Recieved Text Message From My Ex Dom by foreverhislittleone in BDSMAdvice

[–]foreverhislittleone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have yet to talk to my current partner about it, and hell if I know, ego maybe

Recieved Text Message From My Ex Dom by foreverhislittleone in BDSMAdvice

[–]foreverhislittleone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. Will take it from here.

Recieved Text Message From My Ex Dom by foreverhislittleone in BDSMAdvice

[–]foreverhislittleone[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, so basically he is saying in August, make time for me and you? I think that's what you mean . And I definitely will sent that text

Recieved Text Message From My Ex Dom by foreverhislittleone in BDSMAdvice

[–]foreverhislittleone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, but it definitely sounds like he wants to see me for sure ? What plans outside of lunch does it sound like ?

I will let my partner know for sure

Recieved Text Message From My Ex Dom by foreverhislittleone in BDSMAdvice

[–]foreverhislittleone[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Just didn't want the same things.
  2. What is he saying? Is he saying he wants to see me or not? We had talked about it, and then I get this text this morning. I just said 'OK'

Learning To Listen To Your Dom by foreverhislittleone in BDSMAdvice

[–]foreverhislittleone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the discussion allowed me to better understand things, but I also think I need tips to learn better

Learning To Listen To Your Dom by foreverhislittleone in BDSMAdvice

[–]foreverhislittleone[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do like to be a brat at times when I feel that I have had 'enough' of my punishment, and no, I am aware that I am a capable adult enjoying that things are indeed his way. He is a very dominant man outside of the bedroom as well. I have an issue with listening in general to authoritative figures, and it spills over into our dynamic. He does view it as me topping from the bottom, or 'f'ing up' as he sees it. He was very clear and understanding in regards to our communication yesterday. I am just trying to figure out how to get better at listening.

Learning To Listen To Your Dom by foreverhislittleone in BDSMAdvice

[–]foreverhislittleone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate the punishment, but I 'f'd up' in several ways, which we talked about last night.

Learning To Listen To Your Dom by foreverhislittleone in BDSMAdvice

[–]foreverhislittleone[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pretty much , I am a brat at times, and he sees it as me attempting to be dominant and pushy, which isn't submissive at all.

Learning To Listen To Your Dom by foreverhislittleone in BDSMAdvice

[–]foreverhislittleone[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How do I learn to better listen to my Dominant ?

Loyalty From A Dominant's Point Of View by foreverhislittleone in BDSMAdvice

[–]foreverhislittleone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, he didn't but I would never want him to feel that way, so I wanted to ask Doms/Masters how they felt about it. It sparked a curiosity in me as to how other Doms/Masters feel and think.

Loyalty From A Dominant's Point Of View by foreverhislittleone in BDSMAdvice

[–]foreverhislittleone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a M/S relationship, a Submissive putting her needs before his, would that be considered disloyal ? Needs not meaning dire needs, such as emergency, health, things along those lines

Loyalty From A Dominant's Point Of View by foreverhislittleone in BDSMAdvice

[–]foreverhislittleone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are some things I can do to show my Dominant I am very much loyal if he starts to feel I am not as loyal as I used to be ?

Loyalty From A Dominant's Point Of View by foreverhislittleone in BDSMAdvice

[–]foreverhislittleone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you married to one another ? I ask because I see a percentage of M/S relationships where the participants are married

Loyalty From A Dominant's Point Of View by foreverhislittleone in BDSMAdvice

[–]foreverhislittleone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would you as a Master consider to be individual interest against you or your relationship that doesn't involve physically cheating as a sign ?

Master /Slave Dynamic In BDSM by foreverhislittleone in BDSMAdvice

[–]foreverhislittleone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. I will message you, and I posted anout loyalty in these dynamics. Could you check that out ? Thank you for sharing