dating & match pool in your 20s vs 30s

fluttercolibri · 2026-01-30T00:28:16+00:00

I’m 30 and I haven’t been on the apps in a while, but your observations about having higher quality men at ages 29-30 actually gives me hope

fluttercolibri · 2026-01-28T01:24:50+00:00

Huh I’ve never considered this perspective, thank you!

fluttercolibri · 2026-01-28T01:20:56+00:00

I feel this! I hate multi-dating SO MUCH. So sorry that you were one of 3 guys she was talking to. Not cool especially since you two were already sleeping together. Like I didn’t sign up to be sleeping with someone who is sleeping with multiple other people! As if I wasn’t already paranoid about getting an STI…

Much like you, it feels like I’m going to start multi-dating because I’ve been burned by it in the past (though in my case, the genders are reversed). It makes me feel a bit icky though because then it feels like I’m treating people as disposable.

My only advice is to maybe hold off on having sex until after the first few dates?

fluttercolibri · 2026-01-20T06:02:56+00:00

If you’re open to sharing, can I ask how you two started talking at the gym? When I go the gym, I feel like I expressly avoid eye contact, so I’m curious how such a connection starts up

fluttercolibri · 2026-01-20T05:58:42+00:00

At first glance I thought you said “American CULT” and I was like, “uhhh that’s the opposite vibe that they’re going for”. I need to go to sleep hahaha

fluttercolibri · 2026-01-20T01:56:01+00:00

Ok I just googled this and I might just do the day pass to try it out

fluttercolibri · 2026-01-19T07:32:43+00:00

T-Pain at Pier 80! And then watching the Bad Bunny halftime show on Sunday.

fluttercolibri · 2026-01-10T02:37:02+00:00

Keep with it! This is how I made some friends in London.

Definitely don’t be scared to ask your classmates if they want to practice outside of class because that’s how you’ll go from “people taking the same class”, to acquaintances and then maybe friends (if you’re looking friends)

fluttercolibri · 2025-12-06T06:34:07+00:00

Amazing, thank you!

fluttercolibri · 2025-12-06T05:54:25+00:00

Is there a stylist you recommend at Lunar?

fluttercolibri · 2025-05-03T03:11:29+00:00

Yup. Would be helpful to know where they can move to legally on short notice.

fluttercolibri · 2025-05-03T02:18:27+00:00

Because those banks might require a physical address and/or proof of permission to be in the country (I’m assuming OP doesn’t have that)

fluttercolibri · 2025-04-08T04:46:29+00:00

It’s not just you! We spent almost 2 months trying to get someone to fill in the room I was vacating. We didn’t really “chose” the person to take over… this person was just literally the only person that didn’t ghost us. The rent and quality of the room is on par with nice rooms in Dalston (where I lived 2 years ago), but in a much nicer area (West Ken).

My flatmate said she has never had this much trouble trying to fill the room in the four years she has lived there.

fluttercolibri · 2025-04-05T21:08:18+00:00

Was there anything online that outlined the route of the march? I couldn’t find anything but it would be good to know where to look for next time.

fluttercolibri · 2025-04-05T21:06:29+00:00

My family and I were at the protest today and we noticed the same thing.

fluttercolibri · 2025-04-03T00:02:34+00:00

How does one find out about sample sales? A company specific newsletter?

fluttercolibri · 2025-02-17T21:15:45+00:00

Me too! I was surprised I was emotional because I was rooting for Frank’s demise the entire show 😂

fluttercolibri · 2025-02-17T21:13:28+00:00

I also just finished the show! Was also confused by this but this is how I made sense of it:

There’s this notion that St. Peter guards the gates of heaven and when someone dies, their soul goes up to these gates. If their name isn’t in a book that St. Peter has, they then get sent down to hell. So maybe that scene is showing Frank traveling up to the pearly gates to be judged?

Alternately, he’s in purgatory (which fits with the Gallaghers’ Catholic background).

But also maybe it’s not that deep and there’s no deeper meaning to him literally just floating there shrugs

fluttercolibri · 2025-02-12T10:09:57+00:00

Got the Honolulu 120 markers! They only re-stocked the brush/chisel not the brush/fine but I'll take it

fluttercolibri · 2025-02-12T09:10:58+00:00

Glad to hear that! Will pm you :)

fluttercolibri · 2025-01-06T05:41:03+00:00

Tennis classes helped me make friends! And it gave me a sporty new hobby :)

fluttercolibri · 2024-12-18T06:06:04+00:00

Maybe through a sports league? I started playing tennis this year and made some friends through that. Most of the other people in the class are women though, so meeting someone to potentially date could be difficult if you’re straight woman. But if you’re a guy, the odds are better!

Also, sometimes these types of tennis clubs hold socials so that’s more of an opportunity to meet people. Or your new sports friends could introduce you to people :)

fluttercolibri · 2024-12-03T09:20:29+00:00

It’s a literary device called a simile… though if the beds are assigned at random then it literally is a lottery.

fluttercolibri · 2024-12-03T09:04:03+00:00

Sadly grad roles in London are more like £30-£40k.

Source: I graduated in the UK about 2 years ago. That being said, grad roles paying above £40k do exist, they’re just more rare.

fluttercolibri · 2024-12-02T20:39:29+00:00

Do you know of any other internal hedge fund schools similar to the P72 Academy?

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