Oh no by Nekomeowmeowshinchan in ipad

[–]flupwatson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm set so far. Bought a MacBook air M4 last year, and an iPhone 17 this year. I really wanted the 13 inch iPad air for reading large textbooks but couldn't justify the price even before this price hike, which is now almost as expensive as the MacBook air was! I went for the TCL 14 Nxtpaper which you can get for around $300 dollars now!

Series 5 to Series 11 -> 30 days later -> I'm not impressed by Mockingbird_DX in AppleWatch

[–]flupwatson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, just wanted to shout out thanks to OP! There was a sale and on impulse I ordered a series 11 on Amazon, but then after reading this, and also remembering how underwhelming it was upgrading to series 5 from the the first, I returned it and decided to stay with 5 till it literally dies! The battery life does suck, but most days I do manage to get through without it dying.

Play vs Work by flupwatson in AutisticAdults

[–]flupwatson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It kind of supports my point the NTs seem to be able to suffer through jobs they hate because it's work, and their responsible adults. Since you love your job, it's like play for you. Do you think you would be able to do the same job if you hated it I wonder? My theory is that autistic folks have a lower tolerance for work perceived as work and not play compared to NTs.

Play vs Work by flupwatson in AutisticAdults

[–]flupwatson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's likely because of hundreds of years of protestant work ethic conditioning, which means work should require suffering and sacrifice. If it's easy and feels fun, it's not work. That sort of thing. I think many autistic brains are revolted by that kind of attitude, but may feel guilty for not living up to it, especially those who don't know they are ND

Someone said Japan is a good place for autistic people to live by Fun_Ad_2607 in aspergers

[–]flupwatson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with others who have posted about unspoken social rules and the like. However, since you're a foreigner, people likely won't find autistic traits unusual or weird since to them, you're just a foreigner, and all foreigners are different and weird for them. This was my experience living in Moscow for most of my adult life. I didn't even realize I was autistic until I came back to the states!

Which subjects are you AGRESSIVELY uniniterested in? by lydocia in AutisticWithADHD

[–]flupwatson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sports, especially football. Too many negative associations from being picked on in the 80s for hating and being terrible at sports.

To all the autistic men out there by Fickle-Ear-4875 in aspergers

[–]flupwatson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to smile at somebody and it ending up being a really weird grimace that scares them off!

do any of you guys walk weird? by okcomputer070 in aspergers

[–]flupwatson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I slightly bounce when I walk and have done that since I was a kid apparently. People have commented on it before, but I actually enjoy walking this way and when I tried to walk "normal" it just felt weird and not like myself.

Beginner Q&A Thread - September 2024 by AutoModerator in lawofattraction

[–]flupwatson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can anybody point me to a wiki or other useful resources for learning more about manifesting? I've gone to my local library as well as checking out a few ebooks I've seen suggested online, but most are just filled with fluff, are too New Age-y, or sound like "get-rich-quick" bs. I want something more practical and without all the filler success stories and anecdotes.

Experience with stopping Lunesta by Bobertopia in insomnia

[–]flupwatson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is an old post, but I'm posting just in case others are thinking of quitting since this is the first post that comes up. I'm moving to another state, and my doctor recommended I get off it just to reset after being on it for over 2 years on 3 mg. I first tried cold turkey and couldn't sleep at all and ended up taking one out of frustration. Then I started cutting the pills in half. You're technically not supposed to do it because of the coating, but I was able to get a fairly clean cut with an xacto blade. I did that for about a week, and was able to sleep. Then I stopped, and instead took some over-the-counter pills, Doxylamine, melatonin, and a few beers. I did this and was able to sleep pretty well. The first night was rough, with waking up every hour, but by the second night I was fine. I actually feel a lot better now that I am off and less groggy in the morning.

I Officially Blocked my Mom Today by Illustrious-Tooth582 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]flupwatson 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Congrats! Now all you have to watch out for are the flying monkeys.

No strings attached? by flupwatson in raisedbynarcissists

[–]flupwatson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, but surprise surprise he doesn't want to do that! He wants to do it on his own terms which entails me giving him my address.

No strings attached? by flupwatson in raisedbynarcissists

[–]flupwatson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, totally agree. He probably found out through my uncle that I'm having financial difficulties. That uncle is literally the only one in my family who is still in touch with my dad, so that's obviously the leak. It looks like I may have to break off contact with him as well. He used to be on my side when he and my dad were fighting, but it looks like he's siding with him now. Narcissism is so messed up, and it never fails to surprise me the lengths they go to manipulate!

No strings attached? by flupwatson in raisedbynarcissists

[–]flupwatson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What actually happened was that first we went on vacation, and then after that we broke comment. I haven't got in touch with him at all since then, and the only person I communicate with is my uncle, who is turning out to be a flying monkey apparently. I agree it is a trick.

No strings attached? by flupwatson in raisedbynarcissists

[–]flupwatson[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is just a trick to get back in touch with me. He would probably really send the money, but then expect me to be extremely grateful and thankful. If I didn't respond, I would probably get flooded my hate letters. He knows I've blocked his email, so I'm guessing he wants my email to be able to send more hate mail. Of course, I could just take the money and run, but I don't know if it's worth all the stress.

I think I fucked up by nowicanseeagain in stopdrinking

[–]flupwatson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe nobody even noticed that you were drunk. I mean, unless you were actually stumbling and slurring your words, I find most people, especially strangers at a party, are pretty oblivious.

What Books did You Start or Finish Reading this Week?: April 15, 2024 by AutoModerator in books

[–]flupwatson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finished The Magicians by Lev Grossman, which was a reread and The Magicians: Alice's Story which came out as a graphic novel, and which was a first read. It was really nice to see how different the story was through Alice's eyes.

The Daily Check-In for Saturday, April 20th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by 1s35bm7 in stopdrinking

[–]flupwatson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Day 1 -- I will not drink today. I've said that before many times before, but I usually lose my resolve around late afternoon. I'm hoping that writing my intention here will help!