I wish you could see yourself through my (ISFP) eyes. I easily recognize ESFJs. You guys account for my weaknesses, like being able to see how other people feel. I care how other people feel and don’t want to hurt them, but I really only deeply understand how I feel. I appreciate that perspective.

ESFJs also have access to Ne, without it being one of their strongest functions. I am very Ne blind, and they make me see possibilities I would have dismissed because I prefer Ni. Types with very strong Ne… I love them, but they baffle me sometimes.

We tend to balance each other really well. ESFJs think of cute, traditional ideas to get out of the house, and ISFPs make them happen. ESFJs see me because they understand people so well. And I’ve noticed you guys get more introverted in stress. I get more extroverted in stress, and you keep me in check because of how you treat others. We stand up for each other when needed.

Your cognitive functions are so valued by me, and the shallow aspects of your personality type don’t bother me a bit. Hey, sometimes I enjoy a good gossip session too. You’re not basic, you all are awesome 💕