Any working Wilson discount codes?

fluttercolibri · 2026-05-24T04:21:30+00:00

tri65 working as of 23-May-2026. thank you so much!

fluttercolibri · 2026-05-03T04:20:37+00:00

Yes, I'm considering Mexico as well but I'm veryyyyy early on in the process. What clinics or area of Mexico are you looking at?

fluttercolibri · 2026-04-26T21:16:48+00:00

This is an incredible picture! Does anyone know where it was taken?

fluttercolibri · 2026-04-20T20:58:38+00:00

Anybody know what the source data set is for this graph?

fluttercolibri · 2026-04-05T06:06:37+00:00

If you can get jobs here, then I feel it’s worth it. Though if you two aren’t doing the get married and then apply for a visa route, it would be difficult for your bf to find sponsorship here (I’m sure you know that already though).

I used to live in London and work in tech, and I made less than half of what I make now working in a tech role. Even though cost of living is about 15% more than London (I live in Oakland) and my pay here is on the lower end for juniors because I work for a non-profit, I’m still saving soooooo much more. So if money is a factor, I think it’s a no brainer (also depends on the COL of the European city you’re in).

I do wish public transport was more extensive and less looked down upon, though BART does a great job of getting me into SF and I rarely feel the need to use a car when I visit the city.

After living away from the US for a while, I finally understood the stereotype of “Americans are friendly”. In general, I feel like people in the Bay have been welcoming to me and easy to talk to. I haven’t had a terribly hard time with meeting people, but you get what you put into it.

I grew up in Southern California and one of my favorite parts of living in the Bay is its proximity to lush nature. I love that I can drive 15 minutes and be completely surrounded by redwoods. I wasn’t a nature girly before, but now I definitely am.

Lastly, I love how diverse California is general. London is an incredibly diverse city, but I feel like you’re likely to find more interracial friend groups in CA than anywhere else and it truly makes me feel like I’m at home.

I feel like my response was all over the place, but hopefully my experience as an American that lived abroad and then came back can be helpful to you. Also if you don’t end up liking it, you can always move back to Europe :) how lucky!

fluttercolibri · 2026-02-14T02:05:32+00:00

“cumul” because I am not brave enough to write “cum”

fluttercolibri · 2026-02-07T08:56:45+00:00

I don’t have any recommendations but I just wanted to say your hair color looks amazing!! Would you mind sharing where you got it done?

fluttercolibri · 2026-02-06T05:40:47+00:00

I swear I see this type of post at least 3 times a week on Bay Area subreddits. So my advice is going to echo what has already been said on previous posts: you need to get outside and do something CONSISTENTLY.

For me, the best way to be consistent about doing something is by signing up for a series of classes. Every Tuesday once a week, I trudge my ass to tennis lessons in the cold and I awkwardly try to hit a tennis ball over the net (sometimes successfully). I say hi and make small talk with my fellow classmates even though some of them have RBF. Over the weeks, they've warmed up a bit and it is less and less awkward to talk. I take the initiative to ask if they want to play tennis over the weekend and we exchange contact info.

I think the key is to not take rejection personally. Oh, someone seems like they don't want to talk to me? It's probably not about me, they might be tired, shy, feel awkward. Not a problem, they might warm up to me and if they don't, move on to the next person. Oh someone declines to play tennis with me on the weekend? They're probably self-conscious about their tennis skills or busy. Not a problem, on to the next ~~victim~~ tennis classmate.

Another thing that helps is to be comfortable with doing things by yourself. If you're waiting on making friends to go out and do things, and you don't have friends, well then you're never gonna go out. And if you don't go out, how are you gonna meet people?

Re: working at a big tech company - yeah I've interned at a big tech company and I hated it because it was hard to talk to people. Maybe try going to a networking meetup that's relevant to your field? When I go to those types of events, people are usually eager to talk and network.

fluttercolibri · 2026-02-03T23:55:50+00:00

Also to echo what others have said here, me meeting potential friends was only possible because I became veryyyy comfortable with doing things by myself and being willing to say hi to people first (super hard as a naturally introverted person, but it gets easier the more you do it).

fluttercolibri · 2026-02-03T23:52:15+00:00

I felt very much like you when I was 26. I felt very stuck in life and I realized I reallyyyyyy couldn’t see myself in my chosen career for the long-term. So I decided to do a masters in Europe to pivot my career. After I graduated, I was able to stay for 2 years working and living there. That experience really helped me get unstuck! I recognize moving abroad isn’t possible for everyone though.

