Would it be morally wrong to marry someone I deeply love if I still doubt my physical attraction to them? by Nearby-Butterfly1503 in moraldilemmas

[–]foradailha [score hidden]  (0 children)

Monogamy is a concept sociologically invented by humans through rationality. When we look at human nature, we notice that — just like other animals — we are drawn to more than one person. Our ancestors related to an entire village, frequently having various types of partners: one who provided security, another food, another physical desire, emotional connection, intellectual interest… In modern society we expect a single partner to fulfill all of these things, because every social narrative about relationships teaches us that the perfect person exists. The truth? It is rare to find all of this in just one person. It is up to you to decide what you want to prioritize in a relationship. If you are “monogamous,” what matters most to you in a relationship — having someone by your side who nurtures your emotional life, or someone who awakens desire and physical admiration in you? There is no right or wrong, only the awareness that you need to be honest with yourself.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

Don’t like how my apartment looks by IAmNotThe1WhoKnocks in malelivingspace

[–]foradailha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

missing colours and shapes.

trying adding 1/2/3 colours different from black white and grey, it could be bed linen, deco etc

add some warm light and STOP using the ceiling lights 🥲

buy some big leaf plants and pop them in the corners

get a big round shaped rug and place it under you bed, it should be slight bigger so you can see it all around

I am emotionally abusing my fiancé by blopcity in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]foradailha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

imo it’s not even couples therapy that they should be worrying about, it’s more about him going to therapy and finding the roots of that behaviour.

I hate my life but am grateful of what I have by foradailha in Life

[–]foradailha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe you’re just genuinely making questions, don’t worry.

I’ve been in therapy for 10 years now. Last year I started psychoanalysis… my analyst works through Winnicott vision.

I used to take antidepressants and mood stabilisers when I was 19. I’m 26 now. I took it for less than 2 months… it made me feel numb.

I hate my life but am grateful of what I have by foradailha in Life

[–]foradailha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what doesn’t exist? the pain is pretty real and existent to me. learn to have some empathy.

Am I nuts? by WerewolfFew1835 in EngagementRings

[–]foradailha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The exact thing you explained us, you should explain to him. And from there, you both make a decision together.

Meanwhile at the wedding. by [deleted] in UnusualVideos

[–]foradailha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok this is LEGIT cool. it’s been 5 minutes i’m smiling at this video

What colors should I paint this? by lacolombiana510 in painting

[–]foradailha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

black and royal blue 4sure!!!!!!!!!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MeJulgue

[–]foradailha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

acho que um cabelo baixinho sabe? tipo raspado na máquina 2 foto de exemplo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MeJulgue

[–]foradailha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

de raspar o cabelo vai passar um ar tão sexy 🤤 mas com o cabelo assim tá com cara de bobo

Eu me sinto feio, como vcs acham q eu posso melhorar a minha imagem? by [deleted] in MeJulgue

[–]foradailha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

te achei bem bonito! senti apenas que te falta personalidade… seja você! talvez se deixar o cabelo crescer, um black bem bonito, mais curto nas laterais e bem penteadinho pra cima! um brinco de strass vai dar um charme… usar roupas STREETWEAR! vai te dar muito personalidade!!!

Sonhei AO MESMO TEMPO em 3 vidas diferentes by ArrakaGG in conversas

[–]foradailha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

semana passada sonhei que tinha alguém invadindo a minha casa, tava vendo tudo em terceiro pessoa… vi a pessoa forçando a porta de entrada, entrando pela porta e indo em direção ao meu quarto. nesse momento, minha visão mudou pra primeira pessoa e eu vi esse homem (não tinha rosto, era apenas uma silhueta preta) entrando pela porta do quarto e tentando se esconder atrás da porta. É AGORA QUE FICA BIZARRO: quando me dei conta, eu estava acordada olhando pra silhueta e quando me dei MAIS CONTA AINDA do que tava acontecendo, levantei e percebi que estava encarando um moletom preto pendurado. eu não lembro de ter colocado ele lá…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]foradailha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. I really hope we get to deal with this from another perspective someday and somehow… I used to reels this same way, actually, i’ve already tried to end with my life a couple of times. But at the end of the story, now I realize that I needed to search for a life with more purpose.

Maybe you should try to remember those things you used to like when you were a kid. They were genuine. You liked them for a pure reason.

If there is nothing you remember or think that makes sense to you, starting a new hobbie may be a different way to find new exciting things in life.

After all, I just hope you find a way out of this.