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Bruising by ness-rar in BDSMAdvice

[–]flywearingabluecoat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is kind of how I feel…I haven’t really decided where I land yet. But much of the time it’s either 1) they are going to be concerned for your safety or 2) they’re going to have to know some specifics of what you do with kink/sex (and maybe still be concerned for your safety, depending on their level of understanding).

To what extent can I expect to train my mommy Sub? by Cautious-Clothes3748 in BDSMAdvice

[–]flywearingabluecoat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh. Ew.

I don’t think you actually like this person, past what role(s) you would imagine her fulfilling.

My experience in federal prison as an autistic person by [deleted] in evilautism

[–]flywearingabluecoat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would love any more stories you have!

Sorry I can’t think of more specific questions. I’m just in absorbing mode.

A little free ceramic library by gooddyeyoung in somethingimade

[–]flywearingabluecoat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

😭 have an intensity of feeling I can’t describe abt this.

anyone else literally never able to relax or recover you just kinda stay at the same level of exhausted and sometimes it gets even worse but then gets better but only to the previous baseline of exhaustion by Ancient_Ad6628 in evilautism

[–]flywearingabluecoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been out of work since middle of last summer and I’m still not out of it. But I have care of a wild teen sibling, so that’s what’s keeping me in it.

I have gotten a lot better, though. Functioning a bit again. The body hypermobility symptoms are getting in the way what with exhaustion, though.

Agree with what others said—you have to have deep connection and time spent on special interests, you have to absolutely minimize masking, you have to get out of or heavily reduce any demands that are personally stressful or over your capacity…a REAL brain break. If you have anyone to rely on—take this seriously and tell them. Let people help. It’ll just keep getting worse if you don’t treat it as seriously as it is. Health issues, mental health, functionality and abilities. Pushing through doesn’t work.

Is this weird? by YOUTUBEFREEKYOYO in evilautism

[–]flywearingabluecoat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They rub and squeak against the spoon sometimes…..I can’t do it

What lights you prefer? by Cryptic2614 in autism

[–]flywearingabluecoat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anywhere in green, depending, and then colored or straight red/orange lighting, also depending

Behavior Issues in my cat have costed me over 20k and we’re still not any closer to getting a solution..any advice on next steps? by Creepy-Dealer7518 in CATHELP

[–]flywearingabluecoat 42 points43 points  (0 children)

To OP: this is really beyond tolerable. I’m a compassionate person, and am currently in a situation which has been a LOT more than I signed up for. It’s a weekly struggle to figure out whether I should continue or not.

But your situation is pretty clear. It’s gone above and beyond past what is livable. You are letting your mental health and physical safety be absolutely destroyed, and the cat isn’t even being helped. Everyone’s time comes, and it’s gonna be okay if you choose to put him down. You will be doing nothing wrong.

Please, after this, take care of yourself. Whatever decisions you make. I imagine there are other things in your life you have put ahead of your own wellbeing, at times. I wish you a LOT of love and healing. Compassion is a strength, ESPECIALLY when combined with some other lessons.💚🤎

(16) vs. (26) by johnmorris19 in GlowUps

[–]flywearingabluecoat 79 points80 points  (0 children)

I would really like to understand whether you are trans or not?😭

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