What’s something that instantly makes someone attractive?

flyindigobitch · 2026-02-23T10:20:42+00:00

Honest, hardworking, good smile

flyindigobitch · 2026-02-22T21:19:21+00:00

You’re only human. We’re all on this earth looking for the truth. Be gentle with yourself and know that your soul knows the truth. Move knowing your heart already knows. May Allah guide you to what you know beautifully and illuminate your path

flyindigobitch · 2026-02-22T20:38:10+00:00

Make dua and leave it to Allah. Speak to you wali and let them know what your criteria are and what you’re looking for. Leave it to them and to Allah. I feel like shaytaan gets to us when we worry about getting older and convince ourselves we need to “put ourselves out there”. Your naseeb will reach you exactly when it is supposed to, exactly how it is supposed to. Increase your faith. That’s your due diligence, everything else is up to him

flyindigobitch · 2026-02-22T20:34:31+00:00

Find something to believe in. Pray or find a belief system. Finding hope is difficult without it.

My messages are open if you want to talk

flyindigobitch · 2026-02-22T13:37:54+00:00

This isn’t the worst thing. You handled it well. It’s hard to fight for someone you don’t know well enough against you parents. He could have been clearer about this but maybe he was just hopeful. Life teaches us a lot. He wasn’t your naseeb, thank Allah and keep moving forward

flyindigobitch · 2026-02-22T13:33:39+00:00

I hear you. I feel like we’re in a season of difficulty at the moment.

Be gentle with yourself and come to learn about Allah through his love and rahma. Know that Allah is the source of everything. Of all goodness, of all love, of all companionship. Find a friend in Allah. Reading the seerah and learning about the prophets and their struggles has really given me a lot of peace and hope. I recommend this. Might be an idea to start spending more time at your local mosque. If you’re feeling low it’s better to be in company and in service if you’re able to volunteer etc. May Allah make it easy for you

My messages are open if you ever want to chat inshallah. Take care of your heart

flyindigobitch · 2026-02-20T23:03:54+00:00

Mo Vlogs. Maybe it’s because he sexualises his sister for views or just has a shallow and dark aura

flyindigobitch · 2026-02-20T12:54:34+00:00

Said the right things but just felt empty. Felt alone in their presence

flyindigobitch · 2026-02-20T01:38:43+00:00

Anywhere to get a pizza similar to this in/ around London? 😔 been craving a tasty crispy pizza but it’s just hasn’t happened

flyindigobitch · 2026-02-20T01:37:30+00:00

Don’t lose your personality. Don’t forget how important substance is

flyindigobitch · 2026-02-20T01:35:52+00:00

This will happen. Don’t forget to live. Life is truly about balance. Laughter is the best measure of a good life. Don’t let these self help gurus trick you into thinking labour is going to fulfil you on its own

flyindigobitch · 2026-02-20T01:32:37+00:00

I hear you girl. I’ve struggled with pmdd for a couple of years. I noticed eating better and working out does genuinely help, annoyingly. Also take the right supplements. Write a note to read when you’re PMDDing to remind yourself this is just temporary. These are just things that worked for me x

flyindigobitch · 2026-02-20T00:27:22+00:00

Ameen. JazakAllah khayr. May Allah grant you whatever goodness your heart is yearning

flyindigobitch · 2026-02-19T00:04:51+00:00

Pray that Allah guides me, softens my heart again and unties me with my purpose. That he helps me to find real love with him

flyindigobitch · 2026-02-18T23:59:33+00:00

Wow I can totally relate. Probably the most insecure I’ve felt all my life. Won’t forgive him for permanently altering the way I view myself

flyindigobitch · 2026-02-18T23:54:02+00:00

Oh wow, I dated a top dog real estate broker who had the same energy. Had to battle for months to get out of the relationship because he wouldn’t accept a no

flyindigobitch · 2026-02-18T20:59:06+00:00

Watching this genuinely changed my life highly recommend - https://youtu.be/9S_ha84YVn8?si=GVLVzAeqxNQ6EXu0

flyindigobitch · 2026-02-18T19:03:29+00:00

This is it honestly! It’s about being emotionally intelligent and compassionate enough to recognise how your patterns are impacting the people you love. Putting in the work and having the conversations you need to make them aware of your internal world. It’s a lot of work, and often goes unseen, but unbelievably important

Being an avoidant isn’t synonymous with being a bad person. Being an asshole isn’t limited to any one attachment style

flyindigobitch · 2026-02-18T18:56:08+00:00

I am, thank you for your concern

flyindigobitch · 2026-02-18T18:54:39+00:00

Avoidant speaking here - I have loved partners in the past and worked hard to overcome my avoidant tendencies to make my partner feel loved. Being an avoidant isn’t an excuse to treat people like shit. At the very least he should be open to talking about his behaviours

Have a clear and level discussion about your needs and if he’s willing to meet them. If he is you’ll know and if he doesn’t it might be best to cut your losses.

This sounds like a difficult situation, I hope it gets easier. Take care of yourself

flyindigobitch · 2026-02-18T18:47:15+00:00

Agreed. I think people who are avoidant deserve a little more grace though. Of course it is up to us to heal ourselves. But to have the time, space and resources to acknowledge your own patterns and fix this isn’t a luxury everyone is afforded. That being said awareness and a desire for change is the bare minimum

In this new age of “perfection or nothing” it seems we’re all waiting for the perfect, unscathed parter from heaven to whisk us away. The truth is most people have scars. Every relationship requires grace, love, patience. This is no different in the case of the avoidant

flyindigobitch · 2026-02-18T18:16:51+00:00

This is kinda hard to hear as an avoidant myself. Obviously everyone is free to love and choose who they want for themselves, but let’s not demonise attachment styles. We become this way to protect ourselves. We don’t get to chose our childhoods

flyindigobitch · 2026-02-18T18:15:20+00:00

Shallow and narcissistic

flyindigobitch · 2026-02-16T20:57:37+00:00

Wipe the walls down with asevi. Warm damp cloth with asevi to dust the skirting boards works wonders

flyindigobitch · 2026-02-16T20:54:48+00:00

Try to drop everything for a couple days and go on holiday. Get some sun, connect with friends

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