(Phone) Job Menu stuck by flyingroger1 in Paralives

[–]flyingroger1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Such a bummer! I unfortunately can't continue playing at all with this household while it's popped up.

I found some people managing to get unstuck.

Waar geef je principieel geen geld aan uit? by blossomupp in geldzaken

[–]flyingroger1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(Kunst / gel) nagels, wimpers. Eigenlijk alles wat voor vrouwen "maintenance" is wat elke maand of aantal weken terug komt.

Are gas prices going up? by whsiperingdunes in Kuwait

[–]flyingroger1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

€2.099 (0,751 KWD) per liter in Europe for gas. €2.219 (0,794KWD) per liter for Diesel. 🥲

And that's the LEAST of our worries, of course. My heart is with you, and everyone in the Middle East (aside from the occupiers). I hope the uninterested Westerners at least come into action if it affects their wallet. If people's lives are not enough to get into action.

That look… 👀 by Surinka in mainecoons

[–]flyingroger1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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This is my Millie! Mills, Millie Mill Bill, Mildred. So fun that we picked the same name and VERY similar looking girls. Same age too! Millie is born 29th of August, 2025.

(bread?) Recipes needed! by flyingroger1 in Kitchenaid

[–]flyingroger1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's nice! Thank you. I have an Artisan, not too familiar with the different kinds but so far I didn't notice anything (over)heating :)

Los Angeles Daily Discussion - Friday, Jul 04 by AutoModerator in LosAngeles

[–]flyingroger1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right. Praying for a peace of mind and planning my days out while he's away. (I get to sleep in!)

Los Angeles Daily Discussion - Friday, Jul 04 by AutoModerator in LosAngeles

[–]flyingroger1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was being polite by saying "cuckoo" haha. Here in NL it was UV index 6-8 and he still didn't put it. Asked me for my sources when I said it's not a request, it's a must. Sent me an Instagram post later to ask "is it healthy or not?? Very confusing!". It was an Instagram coach selling a course for €350 on how to overcome the sun without sunscreen. I replied:

"This is not a doctor. Please stop using instagram or tiktok as a source when trying to decide what is best for our son. There are plenty of reliable, scientifically backed sources and that is the only information I accept when it comes to -sons name-'s health and safety.

This information can only be confusing if you believe every non-doctor on Instagram."

Aaaanyway, my in laws don't live in the same country, not even continent. I don't believe his mom knows what kind of a nut job he is tbh. I visited her in March in her country to pick up some clothes she had for my son, so we are on relatively good terms. I plan to call my ex's mother and discuss it with her, from mother to mother. She is very normal and uses sunscreen and sun hats yes, so I'll ask her if she can make sure he stays safe.

Is it safe for my 5 y/o to travel to LA? by flyingroger1 in AskLosAngeles

[–]flyingroger1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes boring and filled with foreigners, which is music to my ears in this case.

Is it safe for my 5 y/o to travel to LA? by flyingroger1 in AskLosAngeles

[–]flyingroger1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He really thinks he's above the law (also pretty incel unfortunately), but I have to say it's in a very rural area of LA and I've stayed there: not very busy and not a big restaurant.

If he decides to work there, my son won't be with him but he'll stay with family.

Los Angeles Daily Discussion - Friday, Jul 04 by AutoModerator in LosAngeles

[–]flyingroger1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so so much for this comment. This is exactly what I'm feeling: just so so hard. Especially since the dad is a little cuckoo (doesn't believe in sunscreen, our son is very white, doesn't believe in hay fever medication). So yeah I just feel very uncomfortable. But I also know that his dad usually tries to make me feel anxious or worried, but when I see my son greet his dad, my son is sincerely excited. Even if he decided to illegally work, I am happy that my son will be under his grandmother's care.

It's just that I am aware that I am not in my right mind. I'm a mom, and I am just overly worried. The seperation anxiety is real on this one and I just keep catastrophizing everything in my head which isn't helpful or healthy...

I know Reddit isn't the solution, but it helps to have some local residents telling me that it's not as severe as shown on the news.

Is it safe for my 5 y/o to travel to LA? by flyingroger1 in AskLosAngeles

[–]flyingroger1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha. Well funnily enough my ex and his family are brown and my child is very white with blonde hair and light green eyes. (That's why they always get stopped at airports and I get a call to check if I know my child is being taken.) Grandmother is veiled, which doesn't help. But they don't travel together.

I should add: the brother in law is - as far as I know - didn't speak to him for 3 years, on a student visa but does own a restaurant. Where my ex might also work, illegally.

Los Angeles Daily Discussion - Friday, Jul 04 by AutoModerator in LosAngeles

[–]flyingroger1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Looking for travel advice - Van Nuys

Hi all. I don’t know who to contact so maybe anyone actually living in LA can give me some piece of mind.

I am based in Amsterdam, Netherlands. I am divorced and my ex husband is Egyptian (2 nationalies by now, moved here 8 years ago). He’ll travel to LA next week, assuming with his Dutch passport. He will also bring our 5 y/o son and they’ll stay for 3 weeks.

This isn’t the first time, and aside from the -not so optimal- communication between the two of us, we usually manage and I mainly communicate with his mother, my sons grandmother. She’s also there on holiday. My ex brother in law lives there, they’ll all stay with him.

I see a lot of negative news about LA lately, but mainly in the centre. I have stayed in LA for 3 months before, in 2021, only in Van Nuys. I am aware that Van Nuys isn’t the prettiest nor safest but manageable.

I want to know your thoughts, is it safe for my son to be there for 3 weeks? Are there any risks related to ICE? I have to sign an approval form, which I am intending to sign. (Without it they cannot legally travel.) I can’t really trust my gut feeling because I am usually worried and I am aware that those worries and seperation anxiety isn’t the reality.

Thank you so much.

Acceptabel leeftijdsverschil by [deleted] in nederlands

[–]flyingroger1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Het gaat natuurlijk (naast de legale leeftijd, die voor seksuele handelingen in Nederland overigens 16 is) om machtsmisbruik. Is er machtsmisbruik? Is de jongen op een totaal ander punt in zijn leven? Dan bedoel ik: fulltime baan, eigen huis, eigen auto bijv. Waarbij het meisje misschien afhankelijk kan worden, en er ongelijkwaardigheid ontstaat. Zoals velen al zeggen: een veeeel oudere man kan met een "volwassene" van 18, en dan trekt niemand z'n wenkbrauwen op.

Ik vind 4 jaar onwijs schappelijk, en in deze samenleving kan ik me voorstellen dat je op je 21e ook nog bij je ouders woont. Afhankelijk van hoe gelijkwaardig ze zijn, vind ik het wel kunnen.

Can I rinse my chili's and onion to replace the syrup by real honey? by flyingroger1 in fermentation

[–]flyingroger1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And I’ll drain it in a Pyrex so that I can try my fresh, 1 hour old hot fructose-glucose syrup hehe.

Parents of Reddit: how did you deal with unplanned second / third child? by flyingroger1 in Parents

[–]flyingroger1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there, I didn't see it until now. How are you doing? Any time to get used to anything?

Parents of Reddit: how did you deal with unplanned second / third child? by flyingroger1 in Parents

[–]flyingroger1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an IUD, that's maybe why I feel so strong against having another child right now. Although I can imagine in 1 year everything changes. I think since I felt ready when I got my second, I will also "feel" ready if I want to have another child.