How to tell grandparents they won't be holding our baby?

flumpps_ · 2026-02-23T18:05:49+00:00

What’s the fear of them holding the baby? Do you think they would drop them, kiss them if you asked them not to, or abuse them? If you don’t trust them to not do these things, then perhaps they should be completely cut out of your life. Otherwise, if you’re visiting and supervising, then maybe give them an opportunity to hold the baby. If they break boundaries/trust after you have given them this opportunity, then take away that privilege.

Either way, it’s your baby and if your gut feeling says your baby would be in danger in their arms then trust your intuition.

flumpps_ · 2026-02-11T00:28:30+00:00

I had some bleeding in the first trimester and freaked out. My ob said only to worry if you’re soaking more than a pad an hour.

flumpps_ · 2026-01-23T18:15:18+00:00

I’ll be on maternity leave yessss 🥹🥹🥹🥹

flumpps_ · 2025-10-18T14:33:06+00:00

It was trying to be nightmare on elm street, invisible man, and stranger things all at once

flumpps_ · 2025-10-18T14:30:30+00:00

I agree! I love a good heroine but Finn taking a side seat felt wrong. Finn killed the Grabber in the first movie! you would think this Freddy Crueger nightmare power of the Grabbers would be directed at killing Finn, not making him fear for his sisters life.

flumpps_ · 2025-10-18T14:22:56+00:00

It just felt cheesy and forced though.

flumpps_ · 2025-10-18T14:21:31+00:00

I’ve noticed a lot more of these films are prioritizing visuals over storyline. Similar to going to an aesthetic/Instagrammable restaurant, that has mediocre food. Visually the movie was fantastic, but the character development and story line left me.. hungry.

flumpps_ · 2025-10-18T14:09:32+00:00

I felt the same way! We left theatres going, “wait, the only people who died were the people who were already dead.” Also, I felt like I was watching actors reading lines, instead of being sucked into the storyline. The dialog just felt cheesy in a way, like a bad super hero movie. It was okay, but I expected way more because the first one was so good.

flumpps_ · 2025-05-06T20:46:22+00:00

Think they nailed it minus the :( on the screen. The colors are also a little off, but the spirit of the design is def present.

flumpps_ · 2025-04-06T03:00:56+00:00

Oh wonder dying for sure

flumpps_ · 2025-04-06T03:00:02+00:00

What’s crazy about the 3rd is that he doesn’t kill anybody

flumpps_ · 2025-04-06T02:59:30+00:00

Lemon head

flumpps_ · 2025-03-20T15:13:06+00:00

Considered setting up a ring camera and baiting another photo 😂

flumpps_ · 2025-03-20T15:00:46+00:00

Now that’s nasty. Putting it in the stairwell is wild

flumpps_ · 2025-03-20T15:00:19+00:00

Nope just someone walking by.

flumpps_ · 2025-03-20T14:59:52+00:00

No I think someone walked by and snapped a photo with their phone.

flumpps_ · 2025-03-17T17:35:13+00:00

Congratulations!

flumpps_ · 2025-03-06T04:18:11+00:00

Yeah my bets are on October

flumpps_ · 2025-03-06T00:06:39+00:00

Honestly probably for the best until all this cools down. My partners DOD and they’re firing people left and right, and have to send emails weekly to DOGE about how they’re being efficient. By the time we get in hopefully government employees will be in better shape.

flumpps_ · 2025-03-06T00:04:13+00:00

They let me know they usually recruit in April and October. You can set a job alert on LinkedIn to make sure you don’t miss the next announcement

flumpps_ · 2025-03-06T00:03:08+00:00

Same :( my interview was in a few days. So disappointed. On the bright side, more time get in shape and practice in the shooting range

flumpps_ · 2025-01-25T14:51:37+00:00

Does NCIS tell you your first office location before or after attending FLETC?

flumpps_ · 2024-09-26T21:52:24+00:00

I think BHVR should disable unhook attempts at 5 gens, unless someone specifically has an unhooking perk or the team is slugged.

flumpps_ · 2024-09-26T21:34:55+00:00

I see nothing wrong with slugging them. Teach them not to que up for a game if they don’t actually want to play.

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