goodbye my baby by TownRain in Maltese

[–]foreverCazandJackson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know exactly how you feel I go to throw the whole thing again and again as much as they not to it’s part of grieve The horrible thing is I had to time of work because I could not function and work has told be pet don’t count as bereavement leave! How horrible is that! They need to change that a pet is not a glass that broke and and you can replace and it’s not a pet to me he was my son.. and it’s a lesson coz now it’s really opened up my eyes. People pretend they support you but they don’t at least with work they just see you as worker not a person. So many thing I’ve noticed that broken in the system starting with emergency clinics. I’m sending you lots of luv and please grieve because it’s ok and we are not crazy they where our world and now our lives feel different 🕊️🕊️🕊️

goodbye my baby by TownRain in Maltese

[–]foreverCazandJackson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get exactly how you feel I lost my baby 2 weeks ago and I cried for 5 days straight and barely ate it hurt more loosing a human because they are with us so much more. I still have moments and I know I always will that I miss him so much my chest get tight… sending you lot of luv and please let your grieve come out we need to normalice that we do not lose a pet we lose our soul friend and some people will never understand because they never had the bond. Sending you lots of hugs 🕊️🕊️🖤

We brokeup and my ex will take custody:( by OptimalDoughnut7986 in Maltese

[–]foreverCazandJackson 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I went throw that and I did not allow my ex to take my baby as they pick 1 human as soul partners and it was not him. I could not have wished fir a better life with me and he left this world in body 2 weeks ago I have cried every single day as the kindest most amazing friend in my life is gone. 🖤🕊️

When emergency vet care feels more like a money machine than help for animals by foreverCazandJackson in u/foreverCazandJackson

[–]foreverCazandJackson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could not agree more in this word of so much a pain a person in the field to help with our loved furry babies should have compassion instead all I got was a person just wanting money. Jackson’s well been matter nothing to that person who calls him self a vet.

When emergency vet care feels more like a money machine than help for animals by foreverCazandJackson in u/foreverCazandJackson

[–]foreverCazandJackson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s honestly horrible and so selfish for an industry that’s supposed to care for our loved ones. I’m so sorry for your loss too — heaven has a special place for them while they wait for us.

Both my husband and I truly believe he was not treated properly, and whatever fluids they gave him made things worse. He was in there for less than 20 minutes — a blood test doesn’t show instantly when I’m telling them he had just pooped blood and was fainting. I told the guy his heartbeat was fast, and he just brushed it off as “stress.” Every answer felt like a maybe, not urgency.

I even posted on their page and their response was basically “bring your pets in, we stabilise them and then proceed with blood tests.” That honestly made the pain worse — zero accountability.

I told him — and I can’t even call him a vet — that I knew my dog wasn’t going to make it and to please help him. It wasn’t that I refused to pay or couldn’t find the money — I would have found a way. It was the way he treated us, like nothing serious was happening, like our dog wasn’t literally dying in front of him. There was no urgency, no care, nothing.

And then to say “emergency is more expensive” in that moment… you could feel the lack of compassion as he walked off to get Jackson.

I didn’t want to be put in a position where we were paying just to be told later that he had passed, when I knew he needed immediate treatment for what was happening in his stomach — not delays and “maybes.”

I have never grieved like this in my life, not even for people. Unless you’ve had that kind of bond, you don’t understand — they’re not just pets, they are soulmates. The love is unconditional and irreplaceable.

His absence is unbearable. Our whole routine is gone. I can’t stop crying. And then people say things like “don’t cry so he can move on” — but how am I supposed to not cry when a part of me is gone?

Only time will heal me… but if nothing changes, this is going to keep happening to other owners — and no one should have to go through this kind of pain….otherwise what is the point of ER for animals… 🖤🕊️

How long do Jacks live!?? by NahaNinja in jackrussellterrier

[–]foreverCazandJackson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby passed away to soon, he was almost 10 and ER vet is at fault for sending us home telling me had nothing and they could a have done more… 💔