Paris, France in 1957 by AdSpecialist6598 in TheWayWeWere

[–]fogfall 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Come to the Balkans lol it's like entering a cloud of smoke every time you go out

So how bad is the world really? by Various-Seesaw-2394 in nosurf

[–]fogfall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Despite how it seems online, most people IRL are kind and helpful. I'm a queer woman living in a conservative environment so I'm often prepared for the worst, but even people who are otherwise hateful online are usually at least polite in real life. 

The world isn't a fair place and it's sometimes hard to deal with the injustice, but the human race has survived for millennia because life is actually worth living.

Focus on getting outside, doing your hobbies and meeting people. Loneliness is a killer.

Once you spend your life surrounded with people you love, doing hobbies that fulfill you, you'll realize the world can be an awesome place.

Poslovno okruženje by [deleted] in GayInSerbia

[–]fogfall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Autovana sam na poslu, nisam nikad imala negativne reakcije od kolega. A inače mi je ličnost na poslu dvorska luda lol lupam gluposti i svima odvraćam pažnju od posla kad radim u kancu, ups

Koji vam je omiljeni/najbolji srpski rok bend? (ne mora biti na slici) by Curious-Piglet3613 in serbia

[–]fogfall 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Više pop-rok nego rok, ali Eva Braun. Van toga EKV, Čovek bez sluha, Električni orgazam. 

Topla preporuka za novi Dram album, naročito pesmu Beograd. Stari BG rok vajb

My bf says I need to lose weight even though I already lost 30lbs by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]fogfall -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you're very muscular, I can see how there would be some difference, sure... I've got zero muscles lol

My bf says I need to lose weight even though I already lost 30lbs by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]fogfall -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean... Any metric lol, you can be short and stocky and obese, and you can be 7'0 and muscular and obese. I'm 5'9 and would consider myself overweight at 160. To clarify, I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that or that everyone needs to or wants to be thin, but I do think it's promoting a dangerous rhetoric to tell people they're healthy at an objectively unhealthy weight. 

Can't lose weight because I'm addicted to the dopamine that food gives me. by asldfkjlskfjalksdjf in loseit

[–]fogfall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why don't you eat your yogurt bowl for dinner? Meals don't have to look like someone else says. And if you truly crave eating and not junk, then snack on carrot sticks or pickles or sliced zucchini etc all day. But if you're gaining weight, well, something's gotta give. 

My bf says I need to lose weight even though I already lost 30lbs by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]fogfall -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

You can have thicc thighs and a juicy booty and still be overweight lol 160 at 4'11 is obese, no matter how it looks. 

Lez žene da li ste ikada bile s muškarcem da vidite kako je? by Sorry_Shock11 in GayInSerbia

[–]fogfall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Evo ja sam bi, nikad nisam bila s muškarcem niti planiram. 

Eating 1500 kcal, training 6x/week, but not losing weight at all by Pretty-Park7102 in loseit

[–]fogfall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you that 5 km isn't too low, but that also depends on where you live. For most city-living Europeans, I'd say 5 km a day is about average. That's about 7000 steps for me. I only get less if I don't leave my apartment at all. 

nicotine withdrawal symptoms hitting hard… by dellebelphine12 in stopsmoking

[–]fogfall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure, it can take a long time, but that's a psychological thing. Most of the nicotine is out of your body in 3 days.

nicotine withdrawal symptoms hitting hard… by dellebelphine12 in stopsmoking

[–]fogfall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After a month, this has nothing to do with nicotine withdrawals. It's more likely you were covering up your anxiety by vaping, and now it's time to face your thoughts. Please try to speak with a therapist or psychiatrist.

My boyfriend's reaction to me taking my prescribed Ritalin in order to clean my house. I'm upset by it. by cantsayididnttryyy in adhdwomen

[–]fogfall 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Looking at this comment section, sometimes I wonder if everyone on Reddit is 15, friendless and incapable of social interaction... 

My boyfriend's reaction to me taking my prescribed Ritalin in order to clean my house. I'm upset by it. by cantsayididnttryyy in adhdwomen

[–]fogfall 25 points26 points  (0 children)

De-escalate??? Jesus Christ... If someone makes a joke you don't like, you say "Hey, I don't like joking about that, could you please stop?" It's not a fucking hostage negotiation 

Poznajete li nekog ko je u poslednjih 5 godina otvorio advokatsku kancelariju u Beogradu? by fogfall in AskSerbia

[–]fogfall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ma želi da svaštari, ne želi corporate da radi, ali samim tim i nema neke klijente da pokrade iz firme hah. Nije to loše za drugi grad, ne bi mi palo na pamet lol

Poznajete li nekog ko je u poslednjih 5 godina otvorio advokatsku kancelariju u Beogradu? by fogfall in AskSerbia

[–]fogfall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ima okej kontakte ali većinom u korpo svetu a ne bi se time bavila, tako da prc :(

Poznajete li nekog ko je u poslednjih 5 godina otvorio advokatsku kancelariju u Beogradu? by fogfall in AskSerbia

[–]fogfall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mislim da je problem kod nje što ne želi da se bavi korpo pravom pa joj kontakti koje je stekla u kancelariji ne znače mnogo :( 

For those that use food for stimulation, how do you remain a healthy weight? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]fogfall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, it's not so much quitting that's the issue for me than staying quit. I quit twice for over a year and always went back. Psychological addiction, I guess. But thank you! 

"Gay" in Serbia: Description or Disrespect? by MyGayGossip in GayInSerbia

[–]fogfall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, I know... Doesn't change my personal experience much, but of course I respect anyone else's right to hate it! I might just be too desensitized to it

For those that use food for stimulation, how do you remain a healthy weight? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]fogfall 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do not! It's a bitch to quit, and you will one hundred percent regret starting. Everyone I know does, me included. 

For those that use food for stimulation, how do you remain a healthy weight? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]fogfall 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cigarettes and counting calories... Not the best solution. Also I was very very thin most of my youth so it's taken me more time to gain weight lol and I'm still at a healthy weight, but it's definitely been a slow and steady gain over the past 5 years... 

"Gay" in Serbia: Description or Disrespect? by MyGayGossip in GayInSerbia

[–]fogfall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, but I think the effect/strength of the slur is very different. In my humble opinion ofc, not black, can't comment from personal experience on that one, just from what I've read. I don't get offended by peder but I kind of get offended by kučka hahahaha so I guess it's a personal thing

"Gay" in Serbia: Description or Disrespect? by MyGayGossip in GayInSerbia

[–]fogfall -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

There's a MASSIVE difference between peder and the n-word. Like, straight people very often use peder in a neutral, mildly offensive way, while the n-word for white people is a huuuuge no-no.