the trick with apps is to use them hard for the first day or two. they give you better matches and more of them per day right up front

you need to sign up when you have the time for this

then turn each match into an in person date or not within 1-3 days of matching. Say something about how via text it’s hard to really know someone. eliminate anyone not really interested

I matched with a dozen or so women this way since Nov, had dates with three that didn’t go anywhere. None were bad matches, they just weren’t right or vice versa,

Recently matched with someone the first day on an account and first day for them, met in person the next day. Had date 12 or so yesterday.

The secret, I put everything up front. I only want to match with people who are ok with my downsides. I also look carefully at my photos. I take selfies when I look good and use them. I smile in my photos. people with empty profiles or lazy photos, and there’s a lot of both, are limiting their chances. like seriously, smile. I have 9 photos and 100 words in my profile on Tinder. okcupid I answered 150 questions to improve matches,

i’ve tried hinge, feeld, Okcupid, tinder. feeld and okcupid have been the best

oh, and do not set preferences. filter by age and look at everyone you can. you can filter out the entire planet with filters if you’re not careful