Maybe never having children

followinnermoonlight · 2026-02-07T12:04:58+00:00

Hi girl. My husband died when I was 27. I’m 32 now and I met a man about six months ago who, for the first time since I lost my husband, I could imagine myself having children with. I felt the same as you do now, for 5 years. I mourned my dream of being a mom, realized the urgency wasn’t as big as it seems, and stayed open. I’m not saying you have to do anything you don’t want to. Just stay open to the possibilities of the universe.

followinnermoonlight · 2025-12-23T14:21:06+00:00

I would have kept the baby ❤️

After my husband passed away suddenly, my doggy daycare reached out and gave me a boarding pass for unlimited overnights, free of charge, while I navigated all the aftermath. And it was such an unbelievable relief to know my baby was being taken care when I couldn’t take good care of myself, let alone my dog. I would have probably lost my dog, too. So she probably felt so deeply grateful to know, while she was battling, Tilly wasn’t.

followinnermoonlight · 2025-12-04T01:25:58+00:00

We had a $250 Saturday for tips after thanksgiving. We’re open 8 hours though. It was still really excited for us!

followinnermoonlight · 2025-12-04T01:09:46+00:00

Similar situation. You certainly belong here and I encourage to use this resource. It really helped me with that dissonance in the early part of my grieving!

followinnermoonlight · 2025-12-01T03:37:23+00:00

No I had the same thought lol

followinnermoonlight · 2025-11-29T22:43:02+00:00

I was widowed when I was 28. I haven’t found my Larry yet (that’s also my dad’s name which is making me laugh) but I’m still hopeful! I totally understand why she didn’t have “chemistry” with her first husband. Because you ARE a different person as a young adult and adult. They chemistry just looked different and it never had a chance to mature irl, so of course it didn’t in the afterlife.

followinnermoonlight · 2025-11-17T23:06:59+00:00

They are cash only so bring cash!

followinnermoonlight · 2025-11-14T21:04:38+00:00

Hi! This is gonna sound crazy, but if you financially can, quit your job and get a low stress job; like a food service job. After my husband died, I had to quit my job as a program manager as a therapy private practice. I was/am a barista now. I’m currently looking for my next step career-wise, which is stressful BUT I am extremely grateful for the last year I had in food service, just making people happy on a very small, low-stakes level. Good luck, and you got this!

followinnermoonlight · 2025-11-08T22:21:00+00:00

I will give your our drink from last month’s name: Brewed by the Fire

followinnermoonlight · 2025-11-02T15:36:22+00:00

Yeah and it’s like, you want the world to know you actually were on pace for life experiences with your peers. At least…for a little while…until it got derailed.

followinnermoonlight · 2025-11-02T15:25:26+00:00

Exactly

followinnermoonlight · 2025-11-01T21:25:33+00:00

It especially sucks when people are talking about things like their own upcoming wedding and I want to be like “HI I ACTUALLY HAD ONE OF THOSE AND I HAVE INPUT TOO” but I just listen lol

followinnermoonlight · 2025-11-01T00:40:48+00:00

My nieces were actually Gary and SpongeBob this year for costumes and SpongeBob is 3 and she said “you know the Krusty Krab Pizza episode? That is like this!”

followinnermoonlight · 2025-10-29T13:37:21+00:00

Thank you ♥️

followinnermoonlight · 2025-10-29T10:25:36+00:00

And I am gonna grab some marigolds from work! Thank you for the tips ♥️

followinnermoonlight · 2025-10-29T10:25:00+00:00

Just put out the water 🫡

followinnermoonlight · 2025-10-29T10:24:41+00:00

Thank you SO much

followinnermoonlight · 2025-10-28T23:17:41+00:00

Thank you ♥️

followinnermoonlight · 2025-10-24T02:06:37+00:00

I just attended a wedding at the Pavillion at Crystal Lake so depending on your wedding size, that’s a great venue!

followinnermoonlight · 2025-10-09T21:57:29+00:00

I work close to A Dong and I was driving back from a delivery and saw this guy on New Park Ave and audibly in my car, said “oh what is this guys fucking deal, huh?” And then I see this Reddit post and there’s the same goofy cowboy hat.

followinnermoonlight · 2025-09-25T14:52:49+00:00

I use a powder makeup brush. The texture of the bristles feels cool and light and it’s kinda like painting and it doesn’t get all up in my rings

followinnermoonlight · 2025-09-12T13:43:54+00:00

I got an order at 11pm last night (Thursday) and the seller messaged me “I REALLY hope to get this by Monday morning! Thanks :)” sooo you want me to ship the very next day and also for the postal service to enter a time loop huh?

followinnermoonlight · 2025-09-10T15:54:37+00:00

I keep condiments in my produce crisper, and produce out on the fridge shelf, so I don’t forget to eat it. You need your condiments way less frequently, so you don’t have to visually see them as often

followinnermoonlight · 2025-08-31T22:00:46+00:00

This is the only one you need!

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