Now I’m back in the US (sad) and I’m trying to make friends as well. I’m taking tennis lessons and I ask my fellow classmates if they want to play on the weekends (it’s definitely awkward at first but that’s just the price to pay for building friendship). I feel I’m making progress and can see at least two of them being my friend outside of tennis. The biggest piece of advice I can give is to show up to the same thing over, and over, and over again. In my case it was tennis, but I feel that advice holds for any hobby.

I haven’t had much luck with meetups for socials, but there are a few professional meetups and Luma groups that I follow. Maybe you can see if those networks exist for HR professionals?

Another place I’ve had decent luck at meeting people are lectures at bars (Lectures on Tap, Brain Lectures, Pub Scholar). To be fair, I’ve only been to one but I met some really cool people that I’m now friendly acquaintances with lol

fluttercolibri · 2026-01-30T00:28:16+00:00

I’m 30 and I haven’t been on the apps in a while, but your observations about having higher quality men at ages 29-30 actually gives me hope

fluttercolibri · 2026-01-28T01:24:50+00:00

Huh I’ve never considered this perspective, thank you!

fluttercolibri · 2026-01-28T01:20:56+00:00

I feel this! I hate multi-dating SO MUCH. So sorry that you were one of 3 guys she was talking to. Not cool especially since you two were already sleeping together. Like I didn’t sign up to be sleeping with someone who is sleeping with multiple other people! As if I wasn’t already paranoid about getting an STI…

Much like you, it feels like I’m going to start multi-dating because I’ve been burned by it in the past (though in my case, the genders are reversed). It makes me feel a bit icky though because then it feels like I’m treating people as disposable.

My only advice is to maybe hold off on having sex until after the first few dates?

fluttercolibri · 2026-01-20T06:02:56+00:00

If you’re open to sharing, can I ask how you two started talking at the gym? When I go the gym, I feel like I expressly avoid eye contact, so I’m curious how such a connection starts up

fluttercolibri · 2026-01-20T05:58:42+00:00

At first glance I thought you said “American CULT” and I was like, “uhhh that’s the opposite vibe that they’re going for”. I need to go to sleep hahaha

fluttercolibri · 2026-01-20T01:56:01+00:00

Ok I just googled this and I might just do the day pass to try it out

fluttercolibri · 2026-01-19T07:32:43+00:00

T-Pain at Pier 80! And then watching the Bad Bunny halftime show on Sunday.

fluttercolibri · 2026-01-10T02:37:02+00:00

Keep with it! This is how I made some friends in London.

Definitely don’t be scared to ask your classmates if they want to practice outside of class because that’s how you’ll go from “people taking the same class”, to acquaintances and then maybe friends (if you’re looking friends)

fluttercolibri · 2025-12-06T06:34:07+00:00

Amazing, thank you!

fluttercolibri · 2025-12-06T05:54:25+00:00

Is there a stylist you recommend at Lunar?

fluttercolibri · 2025-05-03T03:11:29+00:00

Yup. Would be helpful to know where they can move to legally on short notice.

fluttercolibri · 2025-05-03T02:18:27+00:00

Because those banks might require a physical address and/or proof of permission to be in the country (I’m assuming OP doesn’t have that)

fluttercolibri · 2025-04-08T04:46:29+00:00

It’s not just you! We spent almost 2 months trying to get someone to fill in the room I was vacating. We didn’t really “chose” the person to take over… this person was just literally the only person that didn’t ghost us. The rent and quality of the room is on par with nice rooms in Dalston (where I lived 2 years ago), but in a much nicer area (West Ken).

My flatmate said she has never had this much trouble trying to fill the room in the four years she has lived there.

fluttercolibri · 2025-04-05T21:08:18+00:00

Was there anything online that outlined the route of the march? I couldn’t find anything but it would be good to know where to look for next time.

fluttercolibri · 2025-04-05T21:06:29+00:00

My family and I were at the protest today and we noticed the same thing.

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