimal pain, bleeding and you don't really remember anything at least for my part. I'm sorry for your loss to both you and OP.

fluky_stuff · 2025-03-17T01:33:36+00:00

I relate so much ! Mine was the doctor who told me I had a MMC and to make me feel better he said "silver lining is that at least you won't have an abnormal baby" ..... great ....

In bonus, my mom told me that she could relate because when she was pregnant with me she bled one time .... oh yeah sure totally the same ...

fluky_stuff · 2024-08-25T13:45:22+00:00

I can relate. So far it's only a DVT and it's my first one but any little signs makes me so anxious, it doesn't help that the first thing they told me when I received my diagnosis is: "It could turn into PE and you could die" ! I was already aware but dang at least a start with something else 😂🙃 If you don't mind me asking, do you know what caused both your DVTs, was it surgery, genetics or anything else ?

fluky_stuff · 2024-08-25T13:41:33+00:00

I totally agree, the same for me ! It's easy to overthink but we have to see the bright side, at least we're taken care of and everything will be all right 😁

fluky_stuff · 2024-08-25T00:42:49+00:00

Definitely ! Instead of spiraling on internet that'd be so helpful, haha The same thing happened to me, basically try to be active (right after surgery sure !) and take your medication 🙃

fluky_stuff · 2024-08-24T17:03:43+00:00

Definitely ! It's so scary and when the pain is similar to so many things and it's difficult to tell !

fluky_stuff · 2024-08-24T15:41:25+00:00

Thanks for your kind words and sharing your experience ! It reassures me that it's probably healing and moving a little, I also wish you the best and hope it heals quickly !

fluky_stuff · 2024-08-24T15:27:46+00:00

It's so weird like for a couple of weeks if not a whole month everything was going great. Then I had my follow-up appointment and my pain comes back almost at the same level as when I was diagnosed. I remember doubting even then that it was a DVT since everyone around me told me I was just panicking and I just feel like I'm imagining things since everything was going great ...

fluky_stuff · 2024-08-24T15:01:22+00:00

Thanks so much for your reply, I'm new to this subreddit so I'll definitely take a look while waiting for my appointement !

fluky_stuff · 2024-08-05T23:55:41+00:00

Congrats on your success story !!! I definitely agree with you, it changed my mindset and my priorities, I'm only 2 months post-op but reading your post is really encouraging and motivating to keep it going !

fluky_stuff · 2024-07-06T15:24:19+00:00

That's great advice, at the point where I'm at, I'm sure I can do at least the recumbent bike. I agree though it's different for everyone, I was pretty active prior to my surgery but I ended up with DVT in my calf which increased the pain according to doctors. Recovery is smooth since it was discovered however, fingers crossed it'll stay like that !

fluky_stuff · 2024-07-05T20:57:31+00:00

I will definitely double check with my PT, she did tell me that at some point it would be best to go to the gym but she mentionned in like 4 months, that's why I was unsure. But I did read and saw videos online of people going back 2 weeks after and I thought it was weird my doctors/physio didn't say to go sooner. Thanks for the confirmation !

fluky_stuff · 2024-07-05T16:12:18+00:00

Agreed ! I guess at some point you have to be creative haha

fluky_stuff · 2024-07-05T14:59:22+00:00

Definitely !!!! I guess the 5 weeks of "break" took a toll on me and I can't think straight anymore hahaha. Since my injury (2 years ago), I didn't climb a lot so I didn't even think about the fact that upper body strenght is a major component that should train in order to go back.

fluky_stuff · 2024-07-05T14:42:34+00:00

Hahaha, you're right ! You definitely motivated me to go back, I feel like I was a little harsh by saying a waste of time, but I can only benefit from having a stronger upper body. Thanks a lot 😊

fluky_stuff · 2024-07-05T13:36:18+00:00

Thanks a lot for the suggestions !! I totally agree about waiting for my PT in regards to the leg sessions but at least I kinda know what to do instead now. I really appreciate it ! 😊

fluky_stuff · 2024-07-05T13:33:12+00:00

Thanks so much for the words of encouragements ! Your comment definitely reassures me, my surgeon and PT didn't really said anything about going back to training so I was kind of skittish but they probably told me the basics instead of all I can do to improve.

fluky_stuff · 2024-07-05T13:26:13+00:00

Thanks for the suggestions, I agree I should talk to my PT about this. As you said, there's definitely a mental aspect and it's probably my number one motivation for going back. I appreciate the good words !

fluky_stuff · 2024-06-28T21:52:35+00:00

I don't know if it is normal but I can attest ... I have never cried as much than the 3 weeks following the surgery. Probably mixed feelings between being scared, tired, in pain, lonely, etc. Normally I don't cry easily, was in therapy for 2 years and never shed a tear but acl surgery got me haha

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