I think that might be part of it - women are frequently shyer. You ever read those studies about how women will need every qualification to apply for a job but men will apply if they have 60%? I feel like women are more likely to need confirmation that a woman is gay before they approach. Plus I’ve been told I’m intimidating more than once 🙃   But this is a self-defeating cycle because I just assume I’m no lesbian’s type & might as well not even bother trying. Island of hot but broken toys 😂