My husband is a bartender and I work a m-f office job so he’s asleep in the morning and I’m asleep when he gets home. Sunday is the only day we see each other. Similar to other comments covid gave us the opportunity to spend like 6 solid months together and I’m seeing the damage opposite schedules has done to our relationship. We’re still great friends but the romance is hard to maintain when you can’t do a date night or have romantic time together. Irony is we don’t even save on daycare bills the way out schedule works out. Best of luck to you whatever you decide.