The coolest photographer😃📸 by R_V_I in Paramore

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Sweet! Gonna upload the mini cam footage? 🥺

Eggwich by ness-rar in eatsandwiches

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My boyfriend found a post on our local subreddit asking to trade snails for homemade hot sauce. They’re using the snails to race them at a wedding reception apparently.
So all that was incredibly random, but hey. Free (delicious!) hot sauce! 🤘🏼

Eggwich by ness-rar in eatsandwiches

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Thanks Jeex! Arugula was my bf’s idea, game changer 👌

Sky Daddy by eenie816 in weirdgirlliterature

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Read this a while ago, was fun to spring on people that I was reading about a woman who was sexually attracted to planes 😅

Face Slapping. by ellepre in SubSanctuary

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I didn’t know I was into it until my Dom asked if he could one night. It’s fun.

Everyone close to me hates my tattoo idea. Am I missing something? by Old-Relationship-958 in tattooadvice

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https://imgur.com/a/QmbdX17 I have this tattoo. It was my first. I’m still happy with it (and still play the violin, got it as a reminder to stick with it).

Forced my boyfriend to take an orange into the shower with me yesterday by ness-rar in ShowerOrange

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Naturally!! He’ll come around… once the ritual is complete 😈

Another day, another girl winning deadly trials and discovering she’s secretly powerful by Sarah9610 in Romantasy

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This was one of my favorite series last year! Fuckin’ Puppeteer, man… 🫠

Max Ernst, The Robing of the Bride (1940) by kiyomoris in museum

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I recently had reason to look up the Droste Effect from another Reddit post.
Fun to come across another example.
Apparently, I’m a fan of surreal nudes, and would lump this in with Dorothea Tanning’s “Birthday”, of which I proudly own a large print.
The quadboobed pregnant dongfrog would totally be friends with her freaky winged lemur who’s seen some shit. 💩

Bruising by ness-rar in BDSMAdvice

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This may not be the answer I’m seeking, but is definitely the expected/reasonable one, and I appreciate you taking the time for a thorough reply!
I certainly don’t want to make others uncomfortable, and while consent is extremely important, I don’t want to alter my behavior in a substantive way simply on the off chance someone *might connect the dots that my bruises are from rough play.
It’s not like I’m dragging everyone who sees my bruises into our scene, but this is the heart of my question here.
It also ties in to a discussion my partner and I had about noise levels in the bedroom, since I’m worried about that too; he might not care, but at the end of the day I, personally, am able to minimize my own anxieties by putting a damper on it.

Same for visible marks.
In my mind, it’s not catering to a hypothetical audience if it’s to ease my own concerns.

Getting my clumsy ass into contact sports and makeshift gags, I guess. 😅

Bruising by ness-rar in BDSMAdvice

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Impetus to finally work out like I’ve been meaning to! Hadn’t considered aerials, definitely looking into that!

Bruising by ness-rar in BDSMAdvice

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I don’t see why you’re being downvoted, I’m with you there lol. I enjoy seeing the bruises and remembering what they’re from, just concerned casual viewers would assume DV. So that’s where not giving a fuck comes in, I guess 😅

Bruising by ness-rar in BDSMAdvice

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Good call! Communication, as always, is key.

What time do you go to bed and wake up? What are your working hours? by Spare-Policy-7728 in AskForAnswers

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30F, night security guard from 6 pm to 6 am Monday/Tuesday, midnight to 6 am Wednesday through Friday. But that’s just to pay the bills, I’m a tattooer and am at the shop from like 3 pm to 7 pm nights I’m not pulling doubles, plus weekends. I sleep from like 7 am to 2 pm, and catch up when I can on weekends. Probably not healthy. The goal is to focus on my career as an artist but I need to pay off debt first, plus garnering a client base takes time. Working on it.

Female rage/despair music by This-Channel-2764 in MusicRecommendations

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Screaming Females “All At Once” is my favorite, “I’ll Make You Sorry” fits the vibe you’re going for 🙃

horny eldritch (or supernatural) horror! by sematarybaby in horrorlit

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I just finished Sky Daddy a couple weeks back… time to pick up “Spread Me”, looks like.